laogongchugui zenmeban?yingduilaogongdebeipan,xuduolaopodounanyirenshou,yincifeijinxinsigezhonggeyangfangfayingduidisanzhehelaogong。keshiyaolejie“daogaoyizhangmogaoyichi”,ruguobushiyouliangdefangshi hezhihuixing,feichangrongyizaoshoulingyifangdeshuangxiangjiagong。neimadaodigaizenyanglingyifangdisanzhehelaogongni?
最先,要分而治之,攘外安内。
yaoxiangyingduidisanzhehelaogong,nihaiyaomingbaifenerzhizhi,yifangliangrentuanjieyixin,jiangniguliwuyuan,houbiandisanzheerzhuanzhengdingji,niquefandaobianchengbierendexiaoliao。laogongchuguizenmeban?laogongwangwangwaiyu,tongchangshiwaibiandeyinyouchongzu。yaolejiezhenduinanreneryan,ruguoqueshihuochuqule,neitongchangbinvxinggenglixing,liyideshiertashihuizuodechuqude。
yinci,nikeyixiangyingduidisanzhehelaogong,nihaiyaoxiankongzhunidelaogong。niyaoshiyougongzuonenglikongzhuleyizhi,neimayigebazhangpaibuxiang,renyoudisanzheerzenyangxingfengzuolang,neidoushizitaomeiqu。yinci,nikeyimingbaituanjieyizhirenhenenggoutuanjieyizhidenengliang,naizhinidegongpo,rangtamenweilenizhuangdaliliang,yikuaierposuidisanzheer,xianshouzhujiazhong,qitadenantihoubianzaijiejue。
次之,要声东击西,以问题为导向。
xuduoneishihounvxingdexutaotongchangbianchengnanrenbeijinglixiangdeyuangu。laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?nijiranxiangyingduidisanzhehelaogong,jiunenggoushifanghuaqugaozhilaogongninengzenmeduifudisanzhe,lingwainihaikeyigaozhidisanzheerninengruhekandainilaogong。jiliangrenchedibutongdeguandian,rangliangrenzishenquwujiexianghu,jinershengchanzhizaotamenzhongjiandekongxi,nicongzheidangzhongganyu,balaogongwanliujiazhong,rangdisanzheerjianjuhunyinyiwai。
jiazhongdezhongzhongzhizhongjiushishuoranglaogonggendisanzheerduanjuelianluo,yinciniwubixiangfangfaranglaogonglejiedisanzheerquanbudequexianhenanti,naizhiranglaogonggaoqingchu,tajinjinxiaishang1gelixianghuadelianren,ershishishangzheileilixiangshizishenxiangxiangde,disanzheermeiyoutaxiangxiangdeneimajizhi。eryishizhuxingzishenjiushishuoyaozhongguizishendezuobiao。
最终,要明白忍者神龟,福源流长。
ruguonihaojinrenhenengliangjianglaogongliuyoushi,nihaiyaomingbairennai,rennaitaduinideweimanhemaiyuan。youyu1geneixinyouguotarendenanren,tongchanghuinanigenlingyifangjiaowei。laogongyouwaiyuzenmeban?keshinikeyigaoqingchu,hunyindangzhongyuanbenjiushishuotouzhexuduobuhemudeyinlefuhao,lingyifangzaoyiliudaonideshenpangle,nihekuquzaihutaneixinjiujingshiruhexiangde,jibiantaxiangdedao,tayemeifazuodaoshuangquan。
dengguoxieshiri,quanbudereqingdouhuazuofawei,ninenggaoqingchu,zhenduijiazhongeryan,pingjingdeqingkuang,pingfandeshenghuozishenjiushishuozheizhongxingfukuaile。tebieshizainianjiyueda,yuebuxiangquzaihuwangri。tayouguodisanzheer,keshizaiyebuhuiyouyutayiqianfanguodebuzhengquejiusheqilingyifang,erzheizishendoushizheizhongbaorong,yeshizheizhongdazhihui。
ruguoniyingduiledisanzhehelaogong,ninenggaoqingchuhaodehunyinyuanxianjiushishuowangribujiu,zhongguifawei。fufubicizhongjian,yizhihuiyoulingyifangfancuo,mingbaijiejuekunnandeneiren,tongchangcaihuizaizhihouhunyinzhongjubeigengdadezhudaoquan。yinciyiwangdeshier,jiuzuoweishishuizhimeng,rangtamendoubianchengyiwangba!
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