怎么斗第三者，聪明女人都用这几个方法

 ruheduidisanzhe？disanzheshimeiyinvrenzuitonghendeyilei，yingduizhangfuchugui，xuduonvxingdoubuqingchugaizaban。jiarunishiyikuernaosandiaosidehua，neimanizhongjiuyaoshudeyibaitudi。shijishangruheyedisanzheshibixuyongnaozide，jianxinniyebuyuanzishenbaibaidebaijiledisanzhe。jinrihuazhenwangbianjiujiaodahuoerruhedoudisanzhe。

一、如何斗第三者

1、维持淡定从容

 ruheduidisanzhe？ruguonilejielaogongchuguiyihou，neijiushihaowuyiwenhuihuomaosanzhangde，tashimeiyigenvrendeyiqiezhengchangfanying，keshizaifahuozhihouyidingyaorangzishenxunsupingjingxialai，yongyizhongzuilixingdefangshi yingduizheiyikeguanshishi，erqiecaiyongshidefangfancuoshi。jiaruniyizhizaifahuoyihoujiuxianglikexunzhaodisanzhebingbatapangzouyidun，yizhiyushihewozhudongzhiwendehua，neimaneiyangjiuzhongjianledisanzhedexinkan，youyutajiushishuoxiangjifanidenaonu，erqiejinidezhangfujiandaonifahuoqilaishishayangzide，jinerjinizhangfuduinigengweidedichu。

2、chuanzhedabandeenaduozi

 fajuelaogongchuguileyixiangzhezheruheyedisanzhe，shijishangzhidisanzheshidefangfajiushishuobazishenchuanzhedabandeenaduozide，ciwaijianmanhuijialedejiaobu，rangnanrenyoudianerhuanghuanghuhu。ruguonishenmiqilaishi，nanrenjiuhuihaoqixin，nizhixubingliangdezhuangzuobuzaihu，suizhenanrenjiuhuigangkaishiduinihenjiaolvbuan，renyoutaxinfanyiluan，duitawaiyudeshinizhibixubikoubutanbuti，dengdaitarangnizhiqian，meiduojiujiunenggoukanjianhuoshengdeshuguangle。

3、yudisanzhetiaoxinshibiewangleduidisanzheshuoshengganxie

 yixiedisanzhehoujideyuanyizhuanzhengdingji，yinci，huizaishangnaoyizhiyuwukenaihedeqingkuangxiaduizhengshikaizhangecengmiandetiaoxin，zheishihou，niyidingbubinaonu，youyuyongyujijijizhengshitongdianhuadedisanzheshijishangzaoyishishenjingzhidele。ruhedoudisanzhe？yingduidisanzhedetiaoxin，zhengshizhibixuduidisanzhelimaoxingdehuiyingyiju：wozheiyiduanshijianbijiaomang，weinengfeichanghaodezhaoliaowodelaogong，xiexiezheiyiduanshijiannibangwozhixingleyigezuolaopodegangweizhize，denggairinijiaoweibianjiedeneishihou，jieniyaoyongcan。jinguanzheishidenineixinhenbunengshoulinabadaojiuyaobazheihulijingjiduodexisui，keshijilao，shizhongbukeyizaiduishouyanqianziluanzhenjiao！