正室怎样恰当对付第三者？老公有外遇怎么处理

 laogongyouwaiyu zenmechuli?dajiajingchangshuo：nanrenfuyoujiuxuehuai，nvxingxuehuaijiufuyou。zheihuajiushizhinanrenfuyouyihoubuzhongchengjiazhong，waibianzhaoqingren。nvxingquwaibianganxinqingyuandidangbierendedisanzheerneimajiuxuduorenchuqianle。zuoweizhengshi，nikuxinjingyingleneimajiudejiazhong，turanyouyitianbeidisanzhejijiaoluanle，bidinghuixinyoubugan。neimazuoweizhengshi，gaizenyangqiadangdiduifudisanzheni?

最先，不必打草惊蛇

 yaoduifudisanzhe，haiyaoxiangdao1geshuangquanzhice。zaifangfameiyouxianghaoyiqian，qiejidacaojingshe。youyuyoushizhiyaonibalaogongrejile，huoxutahaizhendeganrangnilaigeliyixuxianni!disanzheerchuxianzainiyulaogongzhongjian，suiranjinishanggan，keshinikeyilejiezuowei1gechengshuqideren，shangganshimeiyouyongde，zongshizengjiakunaodefudu。laogongchuguizenmeban?

 zhinenghuaaitongweinengliang，haohaodixiangzhezenyangchulizhongzhongzhizhongsuanshizhongyao。duifudisanzhe，jiranshiyuanjia，jiuyuanjiayijiebushihejie，youxiuderentongchangrulvbobingdijiubashiershasizaimengyaqihuanjie。zhinengxiangjiaohaodefangfa，rangtaganxinqingyuandichechudajiadehunhoushenghuo，nidejiazhongcaihuizhongguiningjing。

次之，得换种构思去解决你与第三者儿的仇怨

 renzheiyibeizi，wojuedewulunpengdaonaxieshier，huoxuquanshizhongjiuyaopengdaodeshier。buyiyangdejiushiniduishierdeguandianhexintai，weihaizhenideyouyuegan。disanzheerganyuledajiadejiazhong，zheishizaoyichanshengle，jiububiqumaiyuannaxie。nihebubadisanzheeryuechuqu，qukafeitingzuoxia，huoshiquchidunfenghoudewufan，bianchibianliao。

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?rangtagaoqingchuniyunanrendeyiwang，rangtagaoqingchuchuangli1gejiazhongdebuyi，nigaozhitazaiyebuhuiyouyutadeganyujiusuibiandichechunidehunyin，bingqienidelaogongyeburongyichechuzheicihunyin。tahainianqing，jiarutabukeyilejiehegaoqingchuyigenvhaidejianxinhexinsuan。

 nihaiyaorangtalejietabixuduizishenderenshengdaoluchengdan，erbingbushizaitarendehunyinlidangdisanzhe，zuihoubudeshanzhong。jiarudisanzheerkeyitingjinlainidehua，biaomingtayeyoujiu。jiarutaxinjingbuxialainidehua，neimanixiayijieduanzaixiangfangfajiejuedajiazhongjiandeshier。

再度，和老公谈一谈你对第三者儿的观点和责任与担当

 niyaowanhuihunyin，nibixudeshiyingduizheijianshiqingdedanliangheqipo。helaogonghaohaotantan，bingbushitanqita，zhishitandisanzheer。laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?ninengtuixinzhifudigaozhilaogong，jiarushinanxing，niyexiaidisanzheerneiyangdenvxing，youyutanianqing、tahaokan，tatongqingdali。danshizuoweinanren，jielehun，hainengpengdaozishenaideren，haikeyidongxin，biaomingzishenxintaizhuangtaihaihennianqing。danxiaibingbushiyiweizhezhanjucaihao。

 dangniaiyigerenerbukeyijitajianglai，bukeyijitayuanyideguishugan，erjinjinxiangbangzhuta，neineiyangjianzhiduitataitaobizerenle。jiaruxuehaofangkaishou，rangtahaiyoujihuixunzhaozhenshizuigaitaaihexunmideren。rangtaxingfukuailedi，kaixindihuozhu，zheijianzhigenggaocengcirencaidixiaime?nijuedezuowei1gechengshunanren，liyingzhisuoxingzhi，erbingbushijiaozongwangwei。jiarulaogongkeyitingjinlainidehua，neimajiuhuiduandiaoneifennianxiang，zhongguijiazhong。

 conghuidelaopotongchangshinanxingdeyigezhilumingdeng，jibiannanrenzaiheiyindangzhongyehuixunzhaoxiangqiandelu。zuoweizhengshi，nikeyiduifudisanzhe，haiyaotongshijinxing，zaidiaojiehaozishenxintaizhuangtaidelingwai，quzuodisanzhehelaogongliangrendeguanniangongzuozhong。

 dangnikeyitahuadoushuojintamendexinwozili，jianxintamenyehuizhisuoxingzhi。dangnijiejuedehao，jiujiwanliulelaogong，yehuihuodedisanzheerdejingpei，dashihuaxiao，caihuijiejuediaohunhoushenghuozhongdezuai，jinermaixiangningjingheanxiang。