对付第三者从这两层面着手 老公出轨了怎么挽回

 zhangfuyouwaiyu zenmeban？waiyuyinyuebianchenghunyinxiongshou，disanzheeryebianchengzheimeduonianderedianhuati，doudeguodisanzheerzhujianbianweilexuduonvxingweichihunyinwubicaokongdefangshi。danshixuduonvshizaizaoshoudisanzheerdeneishihou，turanzhijianjiuhuangleshen，yaobubuzhisuoyi，xiaochenlunluomishiziwo，yaobujiushishuonaorendiaosiwangtubilaogongsheqidisanzheertiaoxuanzishen，shenzhiyou，lijixunzhaodisanzheerkaizhanhusidazhan，jieguonaodeeyuxiangxiang。

 neiyangzuodenvxing，tongchangbingbushinaodeqilizisan，jiushishuowanquanjianglaogongbishanglelingyifangshoushang。zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?yirifuqi100tianen，100tianfufubihaishen，wanhunzheichangzhongjiubuyi，naodeeyuxiangxiangzuihouyipailiangsanxianeryijianbingbushilixianghuadexiachang。zhangfuyouwaiyuzenmeban?

 neima，zaipengdaodisanzheergairuhezuoni?nandaoshuojiuxincunjiaoxing，zuoweinaxieshierdoumeichansheng?zheihuoxushibutaikenengde!laogongchuguilezenmewanhui?zaoshoudisanzheerzhiji，jiaruhaixiangzaiciweichihunyindexiangxi，caiyongqiadangdefangshishibibukeshaoshaode。benrenganjue，zaiduifudisanzhedequanguochengzhong，juedaduoshunvxing，nenggoucong2gecengmianzheshou。laogongchuguilezenmewanhui?

首位层面：由外在和本质提高自己，提高本身诱惑力

 huoxuniyizhizaijiandaozheihuadeneishihou，huibuxieyigu，chuguinanrenzhaoqingren，neijiushitadecuo，weihenikeyicongzishenshoushangzheshou?wokeyirangnideyuanyinfeichangjiandan，congguzhijinxuduonanrendoutaoyanbeijushu，yincinimeibanfaqugenggainanrenlanqingdetianxing。yuanyizhengjiuhunyin，baochijiadeyizhixing，congbenshenzheshoucaigengfeichangrongyihuodelixianghuadexiachang。

 wojuede，zheifenqingganxuehuai，nantitongchangbingfeidanfangde，chuguinanrensuiranqiancuowancuo，keshizaoshouchuguinvrenzishenbuyidingjiumeiyounanti。erzaizheileineishihou，qudanxinnanrenzuochudebuzhengque，zhenxinshiyiwujiyushi，liangzhezhijianqushechilangfeihuolibeitongyujue，bibushanghaohaodidecongzishencengmianzheshou，qinfentigaogaibianxianzhuang，bawozhunanrenmitudexin。laogongchuguilezenmewanhui?

 laogongchuguilezenmewanhui?zheileigenggaihetigao，nenggoucongliangcengmianzheshou：diyishitigaozishendewaizaifengcai，qishiwojuedewuxuduobiaoshu，aimeilishinvshidebenxing，zuoweiyigenvhai，duowojiujibazishenchuanzhedabandelianglixingxiangshihenbixude。

 shishishang，xuduonvshi，zaiwanhunyihou，douyouyusuosuiyashen，bujingyidehushilezheiyinanti。woshenpangxuduodejihunnvxing，douyongyouzheixingdenanti，juedezaoyiwanhun，biaomianyibuyounaxieshijiyiyi，mangzhegongzuozhonghedaiwa，hushilezishenwaizaipinpaixingxiang，jieguoniandanshi30，jiunongdebenshenxingrongkugao，kanshangquxiangsishikaiwaidelaotaitai。

 haiyouxixindenanren，zhengriyingduineiyang1gefengcaiquanwudexifu，yexuyehuijuedeniwei。yincizuoweiyiweinvshi，bulunshenmeshihou，shihuanshibubihushilewaizaimeideguanjian。

 qiershishitigaozijidebenzhifengcai，duibiyuwaizaifengcai，benzhifengcaixiangduixinggengnantigao，zuijichudecengmian，jiushishuoyaogaibianxianzhuangjiehunhoupuluchuqudemouxiequexian，gaoduzhongshishenpangdeta。huoxu，zheiyezhishiqimade，daliangdetigao，yeyoucongfengfuduocaizishendeyishizhuxing，tigaozijidezhuanyezhishilaizheshou。

 fengfuduocaizishendeyishizhuxing，shaomouxieyikao，tigaozhutixing，caigengyouzizhihelingyifanggongpinghuihua;ertigaozijidezhuanyezhishi，rangzishenyuelaiyuegengcongminglingli，zenenggengqiangdehelingyifangxunzhaoxianghuyuju，jilingyifangdegongzuodaliangdexiezhu。youwaidaoneigenggaibenshen，nenggourangshenpangdetaguanniandao，nisuanshitarichangshenghuobibukeshaodeduifang，jinerxuanyalema，zhongfanzhenggui。

其次层面：采用必需方式防护第三者儿，消除彼此的情感

 genggaibenshen，keyijiegoujiagunigennanpengyoudeguanlian，keshixuduoneishihou，jianghuihaidabushangkanduanlingyifangguanliandemudi。fanghudisanzheer，xiaochutamendeqinggan，cainengzuodaozhenzhengjinibianchengrenshengdaoludedayingjia。huoxu，zenyangfenlichulailaogongyouhedisanzheer，neihenjianghuijiushinirenshengdaoluyaoyingduideyizhengtiaozhan，nihenjianghuibixuconggegefangmianzheshou，zhaodaozhengdangxingdeyuanyin，tahuimeiyouhedisanzheerchupengdejiyu。

 shijidangzhong，zuizhengdangxingdeyuanyin，moguogongzuozhongshenghuo，birushuonibiaozhunchongzu，nenggoulijirangdisanzheerdeqiyediaozoulingyifang，yejiushishuonigennanpengyouyikuaiertiaocao，yihuoshizaiqitadachengshigoufangbanxinjiazheixie。huoxu，neiyangdefuchudaijiadoutingda，bingqiefeichangrongyijinidelaogongdichu，benshenjiatinggongzuodebiaozhunbuzuhao，butiyicaiyongzheileiduice。

 xiangduilaishuo，duojigoumouxiejiazhongzhutihuodong，biruyikuaierxiedaihaizidujialvyou，huoshiranglaogongdaiwaquertongyouleyuanzheixie，yongxiaohailaibangzhulaogong，xiangduilaishuoshijiaoweihaodeduice。huanjuhuashuoyiduanhua，jinkenengzhaoxiefangfa，bujilaogonghedisanzhechupengdejiyu，shijiannengxiaochurenhe，dangtamenchupengdejiyushaole，qinggandaziranyejiudanle。

 danshi，yuanyijibaidisanzheer，qudechenggongduifudisanzhe，daliangdehuanshicongbenshencengmianzheshou，tigaobenshenfengcaisuanshizhangyuandasuan。burandehua，nijishiyixiazihuodeshengli，yemeifazhenshibawozhunanrenxin，feichangrongyizaicijitamenwaiyudejiyu。