女人该用什么心态面对第三者

 ruhewanhuichuguizhangfudexin？hunyinchuxiandisanzhegaizenmeban？ruheyingdui ☞chugui weiji？renmenxiankanlaiyixiananrenchuguidexintai。nanrenchuguideyuanguxiaojieqilaibuwaihusangeyuangu：xingyuwang、jingqishenyaoqiu、huaxuewuzhiyaoqiu。

一、女人该用什么心态面对第三者

 ruhewanhuichuguizhangfudexin？hunyinchuxiandisanzhegaizenmeban？huaxuewuzhiyaoqiuzhinanrenchuguidexintaishichangshicongdisanzheneibiandedaoyidingdehuaxuewuzhizichan。

xingyuwangyaoqiuzeshinanrenduimuqiandefuqishenghuozaochengyanfanxintai，chumenlieshi。

 jingqishenyaoqiuzeshidisanzhedeshenshangyouxiyinzhudaolaogongdediqu，ranglaogongzaiduzaocheng“ganqing”huanjue。qianerzhongchuguixintaibawotafenleiwei“yinnixinghunhouchugui”，disanleichuguixintaizeshiguishuyu“binglixinghunhouchugui”。

 bulunshinayizhongzhongleidedisanzhe，jiexiaquwoyaofenxiangdeneirongdoukeyijiyunixiezhu。dianyixiajiashang，huiying“disanzhe”，renmenjianghuifenpeiqingmengqingganjingyingtuanduizhongdehuangpailaoshijinipouxizhuangkuang，chushiyiciyongjiumianfeidepouxijutizhidao。

 disanzhedagainenggoufenchengtuzhongwugezhonglei。zaoshoudisanzhehou，naxiedefangfacaikeyiwanhuizishendelaogong?weiquqiuquan?wuxianrenrang?huanshiyikuernaosandiaosi，quweixiezishendelaogong，naizhishihehudisanzhe?

 zheizhongzuofaquanshicuode，zhikeyijiangnidelaogongxiangdisanzheyuetuiyuelaiyueyuan，nibixudeshigaozitai!neimaruhecaisuandeshanggaozitai?

 gaozitaizheiyicijinjinkanshangqunan，shijishangzuoqilaiyidiandoubuhuitainan。kunyuwenzhangneirongdepianshuxianding，wozhikeyitiaobijiaotongyongxingdejigelaizhuanjiajiaoshoudahuoer，keshishengbanyingtaokeyichanshengdegongxiaojuxian。

 xuduonvxingyouyulaogongzhaoxunledisanzhe，yincigangkaishiziganduoluo，shenxianziwohuaiyidejiongjingzhizhong，gangkaishiduizishenbufangzaixinshang，huitoutulian、shuhuchuanzhedaban。

 keshiqinaideniyaolejie，ruguoniziganduoluodeneishihou，nideduishou，neimingdisanzhe，tajiangyidabandehuolifangdaolezishenyunyingshang。tachuanzhedabandeguangxian，jianniyimianlaogongdeneishihoushizhongmanmianxiaoye，wenrouxiaojingsazhejiao。

 ruhewanhuichuguizhangfudexin？hunyinchuxiandisanzhegaizenmeban？laogongyibizhaonidelatachoue，zongshigengweiaidisanzhe，duinizaochenghenshendeyanfanxintai。xintaidiaozheng，dabanhaozishen，fengfuhaozishendeshejiaohuodong。nideqiongkunliaodaozongshirangdisanzhehanchang。

 ruhecaikeyijiaodashuipingzhanxianzishendenvshifengcai，rangzishentianmannvrenqizhi，mizhulaogong?dianyixiajiashanglaoshi，jibiantouzizhemenzhendeqingchuchuanzhedabandoumeiyouguanlian。renmendelaoshihuiyijunidebenrenzhuangkuang，bangniliangshendingzuozhuangmian、chuanzhedaban，dangniyiranbuqingchuruhezuo，renmenkeyibangnixuanzeheshinipifuleixing、gezidehuopin。

 zheiyibufenyongfeichangjiandandihuaeryanjiushishuoyingyongnizuoweilaopodequanli，guankongtadeshijianyuqiancai，tahuimeiyouzichantongdisanzhehuanle。xiwangmeiyigezaoshoudisanzhedenvshikeyijilao，buguancishinishizaitaibenkui，ruguonimeiyouzailihunxieyishangqianming，yaoshishenpanzhangmeiyoupanduandajialiangrenliyi，neimajiushizhongyouzhezhenggongyingxiangli。

 zhenggongyingxianglidaibiaoshenmeyisi?yiweizhenizhanjinletianshidili，laogongfangdeqinqipengyou、dajialiangrendeshejiaoquanzitongtongshilizainizheilide，disanzhezhongguijianbukeguang，bingqienilaogongchugui，xinliyidingduijinineijiu。woyudaoguohenduodenvxing，tamenbenlaichuzaiyoudian，quejiangyishouhaopaidalexilan。

 tamensiwujidanxianglaogongfaxiezishendexiaojiqingxu，budanyikuernaosandiaosi，jianglaogongchuguideshiernaodezhongrenjiezhi，naizhiyouyuyuwangzuochuyixiehanfudegerenxingwei。

 duidisanzhekaizhanhehu，guyisanbodisanzhedefumianxinwen，kaizhanwumie，guqiebushuoneiyangdegerenxingweizishenjiushishuoweifanguidingde，jiarudisanzheshiyongfalvfaguiwuqizhuangbei，ninengbeiyizhiqisuzhuanggaodaofayuan，qinaidede，niyizhizaineiyangjijinpaigerenxingweideposhixiadaodihuodelenaxie?

 shenpangrendezhuweishengtao?duile，niqueshinenggouhuodezheizhongrendelianmin，erqieshandongzheizhongrenyiqilaitichupipingnidelaogong，jinilaogongzhimingduqingsao，rangsuoyourenlejienilaogongshiyigechuguizhe。keshiciwaini?niyaohuodelenaxie?niqinshen、jijijianglaogongtuilaidaodisanzhedeqianxianli，congjinyihoutamenliangrenjiushishuotongyigenshengzishangdemazha，tamenxianghujiantishengqinqiegan、xinrengan。

 yexu，xiaoqianzhengjielelaogongduinideneijiugan。dangnibeijuzaoyizuochulehuirangguanlianyuechadeshier，neimaqinggankuaijiashanglaoshi，，renmenhuijinishejifanganhaoxianliaodeneirong，bangnigaoxiaolvkuaisuzhengjiubuzhengque，xiubuqingganhuokou!qiadangdezuofashishamoyangde?ninengyunyongzishendezhenggongyingxiangli。

 niyeshizheiyijiazhongdezhurenjia，yinciruguoniningjingdi、tiaoliqingchudigaosudajiadelaogong：taliyingzaiyelishidianyiqianguixiangdeneishihou，tameiyouzhengdangxingdeyuanyinlaihuijueni。

 ruguonizhangkoujiazhongjinqibixuzengtianshenmewupin，bixutashangjiaodaliangdexinshuideneishihou，tadoumeiyoufangfabianboni。meilebubiyaodeshijian、meilebubiyaodeqian，tahairuheweichihedisanzhedeqinggan?disanzheyuanbendeshenfenjiunankan，talejiezishendezheiyinanrenshitoulaide，lejiezishendeqingganbushizhengdangxingde，danglaogongturanjiangdizaitadeshenshangdexiangmutouzi，tahuiruhexiang?

 nvxingdeminganduoyi，jibiannidelaogongxiangdisanzhebiaoshu，disanzheyeburongyijianxinde，tazongshiganjuenilaogongshizaizhaoyuanyin，zongshiganjuenilaogongduitabufangzaixinshangle，huiganjuezishenbeimengpianleqinggan，naizhicaiyinilaogongyouzhaoleqitanvxing。

 dangniyiranbuqingchugairuhezuo，neimahebujiashanglaoshide，renmennenggouweinintigongtongyongxingdemoban，gaosudajiayingdangshuoshenmehua，nibuyongzaizishensiliang，zhibixuzuodehuajiunengyouyouliangdeshijixiaoguo。