老公出轨不但有了第三者还有孩子怎么办？

老公出轨 怎么挽回?第三者有了老公的小孩，这相当于瓢泼大雨。这时假如人们一哭二闹三吊死，会促长第三者猖狂的气焰。因此人们要理智面对。

 shijishang，mianduineiyangdekunjing，laogongxinlidoushihenfanzade。duidisanzhe，huixinlizhengtuo、huihen、guanzhe，duilaopo，huikuijiu、neijiu、xiangdaoyiwu。yincirenmenyaoyijujutiqingkuanglaijuecejianglaiyaozoudelu。neimalaogonghedisanzheyoulexiaohai，zuoweilaopoyingdangzenyangyingduidisanzheni?laogongchuguizenmewanhui?zhangfuchuguizenmeban?

需看老公持哪些的心态

 chanshenglezheizhongshiqing，yichangedouwukebimian。zheishihou，xukanlaogongshinaxiedexintai，yihouzaizuoxuanze。zhenduinanshengeryan，zheidoushiyijianjiaoweibubiandeshier。youderenhuijuedehenhuihen，yinweiyishideyuwang，beiwaibusuoyinyou，doumeiyoucaiyongbaozhangcuoshi，niangchubuxing。

 huizailaopoyanqianfancuowu，genjugezhonggeyangshentilixingxiangjinbanfadetianbu，naizhixunqiubangzhulaopojiujinggairuhezuocaikeyiyuanliang。eryouderenzeyaoburan，tamenganjueganlejiushishuoganle，tarenaizenmeshuohuazenmeshuohua，baichengleyifusizhubupakaishuitangdezishi。

 mianduiqianmianyizhong，nenggoulizhidesisuo，yijujiazhongdejutiqingkuang，zuochuzuiyouhuadetiaoxuan。mianduihoumianyizhong，tiyilijiliyi，qingbierangzishenchengdanhenshendetongchu。

假如决策离异，要请好律师，把握好直接证据，争得较大的权益

 laogongwaiyuhedisanzheyoulexiaohai，zheiyijuqingnenggoushuochengshifenbijiaoyanzhongle。jiaruzaoyixiajuexinlexinxinyaoliqulingyifang，yidingyaozaozuozhunbei，zhengdelingyifangjiaodaxiandudepeichang。renmenyiqianhelaogongshixingfukuailede，yibianzheiyiduanqingganyeyiqiannulilexuduoxinli。

 rujin，zuoweishouhaifang，zuixianyaomiqieguanzhuxiangduidexiangguanfalvfagui，quelixianjieduandeqingkuangyoushenmeshinenggouzhengdede。cizhi，yaopinyongyigejishuzhuanyedexingshibianhulvshilaibangrenmenxianjixiance，zhengdejiaodadequanyi。zuihou，zaibawohaolachongzudekeguanshishigezhijiezhengjuyihou，biannenggouduibogongtangle。

 neiyangzuodeshijiyiyijiuqujueyu，buxuzishenchengdandaliangdesunhai，jizijiyiqiandenuliranglingyifangjiyigejiaofa。lingwaiyaogaozhilingyifang，zishenbingbutaihaoqiya，nikeyiweisuozuodegerenxingweidanqiyiwu，ganzuohaiyaogandang。

假如决策再次，能够在这事了断以前为老公献计献策

 disanzheyoulelaogongdexiaohai，zhenqingdejilvyexushifeichangshaode，nengbuguanbuguzishendezizun、zhimingdu，genjujijutesefangshishangtaizhe，biweilishitu，wufeizichan、mingwei。mianduizheileijushi，yingduidisanzhedefangshiyingdangshiruheni?

 renmennenggouhelaogongshangyi，jiangzichanyingjiqianyidaobiedehuxiahuozishendehuxia，youchaoyirilaidaodisanzheshangmenlaideneiyitian，bidinghuiyixiaohaideweituorenjiaodaxiandudezhengdezichan，neiyangzuobiannenggourangdisanzhewuliketu。zhongjiuhezhengshijiaozhan，disanzhezhanbushangnaxieyoudian。

 huoxu，disanzhezaiqijibaihuaiyihou，huigangkaishisichusanbulaogongdezhuduobingbushi，zheishihourenmenbubirangbu，bubimanbao。zhishibaobulehuode，zheiyikeyaojiandingbuyiderujinlaogongzheiyibian，bulunshifashengmingyeba，huanshiyigeweixinpengyouquanxinxineirong，luoluodafangdebiaodarenmenhelaogongrengranenai，bing“younicaixingfu”，helianrenduguonanguan。

 neiyang，bulunshizichanhemingwei，nenggoubasunhaijiangzhizuishao。lingwaikeyiranglaogongjiandaozijidejuexin，gengweitigaojiazhongdetuanduideningjuli。

 danghuozhidisanzheyoulelaogongdexiaohai，zaixuanxieguoxintaiyihou，yidingyaolizhidesisuo，shizaicihuanshiliyi。buyiyangdezongtimubiaodangranyoubuyiyangdefangfa。mianduidisanzhe，tayaoxiangnaxie，renmenyingdangruhezuo，xinliyaolejie，zhinengneiyang，renmencaikeyizuochuzuiqiadangdebiaozhun。zhangfuchuguizenmeban?