究竟出现了第三者的情感问题咋办的呢

 yaoxiangzhansheng“disanzhe”，yidingyaoyouzhangjiuerjiandingbuyidexinlizhuangtai，bukeyisuibianbeixintaicaokong，yaoquexinzuihoudejihuicaisuanshizhenshidehuosheng，yishidexiaochenjinjinjinitancha“junqing”bale，xuehaoshidudiaojiefangfancuoshi，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomajidenishiheqinghelidezhengshi，ertajinjinjianbukeguang、youyidingdeqitudeqinlvezhe，qingganwentiruguonixunzhaotaderuanzhu，dangranjiuhuiyouyijijizhongdehenyoukeneng，erzheijiushinijibaitadegenbensuozai。

 yi、nixuyaodeshizuoziji，kongzhuzishendexintai，chengxianzishendeqipohechusedeyimian。haohaoaiziji，yigerenyekeyiguodefeichanghaohenjingcaifencheng，weiyounibianchengyigeyoufengcaidenvxing，caihuigengweixiyinnanren，lingrenshebudefangqini。

 nenggouyijuzishendeboruodian，xuexipeixunchuanzhedapei、caiyibiaoyanshufayishu、duanlianshoushendeng，rangzishencongchixutisheng gongzuonenglizhongdedao xinxin。duokanshuxuexinlixue、kongzhinenglideng，suzaozishendeluojisiweigongzuonengli，quexin“niruoanhao，qingfengzilai”，buxuyaoshengsilijie，buxuyaochizemaiyuan，bucouhesuoyouren，dandoubusuibianlingrentupozijidedaodedixian、caitazishendezizun。jianxinzijiyidingnengzuowenzishendebuwei，jianchibuxiedaowailuhuoshengdexiaorong。jinciyizhan，jishifazhanzishen，yeshiwanshansiwei。

 er、shidudeyingyongduice，longluolaozhanyou，danyidingyaobazijifangdaoanquanxingbuweishang，bubibeidisanzhefanyaoyikou，sukuniyouyizhengta。liru，ninengqudisanzhedeqiyezhoubianfuji，genchangchangchupengdisanzhe、naizhiqiahaoshifangandisanzhederenbianchengpenyou，qingganwentibuzhibujuebiaoluchu，disanzherujinde“disanzhe”zhenshishenfen，rangdisanzhezaoshoufansudejingong，jienaliangzhidekaowen。ziran，disanzhehuoxubingbuzaiyitashenbianderenzenmejiangruhekan，neimenihainenggouqingrenbangzhuxunzhaodisanzhedefumuren，rangtamentongyiqujiegudisanzhe，zeguaidisanzhe，rangdisanzhezaizhongzhongdemocazulixiaxuehaozhinanertui。

 san、xuehaohuanweisikaoyixia，lizaizhangfudeshijiaoquxiangyixia，taweihechenmidisanzhe，disanzhenengjitamenshenmenisuojibushangdejuede?ninengbunengxuededisanzhedeyoushi，suihoujinizhangfuermuyixin?nilaogongxiangyaonaxiedelaopo，nininengbunengdiaojiezishenbianchengtayaoxiangderen?

 ziran，zheierchangshuodejinixuexipeixunhegenggai，bingbushishuojinizimingqinggaohedaodedixiandeququcongnidenanren，zhishijiaonixuehaobakongdajuyishi，zhaodaonizhangfudeguanjianyaoqiu，ganqingde、huaxuewuzhide，yaoshimeitishengnidedaodedixian，dounenggourangbudewupin。liru，youshihoushiyantayaoxiangdejiaomeidexiaonvziya、chumenlvyoulaiyigezhifumeituia，zheixie，qianwanbieganjuenijiushiruhederen，nizuobuchulairuhe，neiquanshiyizhongziwoshexian，weinichijiudexingfukuailehehuosheng，niyejiudequchuzishi，chaoyueziwo。ziwofansi，xiangtarenxuexipeixunyoushi，tashiyizhongconghuiyuanrong。

 si、dazhenqingpai，“ganqing”deminganzhongjiuhuibukanyiji。dajiayizhixiaichengzanganqingdelanmanhetianmei，neijinjinyinweiaiquefalezhenqingdechentuo。yaoshiyouzhenqingzai，aiqingzhenyebajiayehao，bidinghuixianxianchuqiminganheduanzanxingdemingyun。

 yinci ，conghuidelaopoyingduibizishenchusededisanzhe，yizhihuishanyudazhenqingzheizhangpai。dajiazhongjianyiqiandexingfu，yiqianyiqichikunailaodexingfukuailejiyidianyidi，dounenggoubianchengnizhenqingdepaimian，yeyoudajiadezinv，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomadajiashijinianlaidedouxianghulejie，niyiqianduitadeyicicibaorong……zheiquanbudeyiqie，douruguonijitamenyigeheshideqifen，yigeyouxiaodeyinzi，tamendoushihuibianweiyongyou wuxiannengliangdezhenqingpaimian。