如何正确处理第三者插足

 disanzhechazushidaozhijiazhongwajiedeyuanxiong。dangfajuenideta（ta）yongyouhunhouchuguishi，gaizenyangtuoshanchulini？youguandisanzhedeaiqing， gaozhidahuoer，neiyangqukeshouzuigaima。

一、怎样妥善处理第三者插足

1、吵闹切忌

 fajuedelianrenyongyou“disanzhe”，kaonaopiqihechaonaobingfeijiejuekunnandeshangce，yebuyidingnengjianxiao，fandaojianghuizaochengnideta（ta）poguanposhuai，shishieryufayifabukeshoushi。dangnimeibanfajienata（ta）duinidepanbianhejuecegebendongxi，neijiushiyouhebieyuzhidouqishanggan，gaigaizenmebangaizenmebanhaola，jiaruxiangzhuiniyutadezheiyiduanhunyuan，congmingdezuofashizishenxiankefuyixiazishendexintai，suihoujingxialaiyongxinpouxiyuangu，bulushensediconghaojigecebianzhangwodiaochatongji，hezhaodaodajiafufubicishibushicunzaidewenti，shizishendenantihuanshilingyifangdenanti。

2、yudisanzhefanmianchupeng

 yunyongnizaoyizhangwobawodexinxineirongzhaodisanzhetanhuaneirong，hetanhuaneirongdexintaiyaochengzhi，huanshiyaojianchibuxiexiaozhiyiqing、dongzhiyili，shixuxianrangdisanzhezhangwodajiafufubicidelianqingguocheng，tahui（ta）qingxidajiaqinggandenonghoushuiping。zaitanhuaneirongquanguochengzhongdoushiliyingjinggaodisanzheganyutarenjiazhongdelihaiguanxiyizhiyuyingdanfudefalvfaguibuliangyingxiang。

3、xunzhaodisanzhejiashufangxiezhu

 zaiyudisanzhefanmianchupengwufachedixiaochushi，nenggouzhaoqijiashuqiuzhu（liuyi，zheierdejiashuzhideshidisanzhedebabamama，jiarutarujinyishiyoufuzhifu，qiewububiquzhaoqinannvshuangfangyijiqinshu，neibanshiyoujianghuiduankaitadehuitoulu，shishieryufawufawanjiu）。

 qisuxingzhengjiguanyueshuli，jiarulaidaobenrenzhongjianzaoyiwukenaihedechengduhezeyaosuzhuxingzhengjiguan。zhengfubumenguizhangheshehuigongdedoubujianrongdisanzhedecunyou，youshijideyouguanxianxingzhengcejiyudisanzheyanmingdezhengji、tuanjizhengjichufen，lingwaishidisanzhedebudaodexingweiyehuizaoshouquanshehuifazhandechizehebiyi。

二、第三者的爱情那样恪守最该吗

 shenghuozaizheiyiyuwangchengshi,zaizheiyimeigerenkanqilaidouhenguangxianlianglidedachengshi,youshiduoshaodidiganqingcunhuozaijianbukeguangdejiaoluoli,neibianhunan、shileng,meiyirendelinghunbuzhidaochuluzainali,zuikaishichunzhendexinnianzhujianbeiguangguailulideshenghuozaojiandebiantilinshang。dajiayiweidisanzheshizuishifenkechide,danshidisanzheyeshizishendejianchibuxieyuguzhi,yeshizishenduiganqingdeyifenzhongchenghejiandingbuyi,talejiexuduoshierzishenyingdangzuoquemeiyouzuo,youzuolexuduobuyingdangzuoquezuoledeshier,houhuimojiwanjiu,danshitalejie,fazizhenxinshiyide“woxihuanni”tazheiyibeizizhishuoyihui。