发现老公有第三者，怎么挽救婚姻

 faxianlaogongyoudisanzhe，zenmewanjiuhunyin？hunyinzhongzuizhongyaodeshizhongchenghezunzhong，faxianlaogongyouhunwaiqinghaikeyiwanjiuhunyinma？hunyinbuxianglianaineimejiandan，zaihunyinshenghuozhongjiejuegezhongwenticainengdujuedisanzhe。

1、断开老公经济发展随意

 nvxingzhenduilaogongjingjifazhandecaokongquanyaoyouyidingdecaozong，feichangshichuxiandisanzheyihouyidingyaoduankailaogongdejingjifazhansuiyi。ziranfangshibukeyiguoduqiangshi，zuixiannenggou yijiazhongjingjifazhanyaoqiuweiyuanyinranglaogongquchuqianlaibuzhujiazhong，nenggou shigoufang、xiaohainianshu、babamamagoumaibaoxianzheixie，zheizhongyuanyinshimeifaranglaogonghuijuede。zaigoutongjiaoliudequanguochengzhongbubiguoduqiangshi，zhenduixingyebubiguoduxianzhu。xiankaizhanrouxingdegoutongjiaoliu，tiyixiazheijianshideyichu。

 chukaicaozongjingjifazhanquanyihouhaibixuzhangwolaogongdeshuiliu，qianyongdaonaerlaidao、youshenmekaizhidoubixulaopocuicu，zhuangzuobuqingchulaogongdeqianyonglaidaonaerlaidao，erkeyicaozongkeyiranglaogongmeifazaidisanzhedeshenshangtaoqian。jingjifazhanpolieyihou，bianhuiyanzhongweihaidaolaogonghedisanzhezhongjiandequanyiguanlian。

2、溫柔防守战术，时冷时热

 nanshengtaoyanzhanhuhudenvxing，yetaoyanbinglengdenvxing，danshilengshiredejiaowangfangfazehuirangnanshengzhaojiabuzhu，zhongjiuwufadedaodeshizhongzaizaodong。laoponenggou yikaishichengxianwenroujingong，tiqianzhunbeimeiweikekoudeshicai、tiexindezhaoliaokeyiranglaogongjuedejiazhongdewennuan。denglaogonglveweiyixiehehaoruchuyihouyounenggou caiyongzhilengdefangfa，neiyangdeyuqingguzongkeyijifananshengdereqing。yidanlaogonggangkaishiduizishenhenganxingqu，disanzhejiuhuichenbuzhuqiyoukuyounao，disanzheyuefajiaozong，zhengshigengyaochendezhuqijilaogongkuanwei，neiyanglaogongfandaohuiganjuezaijiazhongdaidegengweishufu、wennuan，jinershuaidiaodisanzhe。

3、绮丽变化

 nanshengshiganxingdongwudouxiaimeilidenvren，yincixuduo dedisanzhequanshinianqingmaomeide，zhengshiyaoxiangwanliulaogongduifudisanzhejiuyidingyaobawonanshidexintaizhuangtai，buhuasuandaozishendeshenshang，jifuhuli、yundongjianshen、piaoliangdeyifusuoyoufenpeiqilai。

 pingshikandianshiju、chimeican，bazishendeyishizhuxingguodejingmei、jingcaifenchengqilai，qilidehuishenrangzheiyinanshenggaoqingchuzishenbingfeibidanshidisanzhe，zhishiyixinyiyideyibianjiazhongtiaoxuanjiesheng。ranglaogongjingxiaxinlaihaohaodisisuo，disanzheshifouhuixiangyaoyibianjiazhong、yibiantasheqixiangshourenshengdezhipeiquan。

 danglaogongzaicibeinixiyinzhuyihou，ninengchenlaogonghedisanzheyouhuideqingkuangxia，yongkuroujiyulaogongzhouxuan。danglaogongsongxieyihouzaibicizhongjianchiyideqingkuangxia，jiushilaogonghedisanzhehunyinpoliezhiji。