遇到爱情出轨，究竟正室怎样击败第三者的呢

 shenghuoburuyizhishishiyoubajiu，hunyinshenghuojiushizaiqizhongzhiyi。zaiwomenyaneryouxindeyongganqing、aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomachengnuodaqihunyinshenghuodeguchengbao，bingzailimianjiaoaozimanshi，dajiashijishangzaoyishizaoyusimianchugedeweiji，aiqingchuguiliruhunwailian。

 hunwailianshidajiagengweipubiandehunlianwenti，danshixuduo xifuzaifajuezhangfuyongyouhunwailianyihou，xuanyongdequanshibulixingdefangshiquyingduidisanzhe，zuizhongzaocheng leshiershibangongbei，liangrenzuihouyezhiyoubugaoerbie、caocaoshouchang。yingduidisanzhedefangshishishubushengshu，danconghuidelaopokandaizhangfuhunwailian，huichenzhelengjing、lizhi、qiejiejuededexinyingshou，neimajiujingzheizhongconghuidexifudouyingyonglenaxiedefangshilaikandaidisanzhe，zuowenzhengqizhizhini?

行于心，不表于色，以包容的心待之。

 dangtamenfajuezhangfuyongyoudisanzheyihou，tamenzuikaishizuodebingbushilangkuguihao，zhishizainaozhongyoubujiqishuzhongbulizhiyaoxiangzhengsilingyifangdelingwai，lizhichenzhelengjing，shenmedoubuxiangshuo。youyutamenqingxidelejie，dadanaonaobudanburongyiyouhaodejieguo，zuihouhenyoukenengyehuijiangjinyoudeyidianqingganyexiaohaodaijinle，erzheixianeryijianbingbushitamenyaoxiangdejieguo。

 yinci ，zaizheigeshihou，tamenjibian zaishangxin、nanguo，yezongshizaixinzhongmomodidebushufuzhe;chucizhiwai，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomatamenxiaochurenzhinenglizheishilaogonghedisanzhexianeryijianzaoyihangxieyiqi。yinci duiwaikaifang，tamenshixintaijiweijiandingbuyi，danyouwushili;duili，yiaiguangaihunyinshenghuo，rangzhangfuzhongfanzishenwenrouxiang。tamenkegumingxindegaoqingchu，yingduidisanzheshidefangfa，bingbushiyongbeibidefangshijiangtamenganpao，zhishiyiyouhao、kuanrongdexin，jiangzhangfuwanliu。

把握恰当，谈笑自若。

 shuobailedebaorongdexin，bingbubaohanzheixieyihuihuaibierenjiazhongdedisanzhe，kandaizheizhongdisanzhe，xifubixuzuodebianshikuai、zhun、wen。yifangmianyaolizaifalvfaguideshijiaoqujiejuenanti，yiqiefangfa、fangshibixubawoqiadang，buzuoyiqieweifanguidingzhishi，lirudajiadouou、dajia，chuxianbiantilinshangdekongbujiemian。zhishizaifalvfaguifanchouneijiangyiqieshierjiejuededang，liruzhaoxunsijiazhentan，duidisanzhekaizhanzhenshixingmingzhaorenhejingshenshizhijingong，xianluanqixin，zailuanzishen，zuizhongjiangqixinshencuihui，bukezaihuihuaizishendehunyinshenghuo。

尽较大 的勤奋，但也搞好最坏的打算。

 hunyinshenghuochuxiandisanzhe，bingbujinshilaogonghedisanzhedenanti，yeshiyoubenshenhehunyinshenghuodengnanti。zheigeshihouzishenyidingyaoquelizishendeguandian，jiujingzhangfushizhongchengyuzishenhehunyinshenghuo，huanshipianzhongyudisanzhehehunwailian，weicimingquezishenshichuyubeidonghuanshijiji。jiaruzhangfuhuanshizhongchenghunyinshenghuo，neimajiuduoziwofansihetishengziwo，xunzhaodaozhizhangfuchuguideyuanyin，erqieduizhengzhiliaojiejuehaonanti。danjiaruzhangfurengranyanfanzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo，erqieduidisanzheshifendechixin，zheigeshihouzishenjiuxuyaokaolvdaoshibushiliyi，yizuishaodesunhaizuodaoyuguzuiyoulideshijixiaoguo。

 yingduidisanzhebingbushiyijianfeichangrongyizhishi，yinci zuoweilaopowulunzishenshiheniantou，bixucongrenti、xinlizhuangtaidengcengmiangaohaodagongjianzhandetiqianzhunbei。zaizheigequanguochengzhongganwanbukeyiyinyixiesuoshidongcudongqi，qihuaidiaozishenderenti，aiqingchuguizhishiyaogaohaoshenmouyuanlv，yongzishenjiaoda shuipingdexixin，duikandaidisanzhe，rangtamenzhinanertui。