老公出轨：如何对付第三者跟男朋友?

 laogongchugui zenmeban?yingduilaogongdebeipan，xuduolaopodounanyirenshou，yincifeijinxinsigezhonggeyangfangfayingduidisanzhehelaogong。keshiyaolejie“daogaoyizhangmogaoyichi”，ruguobushiyouliangdefangshi hezhihuixing，feichangrongyizaoshoulingyifangdeshuangxiangjiagong。neimadaodigaizenyanglingyifangdisanzhehelaogongni?

最先，要分而治之，攘外安内。

 yaoxiangyingduidisanzhehelaogong，nihaiyaomingbaifenerzhizhi，yifangliangrentuanjieyixin，jiangniguliwuyuan，houbiandisanzheerzhuanzhengdingji，niquefandaobianchengbierendexiaoliao。laogongchuguizenmeban?laogongwangwangwaiyu，tongchangshiwaibiandeyinyouchongzu。yaolejiezhenduinanreneryan，ruguoqueshihuochuqule，neitongchangbinvxinggenglixing，liyideshiertashihuizuodechuqude。

 yinci，nikeyixiangyingduidisanzhehelaogong，nihaiyaoxiankongzhunidelaogong。niyaoshiyougongzuonenglikongzhuleyizhi，neimayigebazhangpaibuxiang，renyoudisanzheerzenyangxingfengzuolang，neidoushizitaomeiqu。yinci，nikeyimingbaituanjieyizhirenhenenggoutuanjieyizhidenengliang，naizhinidegongpo，rangtamenweilenizhuangdaliliang，yikuaierposuidisanzheer，xianshouzhujiazhong，qitadenantihoubianzaijiejue。

次之，要声东击西，以问题为导向。

 xuduoneishihounvxingdexutaotongchangbianchengnanrenbeijinglixiangdeyuangu。laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?nijiranxiangyingduidisanzhehelaogong，jiunenggoushifanghuaqugaozhilaogongninengzenmeduifudisanzhe，lingwainihaikeyigaozhidisanzheerninengruhekandainilaogong。jiliangrenchedibutongdeguandian，rangliangrenzishenquwujiexianghu，jinershengchanzhizaotamenzhongjiandekongxi，nicongzheidangzhongganyu，balaogongwanliujiazhong，rangdisanzheerjianjuhunyinyiwai。

 jiazhongdezhongzhongzhizhongjiushishuoranglaogonggendisanzheerduanjuelianluo，yinciniwubixiangfangfaranglaogonglejiedisanzheerquanbudequexianhenanti，naizhiranglaogonggaoqingchu，tajinjinxiaishang1gelixianghuadelianren，ershishishangzheileilixiangshizishenxiangxiangde，disanzheermeiyoutaxiangxiangdeneimajizhi。eryishizhuxingzishenjiushishuoyaozhongguizishendezuobiao。

最终，要明白忍者神龟，福源流长。

 ruguonihaojinrenhenengliangjianglaogongliuyoushi，nihaiyaomingbairennai，rennaitaduinideweimanhemaiyuan。youyu1geneixinyouguotarendenanren，tongchanghuinanigenlingyifangjiaowei。laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?keshinikeyigaoqingchu，hunyindangzhongyuanbenjiushishuotouzhexuduobuhemudeyinlefuhao，lingyifangzaoyiliudaonideshenpangle，nihekuquzaihutaneixinjiujingshiruhexiangde，jibiantaxiangdedao，tayemeifazuodaoshuangquan。

 dengguoxieshiri，quanbudereqingdouhuazuofawei，ninenggaoqingchu，zhenduijiazhongeryan，pingjingdeqingkuang，pingfandeshenghuozishenjiushishuozheizhongxingfukuaile。tebieshizainianjiyueda，yuebuxiangquzaihuwangri。tayouguodisanzheer，keshizaiyebuhuiyouyutayiqianfanguodebuzhengquejiusheqilingyifang，erzheizishendoushizheizhongbaorong，yeshizheizhongdazhihui。

 ruguoniyingduiledisanzhehelaogong，ninenggaoqingchuhaodehunyinyuanxianjiushishuowangribujiu，zhongguifawei。fufubicizhongjian，yizhihuiyoulingyifangfancuo，mingbaijiejuekunnandeneiren，tongchangcaihuizaizhihouhunyinzhongjubeigengdadezhudaoquan。yinciyiwangdeshier，jiuzuoweishishuizhimeng，rangtamendoubianchengyiwangba!