被第三者怎么办

 disanzhe shishenmeyisi，“disanzhe”zheiliangzishijishangwanrulaoshuguojie，laoshuguojie。richangshenghuozhongyaoshiyigenvrenbeiguanshang“disanzhe”deyashemao，neimajinshengjiuhuishenfushizhongyexibuqingdezuiguole。yiner，dangfajuebeidisanzhele，yingdangruhezuoduizishensuanshishideni？

一、第三者是什么意思

 disanzhe，shigenjuhulianwangjishuerxingqideyigeci，shiduidisanzhedemiecheng。disanzhezaiwoguofalvfaguishangdehanyijiushizhizheixiebeipanshehuidaodesanguan，guangpingzishendebenrenaihao，siwujidandisanzhechazubierende qinggan shenghuo，sunhuaiyuanlaifufuqinziguanxideren。

二、被第三者该怎么办

1、坚决分手

 jiaruyibuxiaoxinfajuelenanpengyoude“mimi”，jianjuefenshouhaowuyiwenjiushinidiyishijianyaozuodeqiadangtiaoxuan。youdenvshenghuiyouyubujue，zaifajuebeidisanzhehou，kutianhandi，beitianminren，suihouzainanrendeyanleihe“zhuihui”zhongrangbu，bianchengganxinqingyuandedisanzhe，danzuizhongdexiachangqueburenzhishi。

2、做回真实的自身

 ganqingbingbushinuoruode， ganqing yingdangshizhengdaguangmingde，bubirangzishenzaiqingganlichenlun。zuigaizuiaiderenrenmennenggouquai，buzhizuiaiderenjiuyingdangjianjuedesheqi，bubifangrenzishendeqinggan，rufeiepuhuobanbuguyiqiedequaiyigenibukeyizuiaideren，youyudaozuizhongshanghenleileidejinjinnizishen。

3、掌握自身

 xuduonvshengyouyuchibuxiaofenshouhoudetong，beidisanzhedehen。yinerjianghuijingqishenzaoshoucijixing，yuelaiyuebuzhengchang。zheiliwangbianguiquanmeiyiweinvsheng，suzaoxinxin，zhangwozishen，rangzishenyouyigeqilidezhuantou，yaoshirenzhen，shenghuolisichudoutianmankuaile，shenghuoyebingfeiyouyuyoumeiguihuacaihuipiaoliang。

4、sheqiheduankaiyiqiehetayouguanxideshiqinghuoguanlian

 fenshouhaiyaowanquan，buweizijihebierenjinianxiang。jinguanlejiezishenbeidisanzhele，danyebubiyouzishenshangdangshoupianle，yaoduifuzheixiedeniantou。zhongjiuaiqingshiliangrendeshi，taduiniyouganjue，niyexiaiguota，jinjinshijianbuduibale。neimajiucidazhu，jijizhudongshenxinjiankangdizhaoxunxiayiduanqiadangdelianqinghuigengqiang。