男人为什么会出轨？怎样避免第三者儿挖墙角

 laogongyouwaiyu zenmeban?disanzheerruguowaqiangjiao，meiyouhaoduogewabudaode。chufeishinanrendequeyoudianerzerenganjiatinggongzuoguannian，buranhenduorendouhuibeidisanzhezhengfu2bingguaipao。zuoweilaopo，laogongmeiyougongzuonengli，nijiliao，laogongyougongzuonengli，nidanyouhuixunhuawenliu。neimazuoweilaopo，zenyangbimiandisanzheerwaqiangjiaoni?

最先，你可以跟男朋友沟通交流

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 laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?yinci，jiarulingyifangbukun，neimajiuaozhe，helingyifangliaoliaotianshuoshuohua。jiarulingyifangjuededaoyouxinchongchong，jiujilingyifangpouxitasuozaoyudegongzuoyali，tahuixuehuifangxiagongzuoyalihaohaodixiexi。zhinengguanzhulingyifangzhenshiguanzhudeshier，nenggouhelingyifanglaidaoyikuaier。

次之，不必翻查另一方的手机上

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再度，要塑造自身的个性化和风采

 1geyougexinghuahefengcaidenvxing，bidinghuihuodenanrendebuyiyangzhaogu。yinci，nikeyisuzaozishendegexinghuahefengcai。niyunanrenyiqineimajiu，jiarutachaosanmusi，jiarutazhaoqingren，neimazuishaoyouyidianernenggoubiaoming，dajiazhongjianbuwoyiweixiangxiangdeneimajizhihexiangai。

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最终，要让第三者儿知难而上

 zhengshizenmerangdisanzheerzhinanershang?xuduoneishihounanrendouxiaiyangaibutaihaodeyibian，wangwangneiyangyouyutahenbuzixin。tawangwangzhaoqingren，huoxuyouyutashikanjiantarenneiyangzuo，keshibuqingchuneiyangzuoshihuoshangjiaoyou。nanrenweishenmehuichugui?youyumeiyouhaoduogedisanzheershiganxinqingyuanyishengzuodisanzheerde，neiyangdeqingganyeburongyizhangqixialaide。

 ruguonimingbaizheiyidianerdeneishihou，jiuhuigaoqingchu，yaoshiwobuliyi，zhiyaoniguanzhelaogongdecaizhengjushiquan，neimadisanzheerjiulejielaogongduinihuanshixinlaide。ruguonigaoqingchuzheiyidianerdeneishihou，jiuhuimingbaidisanzheerbingbukongbu，ranglaogongshoushangmeicaozongqiandeguanliquanxian，rangdisanzheerjuededaodanxin，zheicaigengguanjian，doushizhongzhongzhizhong。

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