正室应当如何对付第三者 老公有外遇怎么处理

 laogongyouwaiyu zenmechuli?1gexiangxiwenxindejia，bidingyouyigeconghuidelaopo，mingbaiweihujiazhong，yingduisuishisuidichuixianzishenlaogongdedisanzheer。jiaruyouyitiankuxinjingyingdejiazhongbeidisanzhejihuihuaile，neimazuoweizhengshi，huiruheduifudisanzheni?

 xuduozhengshizailejiezishenlaogongyoudisanzheer，shouweifanyingdaduoshushichouqi、dachaodanao、baoyuan，yikuernaosandiaosi，buzhetengwanbushibubaxiu。laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?zaimeishenmelixingfangkongzijiganqingdelingwai，yezaihaofeizishenhelaogongdeqingfen。

那麼，聪慧的正室，会有怎么对付第三者的方式 呢?

 zuixian，wulunzenyangbixushandaiziji，bukeyiyongtamendeguoshilaisunhaizishen。yigeshizishenyebuzuiaideren，zennengbawozhulaogongdexin。huoxu，zheibingfeixiangyaonizuo1gejianliwangyi，zisizilideren，zhishimeiyouhunyinzhongbianchengnanrendejingshenjituo。xuduozhengshizaijiehunhou，danglaogongduitazhuyaobiaoxianchulengdan，xiedaihou，xinligengweimiwang，jiufeichangrongyipoguanposhuai，rangzishengengweidiluo，huitoutulian。

我觉得，在发觉第三者儿后，必须更善待自己，维护自身的人体，不许自身变成悍妇，保存自尊。

 laogongchuguizenmeban?cizhi，yunyongzishenzuoweizhengshideyoudian，zhuanshouweigong。zheiershuodezhuanshouweigong，bingfeizhibadisanzheerzhuodaojieshang，luandayilian，paigeshipin。nijinguanlizaileshehuidaodedezhuzhendi，keshihushilezuiguanjianderen，nidelaogong。cishinanrenjinguanyeyouwaiyudeneijiu，dandaliangdeshiduidisanzheerdetengaiyutengai。

 zuoweizhengshi，jinihelaogongyishizhuxinghenduoniannonghoudeganqing，jinixiaohaiduinideyilai。waibiandisanzheduodeshishenmigan，niyouzhedaliangnonghoudeqingfen，tashitawukebinide。nibixudejiushishuoyunyongzishendeyoudian，nidemaotoubingbushidisanzheer，zhishilaogong。disanzheeryouqianwanzhong，shichulibuwande，laogongzhineng1ge，nikeyilaolaobawodeshilaogongdexin。

 ranhou，helaogongyichengxiangdaixiangtan，zuohaozhenqingpai。helaogonglizhixiangtan，wenni：shixiaidisanzheerdenianqingmaomeihuanshitongqingdali，jiarushiyizhenzixinxianninengkuanrong，tongqingdalinihaikeyibaozheng，jiaruyouyixiecengmianqueshishidisanzheerzuodebininhao，nenggoujiuzhengzishenyiqiandebuzhengque。

 helaogongtanyitanyiwu，zuoweinanren，tayaozenyangduidisanzheerchengdan，zuowei1gehaizi，zenyangyingduiqinrendechize，zuoweibaba，ruheyingduixiaohai，zuowei1gelaogong，xubuxuyaoqinzichaikaizheiyijia。jinkenengyongrouhedefangfa，chulizheicizhengduo。zheili，linghuoyunyongzhenqingpai。laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?zhuiyihaizidechengzhangdeyidianyidi，zhuiyilianggerencongcongyuqingchunnianshaoyibuyibumaijinzhonglaonian，gongtongjinbu，laoqu……ranglaogonghuiyiqidajiadeganqing，yongwenrenxinghualaogong。

 zuizhong，laogongruohaiyaojiazhonghedisanzheerzhongjianyouyubuding，bibushangkuaidaozhanluanma，fangshouyibo，jitashijian。shiqudezhongjiuzaizaodong，zailaogongmeiyouchedihuodedisanzheer，tahuixiangyouyikuaiertouhuandekuaile，neiguzaodonghuicujintapanbianni。danhuodelededisanzheer，laogongshifouhaihuixiangtongaitani?shijianhuijidajiacankaodaan。

 qidaizuoyoudefangshi keyibangzhengshiduifudisanzhe，wanliulaogongdexin，weihuzishendejiazhong。keshijiaruruhezuoyewanbuhuidelaogong，bibushangfangkaishou，fenbiezhaoxunxindexingfukuaile。