老公有外遇怎么处理：怎样对付第三者能够让她知难而上

 laogongyouwaiyu zenmechuli?disanzheer，tongchangbeizhengshimenjuedeshihongyanhuoshui，youyuxuduozhengshiyouyunanyirenshoulaogongdepanbian，jinerbanaonudehuomiaodoupianxiangdisanzheer。keshiqingxubuwendingdeshengsilijietongchangnanyijiejuejiatingwenti，haihuijiangnihelaogongzhongjiandefenqituishangqudianfeng。ruheduifudisanzhe?zheibudanshigeshijinanti，huanshigeqingshangzhishangnanti。zheierjiujiaonizheijigechangyongzhaoshiduifudisanzherangtazhinanershangdefangfa。

第一种办法：分辨善与恶，再以其人之道还治其人之身

 renmenkaoliangtaren，tongchangxiguanxingyizishendeguifanhemuguang，yincirenmenmeibanfatiaochulaizishendeluojisiweijiagou。renmenhuisuibianfourentarendejiazhiquxiangherenshengjiazhiguan，duizishendejiazhiquxiangherenshengjiazhiguanxinyiweizhen。benzhishang，shehuifazhanwangwangduozhongduoyang，gengshiyouyurenyurenzhijiansiweimoshidebuyiyang。

 niyaoduifudisanzhe，nihaiyaogaoqingchu：tashi1genaxiederen，jiuyinaxiedefangfaduita。youyujiarudisanzheershineileixindishanliang，shiyizhenzimishiyibuxiaoxindezuidaolenilaogong，nijiaruguyididuifu，zongshihongtuocaihuinidedijianhedicengcidezhili，bingqieyuanjiayijiebushihejie，jitarenshengchanzhizaofannaodelingwaizishenyebuyidingjiuhuikaixin。laogongchuguizenmeban?

 jiarudisanzheershineileiliejibanbandiandiandenvxing，neimanibiranyaocaiyongbixudeduicejitajingyanjiaoxun，rangtalejieqiangzhongziyouqiangzhongshou，daogaoyizhang，mogaoyichi，niyebingbushihaodezuide，jinerrangtayouyuqienuohejupaerdujuenidelaogong，dujuenidejiazhong。

第二种办法：与你老公果断不提离异

 youyudisanzheerdechuxian，nigennanpengyouzhongjianchuxianlehenhouzhangbi。zheiyineishihouninengshengsilijiedishangxin，keshiyuefazaishangxindeneishihouyuefayaotingshoudele，youyuzheiyineishihoudangniyouyushangxinergennanpengyouliyi，weilainiganshoudebingbushitarendelianmin，eryiyangshitarendeqiaobuqi。

 laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?haodehunyintongchangdoushiyouquexiande，nikeyigaoqingchuzheiyidianer。lingwai，haodeganqingzuihouquanshiyihunyinweizuizhongdeguichu，disanzheerzuodejiule，biranyaozhuanzhengdingji。zhiyaonibaneiyangdejiyusuiyijiujileta，zongshirangtahuodedelisuodangran。

 yinci，buguandisanzheerzairuhexiazheteng，nibixushouhaonidehunyin。ruguonigennanpengyoubuliyi，disanzheerjiumeifayuanmanzhuanzhengdingji。neimazaishehuifazhandeshehuiyulunhegongzuoyalizhizhong，zaishijiandemolianhejiancezhizhong，huoxutayunilaogongneidianlushuiqingyuandaziranhuibugongerpo。

第三种办法：去见第三者儿的爸爸妈妈和亲人

 disanzheeryiyoudisanzheerdelaichu。jiarutaruheyebuxiangyaochechudajiadejiazhong，neimajiuxiangfangfadaidianlipinqujiandaodisanzheerdebabamamaheqinren。yaojianxindisanzheerjibiankeyijienanidelaogong，keshidisanzheerdeqinrenbuyidingjiukeyijiena。zhongjiu1gejielehundenanrenduiyigenvhaieryanzhenshideshiyongjiazhijiubingbushitingda，youdejinjinroulinmeishaonvdeneikexin。

 zuoweidisanzheerdebabamamaheqinren，bixuyeqidaidisanzheerweilaiyougewennuandejia，erbingbushizaizaitarendejiazhongdangzuodisanzhe，jitarendexiaohaidangjimu。laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?jiarunikeyishuodongdisanzheerdebabamamaheqinrenquandaodisanzheermituzhifan，neimajiuhuirangdisanzheerzishencongxinlibianhuazishendeguandian，jinerwukenaihehexiaochenzhizhongchechudajiadehunyin。

 yaoduifudisanzhe，nihaiyaoquchunideguoduanhejianchibuxie。buhuiyindisanzheerdechuxianjiufangkaishouhunyin。yaoxianjizhongzhuyiliduifudisanzhe，rangdisanzheertihuidaonideyingxianglibukedongyao，jinerzhinanershang。

 duiyuchuguinanrenqishibuzhengque，zhihouguanqimenlaizaijiejue。jiarunikeyiweichineiyangdelixing，nizongyougongzuonenglizaiciwanliuguishuyuzishendexingfukuaile，jinerzuihoudouhuanshangdisanzheer，zuowenzhengshizheibayi。