怎么应付出轨的男人：如何避免原配跟第三者抢男人的局面

 zaidianshijuzhong，douhuiyoudisanzhegenzhengshiqiangnanrendegouxueju，youshinaizhinengdongdebaoda，huoxuzaoxingyishulaiyuanyuyishizhuxing，zheizhongshierzairichangshenghuozhongyechangchangchansheng。xuduoneishihouguanzhongmenhuigenjuyouyunvyihaoshuaidisanzheerguang，huohenshuaizhananerjuedezuiyouyingde。zenmeyingfuchuguidenanren?ruhebimianyuanpeigendisanzheqiangnanrendejumian?ruheyingdui ☞chugui weiji？

一、怎么应付出轨的男人：如何避免原配跟第三者抢男人的局面

zenmeyingfuchuguidenanren?

1.与自身会话：「我可以原谅吗?」

 tashidiyibudoushizuiguanjiandeyibu，xiangtongzheidianercaikeyiwangxiachen。xuduorendaoanfaqiandoushishuo：「jiarutachuguiwoyelikefenlichulai，juebukuanrong。」dandangshierchanshengshi，caihuizaojiuxuduoshisheqibushang，qingganyebingbushishuoqiejiuqiededuan。

 yinerbubiganqingyongshi，gengfuchengyuwangzuoshi，jingshanglaiyuzishenhuihuaba!wenyiwenxinli，zheiyirenzhibuzhinizaijitamenyicijihui，dajiazhongjianhaikeyihuoshizhongxinlaiguoma?

2.决策宽容后，你可以应对的事

 shijishangqilunkuanrongshifou，quanshishifenjiannandejuece，bingmeiyouxuannaerjiujiaoweihaoyu。ruofenlichulaile，nikeyiyingduidejiushishuo，kanbujianzuishenchudezhibinglu。jiarujuecekuanrong，neimajiugaiyouxintaizhuangtaichoubei，lianggerenzhongjianyimeibanfahuidaocongqian，youyudouhuiyouzhenzizaixianghuzhijianxinli，suirantaquanxinquanyinuli，nihuoshiyeganshouzhanyoubushangle。

3.维持岑寂，切忌失败

 zenmeyingfuchuguidenanren?ruhebimianyuanpeigendisanzheqiangnanrendejumian?nikeyihuoshihuijialezaibeiziliku，zaijiemeidehuaizhongluanmatamen，danzainagenanrenyanqianmujin，qingweichicenji，youyugengshishibaixianggefengnvren，tayuehuijuedezishenliqushiduide，xintailengmofandaohuiranglingyifangjingqi。

 genghekuang，shilingzhizhonghuilingrenshipanduannengliyusisuocaikeyi，neihuilingniyizhizaihetanzhongqujuyoudian，naizhitahuijiangchuguihelixing。

4.不必深陷较为的黑洞中

 dangshenpangshiyouchanshengzheizhongshi，nihuoshiyongdao，「nagenvdeburuni」zheileidehuakuanweishiyou，danqingbubijiangneiyangdejiaowei，fangdaozishenshoushang。jinguan，zaisuonanmianxiangjieyouyudisanzhejiaowei，rangxinlihaoyuyidian，ranzehuoshengyouzenyang、shudiaoyouzenyang?zhongzhijiaowei、shihuai，caisuanshirangxinningjingdefangfa。

5.反思自己

 zenmeyingfuchuguidenanren?ruhebimianyuanpeigendisanzheqiangnanrendejumian?nanrenchuguishi，renmenbidinghuixianziwofansidisanzheyuwuqingwuyinan，tamenjinyibushijishanggaibeitafa，danciwaiyegaifansiziji，bingbushishouhairenjiuyidingduile，ziwofansibingbushizhize，zhishiyaozhaodaoqueshao，fangzhizaicifasheng。

 huoshizaizheiyiduanqingganzhong，ninuliguoduo，jiaozilelingyifang，tahuibujiangnidangyihuishi，youhuoshitaigaozitai，tahuishenxinpibeixiangtaopao，zixixiangyixiangwangriba!gongxianyizhizangzaijiachangfandejiaowangzhong。