得知有第三者存在怎么办

 doushuolianaizhongderen，yanzhongshirongbujinyilisuishizide。neimawojuede，hunyinzhongderen，shirongbujinyidianchentude。zhongsuozhouzhi，hunyinli，zuibihuide，jiushishuochuxiandisanzhe。dangnidelaogongyongyouqingfu，takanzhenideyanguangdoufashengbianhua。

一、获知有第三者存有该怎么办

 zaihuozhirenmendehunyinchuxiandisanzheyihou，renmenyidingyaoxianrangzishenpingjingxialai。yuwang，tongchangfeichangrongyicuoshi。zaichedipingjingxialaiyihou，renmenbingbushilijiquchuopolingyifang。zhishizhuangzuobuqingchu，huanshiyirujiwangdeduitahao，bubiranglingyifangkandechupozhan，suihouchentabuliuyideneishihou，huodetaqingfudelianxidianhua。

 dedaolianxidianhua，yebiezhejiqumarendehua。ninengjiadisanzhedejiaoyouruanjian。xianshinenggouyiyigelurendeshenfen，gendisanzhedashuohua，keshibukeyitaijingchang，yifangtamenzaochengcaiyi。suihougangkaishiguanzhu，pingjiatamendeweixinpengyouquan，shuayixiayouyuegan，rangtamenlejienidecunyou。jianjiandi，yutamenbianchengpenyou，zhangwotadejichuzhuangkuang。dayuelejietashiyigenaxiederenshi，gangkaishigentaliaoyiliaonidekaixin，huoshigentamaiyuanyixiayishizhuxing。dangtashangxindeneishihou，lingtingtafalaosao，dangtakaixindeneishihou，peitayiqixiao，zhizhitajiangnidangzuozhixinhuoshihaoguimi。

 youderen，benzhibuqingchuzishenbianchengletarendedisanzhe。zheizhongbei“disanzhe”deren，tongchangzishendoushimengzaiguli，yitouwushui。zaihezheizhongdisanzhebianchenghaoguimihuozhixindeneishihou，ninenggentaxinqingshuoshuoniyulianrendeyidianyidi，lianrenshizenyangzhuinide，dajiayeshiruheenaide，yeshizenyangtaruhunyindeshengdiande，jiehunhoudajiaruhetengxilingyifang，takanzhenideyanguangshiruhede，zenyangzhangwolingyifangzheixie。

二、如何应对情妇

 yinweidisanzhedoushizailianaizhong，yincitinglezheizhong，tongchangtamendoushihenxianmujidu，yehendadong，cikejiunenggoubiaoluyixianilianrendexinxi。dangtalejienizuizhongdezhangfuhuoshixifu，jiushishuotarujindelianailingyibanshi，tajiuhuiganjuezishenbeimengpianle，zishenzhibuguotarendedisanzhe。xuduoneishihou，tamendoushitiaoxuanjijisheqi，youyubenlaitamenjiumeiyouxiangguoyaodangdisanzhe，tamenyedanshishixianghaohaoditanyicilianaibale。

 ruguonidehunyinchuxianledisanzheshi，bingqieshineileixiaidangtarendisanzhederen，neimenijiugengyaodongdehudoule。neiyangdedisanzhe，bingbushiweileai，jiushishuoyibianqian，bulunshinayizhong，nidoubukeyiluanlezhenjiao。xuduorenxiaidangtarendedisanzhe，jianghuishizaiyiqiandeganqingzhongzaoshoulepaiji，huoshishiyiqiandeganqingshenghuogudu，yincixiangzhaoxunyixiecijixing，quzhaodaochuliandeganjue，yinerxinganqingyuanzuodisanzhe，tashiweileai。yeyouyixieyouyujixuyongqian，xiangbangdakuan，caiganletarendedisanzhe，tashiyibianqian。

 yingduizheileixiaidangtarendisanzhederen，renmenyaohenlixing，jinliangbuyaoqurenaotamen，zaitamenfanghuashuoyaoshangtai，rangdajialiyideneishihou，ninengqushuncongta，yizhiyuhaiquzhuyuanta。gaozhitamen，nidexinrendexiguanxing，quexian。liruxingzihenkuangzao，zhengchaoshijihudouburongyijuedeshizishendecuo，yizhixiangyaonixiandixiatou，buranjiuyizhimeilini；zisizili，shuoyibuer；changchangyebugui，denghongjiulvzheixie，huanjuhuashuo，maiyuangenlianrenyiqiyoushizaitainaohuo，bingxiexietajinibaituokunjing。meigerenbuyuanzishenyishengdouchenmizaitongchuzhong，hekuangshidisanzhe，tamendoushiren，tamenyeqipanxuduorentengxi。yinci，tingjianzheizhong，tamenyehuijijisheqide。

yuanmeigerennengaiyubuai，meiyoudisanzhededisanzhechazu，zhinenglianggerendeaiqingquanqiu。