如何与第三者智斗，避免错误方法

 zenyangjizhidoudisanzheshiyimendaxuewen，zhengshijiebianbaodadisanzhedexinwenbaodaorenmenjibenshangmeirinenggoujiandao，keshizheizhongxingweiqueshiduizishendehunyinshenghuoyouxiezhuma？hunyinshenghuozhongchuxiandisanzhe，meiyigenvrenyebuxiangyao，dandangdisanzhezhenshichuxianzaizishendejiazhonglideneishihou，yejiupobudeyiyingdui。neima，zuoweidangzhiwukuidezhengshi，gaizenyangyudisanzhezhidouni？huazhenwangbianjinrijiugaozhidahuoergaizenyangzhidoudisanzhe，fangzhiyixiecuowuzuofa。

一、怎样与第三者智斗，这种方式 要防止

1、duiwaikaifangyuzhangfuzhiwaiyuduifu

 nibingbushiwaiyuma？neimewojiufangxiaoni，chuqiangyibianduifuzhangfuchuguixingwei，ouqiquganshouduozhongxingai，caiyong yizhibaoyuan，yiqirenzhidaohaizhiqirenzhishendefangfaduifuzhangfu，zheihaowuyiwenshizuiyumeidegerenxingwei。

2、yongzishenmengpianshuodongzishen

 disanzhechuxian，xuduonvxingxiangdebingbushizenyangjizhidoudisanzhe，zhishiyongzishenmengpiandefangfa，ganjuezhangfuchugui，jinjinyouyuyishihulihutu，jinjinwaibiannvxingdeyinyou，zheiyiqiezhongjiuhuidoushiwanbide，zishenzhibixushuganliqidaziranjiuxing。

3、weibeiliangxinshengchanzhizaohemujiatinghuanjing

 zenyangyudisanzhezhidou？yixienvxingmingzhizhangfuchuwaiyoudisanzhe，youhunwailian，zishenqueyeyaozhuangxiushejichuyifufufuhemudemoyang，beidilirenshouzheileibuyaguandesanjiaoganqing，jienazhangfuyuqitanvxingzairoushenjingqishenshangyouyitui。suitongchuangyimeng，queyeyaoyaoyanzangchunidejiazhongzhenxingfudecuojue。

4、weixiaohaichengshouxiuru，gouqietousheng

 nvxinggaizenyangzhidoudisanzhe，xuduonvxingzaixinlishushiwanbiandezeguaizhangfudechuguixingwei，danjiushishuoqianquesheqidedanliang，changjiangxiaohaixiaopasunhaixiaohaideneixinweiyuanyin，nilaishunshou，zhiyibianbaoquanyigeyoumingwushidejiazhong。keshishishang，xiaohaizaineiyangdejiazhongchengcaiduixiaohaigengjiabuhao。