恋爱结婚当中出现了第三者，应该怎么对付

 xuduo rendaotaolunhunwailiandeexingshijianshi，tongchanghushilebabamamazheiyibijiaoguanjiandeyaosu，aishishenmenijuedefuqizhijiandeganqingwentijinjinliangrendeshi，shijishang，lianaijiehunmeiyigerendebabamamaquanshizuirenshizijizinvdejiaren。

 daerziyoudisanzhe，babamamagaizenmeban?yingduidaerziwaiyuzheileizhuangkuang，babamamaxiangzhizhiduwaishibuheluojide，zhongjiubabamamachengdanjiaoyuzishenxiaohaideyiwu，bingqiedaerzijiatinghunyinhemuxingfukuaileshifou，yelijiweihaidaobabamamarichangshenghuodepinzhi。neimadaerziyoudisanzhegaizenmeban?babamamayingdangzenyangyingduihejiejueni?lixingdebabamamanenggouchangshineiyangzuo：

最先，掌握大儿子外遇的缘故

 daerziweishenmezhaodisanzhe，shitayuxifuzhongjiancunyouwenti，fuqizhijianyongyou bunengdiaohedefenqi，huanshitaaimuxurong，xiangzaidisanzhedeshenshangzhaoxunxindecijixing，huoshishidaerzizikongnenglibuzu，shouledisanzhedemeihuo，yishibukeyilengjingxialai，duixifuyuxiaohaibuwenbuwen。zuoweibabamama，dangdaerzideshenshangchanshengzheileizhuangkuang，zuiguanjiandeshixianmotoushierdeqianyinhouguo，bunengqinglvfuzhuxingdong，rubadaerzipokoudamahuozhongzhongdijingyanjiaoxunjifan，shuoxiexiuruxingdeyuju，yihuoshizongrongdaerzidegerenxingwei，jiuyouyuzuobabamamadebutairenkezishendexifuer，bianrangdaerzisiwujidan。lianaijiehunhenduorenshuozuobabamamadeyizhizhongaizishendedaerzi，baerxifudangbierenduidai，pengdaoshieryaobuzhengyizhiyanbiyizhiyan，yaobubangzhedaerzizeguaierxifu。xixinxiangyixiang，zheizhonggerenxingweiquanshibumingzhide，zuofumu，jirandaerziyongyouzishendejiazhong，kandaidaerziyuxifueryingdangcaiyonggongpinggongpingyoushandexin，babamamaquanshiyoujingyanren，nengshenyoutihui。

zenmejiejuedisanzhenanti，jinyouzhangwojinyibudezhuangkuang，babamamacaikeyizuochugengqiangdejiejueduice。

次之，各自和儿子和儿媳沟通交流

 babamamabixugezizhaodaerziyuerxitanyitanhua，pangguanzheqingdangjuzhemi，yixienantiwanbeishibixubabamamadetishihezhengqueyindaode。kandaidaerzi，babamamayingdangyizhengciyandiliangzhezhijianjiaotan，quanjietaxiaonanzihanjiranbianchengjia，jiuchengdanduijiazhongbunengduobideyiwu，zaiqizhong，duihunyinaiqingdezhongshishishifenguanjiande，errentongxin，taishanyi，jiarutongchuangyimeng，zhangciyiwang，ganqingkenengxiaotui，jiazhongzaoyuhuimie。zhengqueyindaodaerzilejiezijidexinli，bunengbahunyinshenghuozuoweierxi，hunhundundundeguoshenghuo，dezhenxiyongyoufuqizhijiandeqingfen。yingduierxifu，babamamadaliangdeshiguanhuaiyutiexin，batazuoweizijiguinvkandai，rangqishaoshouqi，xingfukuailediheerzirichangshenghuo。jiaruxifuerlejiedaerziyoudisanzhedegerenxingwei，babamamabixujinkenengfuweixifuerfushangdeneixin，zanyangxifuerdeshenshangdexingfupinxing，biaoshubabamamaduixifuerderentongyuzhongai，suihouyaochizedaerzitaobizerendegerenxingwei，shuomingbabamamajiangjilihaohaodijiaoyudaerzi，lingtajiuzhengcuowu，xinguijiazhong。

再度，生产制造大量一家阖家团圆的机遇

 qingganzhongzailingjulidehuihuagoutongjiaoliu，babamamahebuanshinongxieyanhui，changheerzihexifueryongcanxianliao，aishishenmeniguanchatamenfuqizhijiandehemudu，lijidiqiangdiaohechuliyixienanti。haikeyidaizhudaerziyuxifuerchulailvyou，shitamenshifangyali，zhenxinshiyideyingduixianghu。