女性怎样用刚正不阿打垮男人出轨第三者儿

 laogongyouwaiyu zenmeban?shenmeshidisanzhe，shiduoshaonvxingduiqidihui，youyuzongganjuedisanzheerhuihuaibierendejiazhong，bidinghuieyouebao。danshixuduorenhecengxiangdao，disanzheerwojuedetongchangdouyouyuqianqueai，guannianduoyi，huoshijiyuqiuchengcaiyinchayangcuojinletarendejiazhong。neimazuoweinvxingzenyangyongshanjierenyihegangzhengbuadakuadisanzheerni?

最先，你可以让第三者儿对自身的个人行为有一定的自我反思

 youshikeyiwomenyiqijuededaotongkuderentongchangjiushishuoxiezhurenmenchengcaideren。jiaruniyaojidisanzheerzhimingshanghai，nibixuyaoliuyiweichinidezheifenyazhi，neifenyazhibingbushikaomamadisanzheerjiukeyishierchulide，zhishixiangyaoniyongfazifeifudeshanjierenyi，xianghulijienenggouqudechenggongde。laogongchuguilezenmewanhui?

 disanzheerjindaolenidejiazhong，neimani，nidelaoxianshenghedisanzheer，dajiasazhongjianhuoxuyibeizijiushishuocunyouneifenchongke。jiejuehaola，dajiazhongjiandoushiyoujingwuxian，jiejuebutaihao，dajiadeyishizhuxingyeburongyihaikuotiankong。

 nanrenchuguizenmewanhui?1gezhihuixingdenvxingbixumingbaidadaozhijian，shanjierenyishizuizhongdetiaoxuan。nihaiyaoyongnideshanjierenyi,yongzuirangdisanzheergandongdehuaqujiegudisanzheer，rangtalejietarujinpengdaolenaxienanti。

 daodishiqianqueaihuanshiqianqueqian，huanshimeiyouanquangan。dangnikeyirangtagaoqingchu，dangtarendedisanzheerjiushishuobazishendezizunfangdaotaiyangzhixiarangtarencaita。zheiyibeiziweirenchushizaoyimeibanfa，hekuzaiziquqiruni?yiyangweinvxing，zaiyebuhuidiaonanta。

次之，动之以情，晓之以理，让第三者儿知所行止

 wulunruhe，niyudisanzhetongshidouduiniyouganjuedelaoxiansheng，nikeyigaoqingchudajia2gezhongjianbixuyoumouxiexianghudejiazhiquxiang，zuishaozaishenmeiguanshang，huozaohuowan，dajiakeyidachengxieyi。

 dangnikeyiweichinidegangzhengbua，jiuhuirangdisanzheerjuededaozhanli。youyuyigenvhaihuodadaohaowugujideneishihou，tashuodebixushizhenglu。zhenduidisanzheereryan，tahainianqing，tayouxuduogengqiangdenanrennenggouqutiaoxuan。jiarudisanzheerduiniyouganjuenanrendeyazhi，ninenggaozhita，zheizhongquanshinidiaoshichuqude，zaiyebuhuisuibiandibazishensuzaohaodewupinzuoyisongren。

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 ruguoyigenvrenchongzushanjierenyi，tajiukeyijienarichangshenghuodebeijuhebukaixin，youyutadanfudeshierguoduole，xiongjindaziranbitarenyaodaxuduo。ruguoyigenvrenchongzugangzhengbua，tajiugaoqingchuzaimouxienantilijiujingshisheihuoyidaodishisheisunshangdeduo。shuoqueshide，chuguinanren，disanzheertongchangyedebushangshiduoshaoyichu。

 erdaliangdeyouyuxuduodisanzheerdeyumeifangsilenanrendelanqing。yinci，congmingnvrentongchangburongyizuotarendedisanzheer，ganletarendisanzheerdenvxing，shuonancongmingliannvdoubibushang，zheidoushidangdisanzhedexiachang，jinjinxuduodisanzheermeiyouzishenchajueeryi!