究竟遇到恋爱结婚当中出现了第三者，怎么对付

 disanzhelinianlaishizhengshimentoutongdejujiaodian，zheinanrenba，meiyouqianshenghuoshangxin，huannanfuqi100tianai。aishishenmeniyouleqian，qingganshangxin，zheinanshengkeyixinlai，zhudounengpashu。yinci ，lianaijiehunrujindelaopobujinshishangdetingtang，shedexiacantingchufang，gengyingdoudeledisanzhe，holdzhuzhangfu。neimafajuedisanzhezenmechulini?

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最先，要让另一方的爸爸妈妈同意来“前去镇压”你的丈夫

 zaoshoudisanzheyinggaizenmeban?yaolejiechuleneiyangdeshier，jiarujiejuebutaihao，feichangrongyijifazhangfudezhuanbian，huoxuhaiqueshigensuidisanzheyuanzoutaxiangle。yinci ，nibuyaogenzhangfuqizhengliandemaodun。zheiyishierhuanshijilingyifangdebabamamagoutongjiaoliuxia，ranglingyifangdebabamamalaichulizheiyijianshierbijiaohao。youyulingyifangdebabamamatongchangburongyiqidaizishendexiaohaihunyinshenghuoduozhongduoyangcuobai。disanzhezhongjiumeiyouzhengshikekao，zhengshitongchangshizaishenghuoshangxindeqingkuangxiajiageinansheng，ershenghuohaoguoqule，disanzhetongchangquanshilaicengqiande，meiyouhaoduogeshichengxinchengyide。laodajiashiyoujingyanrenyibanzheizhongdaolidoudongde。ziranjiaruniyunidegonggongpopoguanxiehuadezheizhaojiujinshenshiyong。youyuyeshiyouyixiegonggongpopobuyidingbianhuigaoqingchushenmeshilichangjianding，youshinaizhihuishiyongdajiadefenqi，suoshizhangfugenniliyi。yinci ，zishenneixinyaoqingxilingyifangshibushinengqueshibangshangnizailiao。

次之，要去找第三者的爸爸妈妈及企业

 jiarunifajuedisanzhezhendeshinanyiyingduideren，neimanijiuyaotantingdisanzhedebabamama，qujidisanzhetanyitanzheiyijianshier，biaomingxiangyaojidisanzheyigegailedejiyu，zhongjiuhenidenanrenzaiyiqizhangqixingzhanzhujiao，lianaijiehunduidisanzhemeiyounaxiehaodeweihai。yaojianxindisanzhedebabamamayidingdoubuqidaidisanzhehuichuxianneiyangderenshengdaolu。bingqieninengdandadegaozhilingyifangdebabamama，jinqiandouhuinizheier，tayagenbutaikenengcongzheicihunyinchuguizhongdedao shenmehaochu。niwangwangjiegu，youyunihaixiangweihubaoyangnidejia，youyuniyouxiaohai。congguzhijinzhenzhideganqingdougengnengchudongneixin，nizenmehedisanzhedou，doubibushangdisanzhequanzidongdetunqu。

再度，你和丈夫谈一谈

 nixuyaozhaoyigeshihedejiyuhezhangfutanyitan，bubigentadachaodanao。bingqiehuadoushuoqizaizaodianshang。ninengwenyiwenta，xiaohaidouneimebianda，xiangweizijidexiaohaisuzaoyigenaxiedekaimo。xianggaohunwailian，liyibushibuneng，danshixiaohaini?niqidaitaguodelianpinkushanqupinkunertongyiyangme?ershijiutihuibushangshenmeshijiatinghexie，shenmejiaoxingfuhehuanle。jiarulingyifangkeyilejienideaihaixing。jiarulingyifangbulijie，neimaninengduitashuo，yaobugun，jingshenchuhu，xiaohaideshanyangfeinantimeigeyueheshiji，ninenglikechuanyangtayudisanzhezhongjiandejiechuganqing，yaoganfangqi。yaobuliuyou，badisanzhejijifenshou。nianlinghendale，jielehunzaiwanhunwailian，budanbufuzeren，bingqiehaihenduibuqizishendejiazhong。

 nvxingzheiyisheng，meiyouhaoduogerenshengzaishideyouxianzizaide，chikuzaiqiande，tongchangxiangshouhoumian。aishishenmeniyaojianxinzaowuzhuduisheiquanshigongzhengde，meiyouneimawanmeideren，doumeiyoukendingjizhideshier。