老公有外遇怎么办？原配对付第三者的几大绝技

 hunyinchuguidisanzhe zenmeban?xuduoneishihouxiangzheneiyangnvxingjianghuishiduide，keshizhangfuchuguixifugairuhejiejuesuanshishideni?woxiangyaozaimeiyinvrendexintaihuanshiyounagekaoliangexingshijianqinghezhongdeneigancheng，gairuhetiaoxuanhaihuilijingzishenyongxindetiaoxuan。jiexiaqugendahuoergongxiangyuanpeiduifudisanzhedehelijueji

1、自我反思，认清第三者儿，勿忘以前幸福

 chuguilaogongyihou，yaozhaoxunchuguilaogongdegenbenyuanyin，youyulaogonglanqingxiangbei，huanshizishenzaihunyinzhongzuodebuzuhao?zhuiyilaogongcengzhizenidezheixiequexian，bingduofangmianjiuzheng，yexuhunyinhuixunsudeluntanhuiluzhuan，erbingbushidanxinyuchuguilaogongzishen。

 hunyinchuguidisanzhezenmeban?renqingdisanzheerdecunyou，keguanxingdedianpingdisanzheershoushangdeyoushi，nongqingchulaogongzenmehuibeidisanzhexiyinzhu，bingshizhezhejiangdisanzheerdeyoushitouxuejinenghuilai，juweijiyou。

2、以守为攻，取悦公公婆婆，勿忘正室人物角色

 qingganjiuzheiyang，nvxingyexiaixinxian，nanrendoushixiangtongde，zaimeiduanqinggan，zaihuobaodeneishihou，xianglaichaikaishihenyanjunde1gemeirirenwu，xianruwenrouxiangderen，rutongzhelemotongchang，huisangshiqimadekeguan，zheishiruobipolaogonghuijiale，yexuhuigongkuiyikui。

 tangruonimeiyouliyidedanliang，qiechuguilaogonghouhaibuzhihaodai，hebuyishouweigong，yibuyuanyiliyidezishihedisanzheersihaozhe，shidangdeduigongpobiaodayoushan、qinmiwujian，yiqiechuguinanren，xinlichangyouyikuaierzuimianruandeshineikongjianshijiaojizijibabamamade，yaoshihegonggongpopoguanlianhao，laogongbenzhimeidanliangjijiliyi。yuanpeiduifudisanzhedejidajueji-duifudisanzhedefangshi

3、打真情牌，影响老公，切忌得势不饶人

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?waiyuqianqi，laiyuanyuyinyou，shuobailehedisanzheerdeqingganbuguanzenmeshuoyejinjinreqing，duibifufutonggankuhenduoniandezhenxin，zhenshixiaowujiandawu，yinci，nvxingyaogenjudazhenqingpai，ranglaogongliangxinfaxian。

 raokaiwaiyuzheijianshiqing，dailaogongdaodangchulianqingdediqufugu，jilaogongjiangliangrenyiqiqinshenjingliguodezheixiejiannankunkujiqikuaileshiguang，bidinghuirangwaiyudelaogongganshouxuduo。ciwai，bubiyinchuguilaogong，bizhexiaohaihelaogongduanjuelaiwang。

 jiaruyoukuanrong，jiubengdeshiburaoren;jiaruwufaxiaohuaxishoulaogongdechugui，jiuwanwanquanquanliyi。buyaozaizailaogongxiangyaohuiguoshi，zhanjuzhehunyindexiangxiquezaicihuxiangchaimo。

4、不必辱骂，装作淡定从容，勿忘善待自己

 yingduilaogongdewaiyu，xuduonvxingzuixiandezhuyaobiaoxianchuqudequanshiborandanu，wojuedexiangzheneiyangyounaxieshijiyiyi，tawaiyushigenggaibushangdekeguanshishi，jiaruxiangbuxianglihunniyaozuo1geyazhi，dandingcongrongdenvxing。

 jiuganqingzishenlaijiang，nanrencishihaowuyiwenduidisanzheerhanyoubixudexuanzexing，nideruma，zongshirangnanrengengweiganjuedisanzheerbiniwenrouxianshu，jiranshierchanshengle，yuanyiwanliujiuyingdangquchuzishendezhihuixing，genmingbaiaihuzishen，bubiyixindemaiyuan，weizijishijian，haohaodixiangshinaerchulecuo。laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?

5、竭尽全力阻拦，文化教育主导，切忌变悍妇

 baoweihunyinxiangxishi1gejihunnvxingdebennengfanying，zaichuguilaogongyihou，congmingnvrenyingduidisanzheerdenanti，gengyingdanghelaogongpingxinjingqidegoutongjiaoliu。

 fufuxianghupouxidisanzheerchuxiandeyuangu，jiqifufubicizaijingyinghunyinquanguochengzhongchuxiandenanti。zhenduilaogongdewaiyuyingyiwenhuajiaoyuzhudao，qiaojihuochizefuzhu。jinyaoguantoudeyilifuren，bujinhuiranglaogongduiniananqinpei，duihouwaiyushiqifufudeqingganxiubudoushishifenyouyide。