发现老公有第三者怎么办？女人如何自救

发现老公有第三者怎么办？女人如何自救？婚外情还是婚姻的头号杀手一点都不为过，很多女性在应对这种事情的时候，最容易犯的错误就是太急，情绪可以理解，但对于挽回婚姻情绪管理也尤为重要，本文分享3个应对婚外情，赶走第三者的方法。

一、控制好自己的情绪

 jiarugangkaishijiubeiyanxiadenvxingyingxiangdaoxinluan，neimabiaomingzaizheiciduijuezhong，nizaoyishudiao。bingqieyidanniwailujinghuang、huangkongbuan、buzhenjingdengzuofashi，disanzhehuizaizheiduanshijianshengchanzhizaowujie，huishifenyirufanzhangdeduozounidezhangfu。

 youyuzaizheiduanshijian，disanzheyunidelaogongpingchuzaiganqingshenggaohuanjie，liangrenaideshiqinmiwujian、shenglingtutande，danyunizhongjianqueshiyouyuanwufenyiban。yinci，qianwanbiejinghuang，zhishitairanziruo，lizhitanrandequxiang，xunzhaoyixieduice。

 liru，nenggouhezhangfuduogoutongjiaoliu、goutongjiaoliu，huoshishengchanzhizaofufuerrenzhongjianxianghudelangmanjingxi，youyuyuniduibi，disanzhezishizhizhongshidisanzhe，yuanpeiyudisanzheshiyoubutongzhichude，zaifufuhunhoushenghuozhong，tayezishizhizhongshigexiaomianren，nibixuzuodejiushishuojiejueniyaohezhangfuxianghuguanxi。

二、要明白和第三者互斗

 shuobailehudoubingbushilianggerenlizaijieshangxianghutuokoudama，zuoneiyangbuliyuxingxiangqizhideshier，zhishibanshizhangwofencun，mingbaiti。lirunenggouzaiyizheshangtigaoziji，rangzishenbiandeyuelaiyueyounvrenqizhi，erbujinjinjiefafuqi。

 liru，duokankanjibenshuyouhanyangdeshu，rangzishenshuohuagengyouxiuyang;liru，duochulaizouyizou，qulvyou，qushejiaomeiti，rangzishendeluojisiweiheshixiangengkuankuo。yibubudetigaoziji，rangzhangfujiandaonideshenshangyishiledeliangdian。neiyangzuo，jiusuandisanzhechuxianzainiyanxia，ninengxinxinnongnongdejiangtabixialai，wuxuzhuizhuibuandedanyouzishenneiyangbutaihao，neibanyebutaihao。

三、找出证据挽回

 jiaruzishenduizheiyiduanqingganshenghuozaoyishiluo，erqiequeshichengshoubushangzhangfuchuguizheiyikeguanshishi，yaoxiangliyishi。neima，dangfajuedisanzheshi，nenggouduoshoujiyixiezhijiezhengju，weizhonghouqiliyixiazuxiangduitiqianzhunbei，fangzhiyixieduoyudebubian。

 zongdelaishuo，jiarufajuedisanzhe，zishenshiyaoxiangwanhuihunyin，neimajiuduohezhangfuqugoutongjiaoliu，bubihedisanzheyizhibaiche，shechilangfeiduoyudeshijianhehuoli，duoqutigaozishen，yongdezijiquyunyinghaozheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo。

 ziran，jiaruzhenduizheiyiduanhunhoushenghuo，zaoyibuhuaiyouyiqiedeqiwang，yaoxiangwanbishi，neimajiusixinyidian，jianjueyidian，bubimomocengceng，youyunituichidebingbushitarendeshijian，zhishizishendejianglai。