老公出轨怎么办：媳妇哪种方式对付第三者

 laogongyouwaiyu zenmechuli?renshengburuyideshishiyoubajiu，hunyinjiushizaiqizhongqiyi。dangnixinshidandandeyongganqing、shicidaqihunyindeguchengbao，bingzailibianjiaoaozimanshi，renmenwojuedezaoyishizaoyusimianchugedeweiji，liruhunwailian。

 laogongchuguizenmeban?hunwailianshirenmengengweipubiandehunlianwenti，danshixuduoxifuzaifajuelaogongyongyouhunwailianyihou，xuanyongdequanshibulixingdefangshi quduifudisanzhe，zuizhongzaochengleshiershibangongbei，liangrenzuihouyezhiyoubugaoerbie、caocaoshouchang。

 duifudisanzhedefangshi shishubushengshu，danconghuidelaopokandailaogonghunwaiqing，huichenzhelengjing、lizhi、qiejiejuededexinyingshou，neimajiujingzheizhongconghuidexifudouyingyonglenaxiedefangshi laikandaidisanzheer，zuowenzhengshizhizhini?

行于心，不表于色，以包容之情待之。

 dangtamenfajuelaogongyouledisanzheyihou，tamenzuikaishizuodebingbushilangkuguihao，zhishizainaozhongyoubujiqishuzhongyuwangyuanyigaosilingyifangdelingwai，lizhichenzhelengjing，buchaobunao。laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?youyutamenqingxidelejie，dadanaonaobudanburongyiyouhaodejieguo，zuihoujianghuiyehuijiangjinyoudeyidianerqingganyexiaohaodaijinle，erzheixianeryijianbingbushitamenyuanyidejieguo。

 yinci，zaizheiyineishihou，tamenjibianzaishangxin、nanguo，yezongshixinlimomodidebushufuzhe;chucizhiwai，tamenxiaochurenzhinenglizheishilaogonghedisanzhexianeryijianzaoyilangbeiweijian。

 yinciduiwaikaifang，tamenshixintaijiweijiandingbuyi，danyouwushili;tizhi，yiaiguangaihunyin，ranglaogongzhongfanzishenwenrouxiang。tamenkegumingxindegaoqingchu，duifudisanzheyouxiaodefangfa，bingbushiyongdiliedefangshijiangtamenganpao，zhishiyiyouhao、kuanrongzhiqing，jianglaogongwanliu。laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?

把握恰当，泰然处之。

 shuobailedebaorongzhiqing，bingbushibaokuozheixieyihuihuaibierenjiazhongdedisanzheer，kandaizheizhongdisanzheer，xifubixuzuodejiushishuokuai、zhun、wen。bujinyaolizaifalvfaguideshijiaoqujiejuenanti，yiqiefangfa、fangshi bixubawoqiadang，buzuoyiqieweifanguidingdeshi，lirudajiadouou、dajia，chuxianbiantilinshangdekongbujiemian。

 zhishizaifalvfaguifanweizhineijiangrenheshierjiejuededang，liruzhaoxunsijiazhentan，duidisanzheerkaizhanrenrousousuohejingshenshizhijingong，xianluanqixin，zailuanqishen，zuizhongjiangqixinshencuihui，bukezaihuihuaizishendehunyin。

尽较大的勤奋，但也搞好最坏的准备。

 hunyinchuxiandisanzheer，bingbujinshilaogonghedisanzhedenanti，yeshibenshenhehunyindengnanti。zheiyineishihouzishenbixuyaoquelizishendeguandian，jiujinglaogongshizhongchengyuzishenhehunyin，huanshipianzhongyudisanzhehehunwailian，weicimingquezishenshipugonghuanshijiji。

 jiarulaogonghuanshizhongchenghunyin，neimajiuduoziwofansihetigaozishen，xunzhaodaozhizhangfuchuguideyuanyin，erqieduizhengzhiliaojiejuehaonanti。danjiarulaogongrengranyanfanzheiyiduanhunyin，erqieduidisanzheshifendechixin，zheiyineishihouzishenhaiyaokaolvdaoshibushiliyi，yizuishaodesunhaichaoguoyuguzuiyoulideshijixiaoguo。