击败了第三者儿，防第三者小四来了该怎么办?

 zhangfuyouwaiyu zenmeban?ganqingyoushihoujiuzheiyang，jinguanzaoshoufalvfaguideweihu，danquebuyizaoshoushehuidaodedeyueshuli。zheiquanshijieyizhixuduorenyibianzishenxiaidewupinerbuguanbugushehuidaode，buguanbugubieren，yiwufangu，feiepuhuo，yincidisanzheerxiaosizhuangkuangdechuxianshiburongyizhongzhide。jibailedisanzheer，xiaosiyoulai，gaizenmebanni?renmenbixuguanniandaoyixianeirong：

他在某层面是出色的

 nanrenxiainianhuarecaodeyuanguyouhenduozhongduoyang。keshi，congbiaocengshangnenggoupouxichuyidianer：airenzaimoucengmiandeqichangchongzuxiyinzhunvshi。zenmefangdisanzhe?yixienanren，tamenhuigoutongjiaoliu，dongnvshidexintaizhuangtai，jiangchudehuazuochudeshinenggourangnvshijuedenuanxin，jidisanzheerxiaosizheizhongnenggoubianchengzhixindejuede。

 zhenduinanreneryan，tamensuozhuiqiuwanmeideshishengmingdeairen，jizhiji;ernvshisuoyaoqiude，shi1geanquanxing、pingwen、xingfudejia，jiazhongjinjinnanrendeqishidian。yinci，yaojibaidisanzheerxiaosiyiqian，xuxianmingbainanrendexintai,zhangwonandeweihezhaoqingren? 。

 youdeneishihou，guimiyiqidejuhuihuodong，taolunqizishennanrendeneishihou，youxuduodoubianchenggongpandahui。wojuedezheizhenduiganqingeryanshifeichangbuliangyingxiangde。zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?

 jiaruzhangqixinghezheizhonghaoguimiyiqi，suotanlundaodejiuhuishinanxingdezhuduobingbushi，zuihouhuibazheileixintaisongdaolezishendeqingganzhizhong，genggaileduidaiairendexintai，jinerweihaileliangrendeguanlian。

 renmenbixuhuangejijizhudongfanmiandeshijiaolaidianpingzishendenanren，xukanhuodetadeyoushi，duozanyangta，tahuizishenzuoshier，xiangnantidoushijuedeyouyidingdegongxian，zhangjiuyiwang，neiyangdeganqinghuiyulaiyumibukefen。wojuedenanrenzhaoqingrenxiaosidoushixunzhaomanzugandewaizaifanyingqiyi，jiarutamenkeyicongzishenshoushangdedao，jianxinmeiyounanrenhuitingerzouxian。

或许，两人的某一层面存有间距

 zenmefangdisanzhe?zhongsuozhouzhi，nianshudeneishihoukaizhandelianqing，tongchangshijiaoweiposhide，yiqideshijianyejiaoweizhang。shubuzhilaidaodaxuebiye，xuduolianrenjiezhejiufenshou。laidaoshehuifazhan，xiangqinyuehuidelingyibanyebixushijiatingqingkuang、wenhuayishushuizhun，gongzuozhongshouyixiangfangde2geyouxiurencainenglaidaoyikuaier。

 dangzouchuxiaoyuandeneineiyike，suizhisuoyourenjianshitishengshuipingdebuyiyang，benrenfazhanqushidexitongjinchengyegeyoubutong。liangrenyiqi，gangkaishijianghuishuizhun、shuipingleisi，zhangciyiwang，jiaruzijifazhanqushiguokuai，duifangbuxing，liangrendehuatitaolunyuelaiyuedi，bianhuichanshengmaodun。zheiyineishihou，zaizishenairenyanqiandedaobushangdetihuijiuzhiyouquyuwaijie，zhaoxunyuzhixiangfangderen。

 zheijiushishuo，dangdaishehuifazhanweiheguangfanguidingnanrenshiyitouchengzhanggu，guidingnvxingyaogengshandaiziji，youyuzhinengliangrenduofangweidetongbu，nenggoudedaoqinggandeyongjiuxing。youshichuxiandisanzheer，nikeyiconghuijiejue，jielaogongdeshoujibaidisanzheer。youderenhuiwenrujindenianqingrenzenmela，weihegengweifeichangrongyichugui。

 wojuedezaibabamamadenei1geshidai，dahuoerdeyishizhuxingleisi，gongzuozhongleisi，benrenfazhanqushixitongjinchengleisi，zheibanzhongduodeyaosucushinanrennvrenliangrendechengcaiziranhuanjingdouxiangduixingjunheng，yincijibianmeiyoufengfuduocaidewuzhitiaojian，haikeyibaitouxielao。xianjieduanshehuifazhanshangdisanzheerxiaosidebaodaoyiciqibifu，erhulianwangpingjiazhizhongyetianmanpipandeguandian。

 shubuzhipipanzhihou，youfanhuileyiqiezhengchangjingranyouxudeyishizhuxing，meirenxiangyaoshenruzheiyinantideyuangu。wojuedeliangrenyiqi，buguankeguanxingdechabieshizaitaida，yaoshishineixingongzhen，jianjuxiangfang，neimadisanzheerxiaosidezhuangkuangzhongjiuburongyichanshengzaizishendeshoushang，jiaru2gezishen chabiejiutingdaderen，yingyaoyiqi，zenenggouyuliao，jianglaideqingganhuibujinrenyi。