第三者总吵架还不分手，正室怎么办

第三者总 吵架  haibufenshouzenmeban?disanzhezhenduihemudehunyinshenghuoyoujudadedajili，yingduidisanzhedetiaozhanyingdangzenmekandaini?jibianshichaojiadoubutichufenshou，zhengshizaban?

一、第三者总吵架还不提出分手，正室该怎么办

1、shizhongzuozhenshideziji

 tamenchaojiadoubutichufenshou，zuixianzaiquerennanfangyoudisanzhedezhuangkuangxia，xinjingsikaozishen，menxintiwenzishenshibushiyiranailianzhezheiyinansheng，jianxincishinineixinzaoyiyongyoucankaodaan。

2、不必做咆哮帝

 jibianchaojiadoubutichufenshouhaiyaoxuehuidandingcongrong，buyaofengdiaosidihenanfangnaopiqihesuku，zheibujinyushiwubuyehuirangzishenzailingyifangneixingengweidiaojia，yijingzheiyineishihoujiarudisanzhejijidixiangnitiaomingguanlian，nidoumeiyoubixumashangquhuiyingta，moshitadoushiyizhongduidisanzhedechufa。

3、要分就分

 chaojiadanbufenshouzhihoushenmeyuanyin?dangniduinanfangzaoyimeiyouqinggan，bingjueceyidingyaoliangzhezhijiantichufenshou，neimaninengtiaoxuanyongyigetahuijuedeshifenwanxidefangfahetatiaomingbingtichufenshou，shuailetabibeishuaigenggaoxingbingbushime。

4、提高自己

 jiaruduinanfangyeyouqinggan，neimazuixianyaocongwaiguanshejishangtigaoziji，genjushoushenjianfeihuocaizhuangdengfangshidazaochufujianvdemingaiyunwei，rangdisanzhejiandaojiuhuizaochengkuibibushangnidejuede，zheiyizhaoshiyongyuyanlidajidisanzhedeqiangyouliwuqizhuangbei。cizhizaimeigefangmianxianshixinxizishendewenhuayishuhanyanghejianshi，jibiandisanzheyongcuhuamani，haiyaoxuehuibudaiyigezangziranglingyifangyehuilai。

5、过得高兴

 chaojiadanbufenshoulezenmeban?xuehuirangzishendeyishizhuxingfengfuduocaiqilai，duoyuedushu、duojieshixinpenyou、xinshejiaoquan，lingwaihaiyaozuozijidegongzuo，rangzishenbianchengyigedanduxinxindeshiqinvshibingfeijiezhunanshengerhuodeqifu，bingkeyirangdisanzhejiandaonixianjieduandeyishizhuxingqingkuang，jianxintajiuhuigangkaishiyuanhenheduji。

6、挖好战壕

 duifudisanzheshiyigenandedezhanzheng，yaotizaowahaozhanhao，gaohaozhangqixingzuozhandetiqianzhunbei，zishizhizhonghaijideyouwudebudanshidisanzheyeshihuaxinnan，youshinikefuhuaxinnanshinirenshengdaoluzhongjiaodadexingfukuaile。

ruguoniyouqinggankunhuodeneishihou，nenggou