老公有外遇后怎么办？重建信任分离第三者

 hunyinshenghuodeliekai budoushidisanzhedecuo，shifuqijianjishaochengduodefenqimeihuodechulierchanshengde，disanzhedanshishidajiazhongjiandedaohuosuo。neilaogongwaiyuhouruhefujianxinlaifenlidisanzheni?

yi、keguanxingkandaikeguanshishi

 jinguandaodishisheiyudaolaogongwaiyudoufeichangdebushufu、naonu。danniqueshiyouyunaonuquzhaodisanzhejichulilun，naizhisida，jiushishuojindaoledisanzhedexianjing，tajiushishuoxiangyaoneiyangdefangshi tiaobonigennilaogong。jinerrangtajinyibudemengbilaogong，daoshibianchengzhengshi。yinciyaoxiangfenlidisanzhe，haiyaoxiankeguanxingdekandaikeguanshishi，caikeyilizhizuochuzhenduizishenyouyidexingdonggenjuece。

er、fengcaitigaoxuexipeixundisanzhe

 disanzhezenmehuineimanengranglaogongxiyintashenpang，zhibuguojiushishuowenrou、huifadia、gudaju、burongyizuolaogongbukaixindeyijianshier，yeyoujiushishuobenshendezhangxianggenjishuxing。ranglaogongkandaiyigezhangqixingaishengqiyikuang、xutao、bulejie，huitoutulian，chuangbianfaweide“renlaozhuhuang”。tanengbuwaiyu?yinci，fengcaiyaotigao，haiyaoxuexipeixundisanzhe，huoxubingbushijinixuexipeixunliaoren，dannenggouxuexipeixuntaruheweirenchushide，ruhexiyinzhulaogongde。

san、fengfuduocaiyishizhuxingzuofenleibie

 xuduolaopozaihunhouhuoshishiyongyouxiaohaihoudoubianchenglejiatingfunv，meirijiushishuojinjinweiraozhejia、xiaohai、nongmaoshichangzaizhuan。neiyangdelaopodaduoshudoushifaweide，youyutamenchupengshuzuiduodejiushishuoyixiedaniangmen，genshiqicuoweigenfengchaocuowei，neiyanghaizennengxiyinzhulaogongxingquaihao?

 heburangzishenshenghuopinzhibianda。lvyou、yishuchahua、zheixie，huoxurangzishenhunyinshenghuopinzhibiandadelingwaihaiyaozuozijizuoweirenfudeyiwu。xiaoshungonggongpopo、zhidaoxiaohaizi、jiazhongwennuanzheixie，rangpijuandelaogongfanhuijiashixingfumanman，zheijiushishuodisanzhesuobukeyidide。yaoxiangfenlidisanzhe，tashishidefangshi 。

四、信赖很关键

 huoxu，laogongwaiyuzaidaofenlidisanzhe，qinshenjinglileneimaduoquanguocheng。yidianyaomingbaizishendebugou，yidingyaojiuzheng。neiyangcaikeyiranghunyinshenghuogengzhangqi。laogongxiabanlewan，laogongyifukuzishangdaichungaozheixiexianbingbushigenlaogongzhiqi，bingbushipancha，zhishixuehaoxinlai，yeyaoqingxideranglaogonglejieniyeshixinlaitabingbushifangsita，huoxugentagoutongjiaoliudeneishihouyidingyaolizhi。