老公有外遇如何治理第三者儿

 laogongyouwaiyu zenmeban?zuoweixinshiqidenvshi，chukaiyaoyouquanshenfengcaixiyinzhudaochusedelaogong，yeyaoyouquanshenshijianzhilidisanzheer。xiabianrenmenlaishijitanyitanruhechengchudisanzheer?

关键点一：切勿过软。

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?“renshanbeirenqi，mashanbeibierenqi”zheihuashuodeyidianerdoubusuanguo。yingduidisanzheershi，renmentaiwenrou，feichangrongyijiubeidisanzheqidaotouding。neiruhejiukanqilaizishentaiwenrouleni?biru，quzhaoqingrenfalaosaoshuozishenyibianzheiyijia，nulileguoduo，henbuyi。ranglingyifangbubihuihuaizishendexingfukuaile。

 nikeyilejie，jiarudisanzhehuiweilenikaolvdao，tadangshijiuburongyiqiangnidelaogongle。wojuedetabenzhijiumeiyouweilenikaolvdaoguo，yincixiangquqiutaweilenikaolvdao，zheichunsuishijuqishitouzazishendejiao。yebubiqushuozishenbukehuoquelaogong，zishenhenshandaizijilaogongneiyangdehua，neiyangzongshirangdisanzheerrenrennitaiwenrou。

关键点二：亦不能太硬。

 nanrenweishenmehuichugui?zheilitaiyingguanjianshixintaijiweideqiangshi，naizhidouyixiebuzhongshidisanzheerderengetezhi。neiyanghuibadisanzheerjire，tahuishengsilijiededikangni。birudisanzheershiqianhaibingmeiyouxiangchaikainidejiazhong，jinjinxianggongxiangziyuannidelaogong，xiangyounilaogongdechongni。

 ruguonilijiqumatashimeiyouxiuyangdejiannvren，yibeiziyemeiyourenyao。neimatajiuhuinaonudeniantouxiangfangshefachaikainidejiazhong。jiusuanzuihoutabingburongyigennidelaogongyongyuanzaiyiqi，keshitayibianyingduini，taburongyirangninhaoguo。

关键点三：治理第三者儿重中之重在老公手上。

 wojuededisanzheerwangwangdisanzhechazuzishendehunyan，tazhibuguoyouerzhongjianghuidemudi，diyileijiushishuoyibianqing，tajianghuiqueshishandaizijidelaogong，dierleijiushishuoyibianli，taxianggenjulaogongshizishenhuodeyichu。zhenduichuziyuqingganhezishendelaogongyiqidedisanzheer，renmenyaorangtajianjiandiganjuezishendelaogongbenzhibuaita。

 nanrenweishenmehuichugui?zheishihouzishenhaiyaoxiangjinbanfazhengdedaozishenlaogongdeai，biruchangchanggennanpengyouyikuaierjiaotongchuxing，ranglaogongbenzhijiumeiyoujiyuchanghedisanzheeryiqi，jianjiandidedisanzheerjiuhuizaoshoupaiji，yincitajiuhuigenzishendelaogongchanshengfenqi，shijianzhangciyiwang，tajiuhuiquanzidongliqu。

 zhenduizheixiexiangyaolaogongquanyidedisanzheer，renmennenggougenjucaozongjiazhongdezichanshiquan，rangtabenzhijiumeiyouzuankongzihuodeyisiquanyi。naizhikeyiyingyong1geqiaomen，huoxuneiyanghuiyoubixudefengxianxing。neibianshiqupinqingziji，rangtayonggengdadequanyiquyinyoudisanzheer，disanzheerzaiquanyiyanqianhuoxuxunsujiuhuidiaoshanglingwailiquzishendelaogong。huoxujinliangbuyaobeidisanzhefajuezheijiushinidequantao。