究竟出现了第三者走到恋爱终点咋办

 zaixianrujinnanduonvshaodeshidaitezhengxia，meiyimingnvshideshenpangyebuqianquechusedenanxingzhuiqiuwanmei。lianaizhongdianyingduizhuduodejingzhengduishou，nanshengtongchanghuishizhanshichuhunshenjieshulaidedao nvxingdehuanxin。shijishang，bujinshinanxingzhuiqiuwanmeinvxing，aishishenmenijianxindangzishenzaoyuyiweikushuai、boxueduocai、pojuqizhidenanshi，yehuihendangrandebaqilierudao“lieshi”defanchou。neimagairuhezhengqueyingduidisanzheni?

顺水推舟，合乎他的品位

 meiyiweinanrenxihuandenvrendoushigeyoubutongde，youdexiaiduanzhuangdianya，youdexiaiwumeidongren，youdexiaiwenwenerya。buyiyangzhongleidenvxingbulunshicongwaizaihuanshibenzhi，jirendejuedequanshijiongranbutongde，yinci shunshuituizhouhenzhongyao。zaipingchanggoutongjiaoliudequanguochengzhizhong，nenggouduoshejidaoyixietaduinvxingdeyixieguandian，yixiejianjie，jinermotoulingyifangxihuandeleixing，suihouyijubenshendelejiehewaibuduicileizhongleichuanyifuyizhedejutizhidao，jianxinzaizhuduonvxingzhizhongyiyanbianhuikanzhongzishen。zheijiurutong，zhenduiyigexiaicaomeireneryan，tazongshizhongshicaomeidezhiliang，erburongyizaiyidayingtaodepinxiangheweier。

buguanzenyang，bixuyoujianshi

该怎么应对第三者-应对第三者的方式

 huoxuyouderenhuijuede，yaoshiyigenvrenyouzhangxiang，shushichuanzhedapeijiukeyifuhuoquanbunanrenxin，lianaizhongdianshijishangbushizheiyangde。yaohaijide，nanrenshikeguandedaicheng。tamendelixing，zhicunyouyuduizheiyinvxingdediyiyinxiang，yinci waizaidezhuangshizhiyoushibayanguangxiyinzhuhuilai，yaoxiangjinyibudefazhanqushi，jiubixuyoubenzhidejianshi。dangliangrenyiqizuozhe，bulunshixieshougongjinmeiwei，huanshishenruchayun，doubixukaizhangoutongjiaoliu。zaicongmingdenanxingyanqian，tongchangnenggougenjujianjiemingledehuihua，laifenbianliangrenshibushiheshizaiyiqi。yinci qingshanggaodenvren，yidingbubikoumenduizhuanyezhishideleiji。duodushuduhaoshu，duhaoshu，nanrenzaiwaibianchuangdang，jingliguogezhonggeyangchangjing，yibandexiaofangshishitaobuchuzheileirendefayan。duobawoyixieyouguannanxingdexinlizhuangtai，zaizheishikanqilaizhiguanzhongyao。

在遭受竞争对手的叫嚣时，要淡定自若

 jiranshi“lieshi”，neimachongzhetadezhunxindangranbujinyige。yingduixinxineirongshejimianposhendejingzhengduishou，mianbulexinxihuijindaodaolingyifangdeerli。zheigeshihou，feichangdashuipingshangkeyiyingduide，shilingyifangjiyuzishendeyixiejiaoxiao、jingshinaizhishiweixie。jiejuezheizhongjiaoweijibukenaidezhonglei，zishenbixuweichidebianshidandingcongrongdexinlizhuangtai，qiewufangcundaluan。jiaruzheigenanrenzaoyibeizishendebiaomiansuoxiyinzhu，qieyantanjuzhidoushifendekaixin，neimajiubixubingzhequzhangbuduandebiaozhun，gengweibiandazheiyicengyoudian。lingyifangdenu，lingyifangdehen，lingyifangdepo，dounenggougenjubenshendedandingcongrongrangqidedaochongfenyunyong。ciwai，zishenzhizuoyijianshiqing，neibianshiyirujiwangdiduitahao。neiyanggenjubizhaojiuhenxianzhule，naweizhenzhixingyouya，naweizaiyanzang，jiudouyimuleran，bubizhengfengxiangdui，yaoyuqinguzong。

 nandeweihezhaodisanzhe?shijishangxuduo nanshitongchangshiyinweiduirichangshenghuodekuzao，huoshiyishidebulizhi。zheiyinvxing，huranjitamenyanqianyiliangdejuede。liangrenchupengyihou，nvxingkanqilaiqihuibunengziba，keshishishangduitaeryan，aishishenmenihuoxushizaipingdandeshenghuozhizhongdeyizhongdiaoliao。yinci mishangyigeyoubiedeqingganderen，bingbingbushikeguandetiaoxuan，bibushangyongshanyufajuedeshuangyan，jiangdaliangdefangshiyongyishenpangdegaopinzhinanxing，huoxuqueshihuihuodeguishuyuzishendeneiyifenyonghengbubian。