老公出轨怎么办：迅速对付第三者的是方法

 laogongyouwaiyu zenmechuli?disanzheer，kunhuoleshiduoshaozhengshi，neileiziyaliezuidetaoyan，cushixuduolaopoturanzhijianshenxianshengsilijie。shubuzhirichangshenghuochuxianlebeiju，maiyuanhetongchubudanwujiyushi，haihuizitiankunao。qingganlideshier，tongchangshidangduanbuduan，fanshouqiluan。zheierjiuxiangxijieshaoxunsuduifudisanzhedeshifangfa：sanbuzouzhanlve。jiarunengbaozhengzheiyidianer，neimajiunenggaohaolaopoderenwujiaose。

首先：“攘外必先安内”

 jiaruniyaoxiangxiyinnanren，neimadaziranhuanshiyaoliuyixiemianbujinanrende。bukeyizainanrenneibiannaorennanxiu，gengbukeyidaonanrendeqiyeliqunaoderenjinjiezhi。nikeyijiazhuangmanbuzaihu，bingbushinibuzaiyi，jinjinnigaoqingchunaokaiguoduidajiaxianghudaliangdejinjinsunhai。laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?laogongxianrujinyongyoudisanzheer，tongchangzheilibianyeshinideyuangu。nikeyiliuyidiaojiezishen，yizhixinlidenuqi，xianbadangjindezhiguanzhongyaodewentichulile，zaixiangzhezhihougaizenyanggentajiaowang。

其次：先礼后兵让第三者儿全自动撤出

 tongchangnanrenyongyouhunwailian，shiburongyiganxinqingyuandechechude。laogongchuguizenmeban?zheiyineishihounizhiyouzaidisanzheerzheierhenxiagongfu。nihebuxunzhaodisanzheerdeqinpenghaoyou，dongzhiyiqing，xiaozhiyili，hedisanzheerdeqinpenghaoyougongyizheiyishiergaizenyangjiejueweihao。jiarudisanzheerdeqinpenghaoyouxiangyaoyunimiqiepeihe，yiqishuodongdisanzheerchechuhunwailian，neimashenhao。

 burannizhiyoudaizhunideqinpenghaoyouyiqiangshidefangshiposhidisanzheerchechu。nikeyirangdisanzheerlejiexianlihoubingjiushiniduitadexintai，buguanzenyangtacanzazaidajiadejiazhonglizishenjiushishuocuowude。tiandinanrenneimaduo，hekuanlian1geyoufuzhifuni?rangdisanzheerlejienijishixiangwanliunidejiazhong，yeshiweitakaolvdao。tongweinvxing，youhebidiaonannvxingni?

接着：重新点燃跟男朋友一起幸福生活的期待

 renzheiyibeizizuiguanjiandejiushishuoqidai。yongyouqidairutongheiyinzhongjiandaoleyisisiguanghuixiangtong，huijiniguzhidiquzhuiqiuwanmei。laogongwangwangyoudisanzheer，youyuxinnongcuolediqu。zheiyineishihounikeyixunzhaodajiazuowei1gejiazhongdejiaodaqidai：liruyao1gehaizi，yejiushishuoyaoqinfenyikuaieryunyingxingfukuaile。

 duohuamouxieshijianhesixupeibanlaogong，jitamenchanshengnanyixiangxiangdeganshouhejuede，tahuijuededaojiazhongdailaitadewennuanheguishugan。jiarunanrenzaijiazhonglijuededaoguanhuaidehua，jiuburongyiquwaibianxunzhaoai。laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?zhinengbuquezuiaideren，nenggouyougongzuonengliquhuijuewaibudeyinyou，jinerzhiliyuzishendejiazhong，danfuqizishenjianbangdeyiwu，bazishendeyishizhuxingguohao。

 doudayingnanrenshinvxingdiaoshichuqude。congmingnvrendoumingbaigaizenmeranglaogongbiancheng1gegengyouzerengandenanren。dangnikeyibaozhengzheiyidianer，jiukeyixiyinlaogong，ganpaodisanzheer，lingwaiyehuizaicizhengjiuhunyindedaojiazhongdewennuanhexingfukuaile。dangnibawolexunsuduifudisanzhedesanbuzouzhanlve，jiubawolexunsuyingduitadeshifangfa。jibusunhaita，yejilaogongliuchuqingmian，lingwaizishenyeburongyiyouyuzenghenzijiermishiziwo。