老公有外遇怎么处理 怎么做能够击败第三者儿

 laogongyouwaiyu zenmechuli?zhangfuchuguiqizizenmeban?wojiangzaiwoguo，jiaruyouzhonggangweizuikuzuiku，neizheileigangweibixujiushishuolaopo。woxiangyao，yingdangmeirendizhiba。

 shubuzhi，kuyulei，jinguanhuizhinvxingshenlei，danjiarulaogongkeyitxulaopo，lejienvxingdeburongyi，neiyekeyijinijuedeneixinainuan。jibianouyoumaiyuan，xiangqilaogongdetengxinengjia，neiyezhile。danshi，tongchangzheiyishehuifazhanyeyoulingwaigangwei，huiranghunyinzhongdenvxingshenxinjiaocui，neibianshidisanzheer。neima，zuoweihunyinzhongpugongdenvxingyingdangruheduifudisanzheni?

 shuodaozheiyihuatitaolun，woqingchudehaijideershichanshengzailinjudeshiqing。linjuayisanshiliuqi，laogongsishichutou，yuyouyizi10sui，yinv5sui。yijianbenkekeqiqi，zhizhiyigenvhaidechuxian，baituolebenlaideningjing。

 nvrensanshiyixie，congxiaoduzichulveweituqideyifukuzi，nengkandechutaxianyoubeiyun。nvxingzourulegebilinjujiazhong，yaozhaodajiedelaogong。laogongyouwaiyuzenmechuli?jiandaozheiyishengshudeliankong，zaijiandaolaogongshanduodemuguang，nvxingjimindedi6gangaoqingchufashengshenmeshishi。

 naonu、xiuchigan、duji、zhuihuizhuduoqingyibingjizaitaderendedanao，xintaishitaqueshilelixing，shunshoulunqijiazhongdeyitiaogunzi，henhenwangzheiyishengshunvxingshoushangzaqu。nvxingduoshanbuji，yizhenzhenluangunzhetiangaidiwangshoushangzalai，tazhilejieyongshoujingjudihuzhefuqiang，kanjianyibianshierbujiandenanren，tapaichuleshangxindeyanlei。

 dajiejiandaoyibiandehaizi，zhufutawomenyiqilaianzheyanxiazheiyibuyaoliandenvren。yinci，dajieyuerzibanvxinganzaituli，daguobuqingchuduozhangshijian，zaibianshangdenanrenzeyishengbuxiang。

 zhangfuchuguiqizizenmeban?zheiyishierdexiachangshi：nvrenbeisonglaidaoyiyuanmenzhen，guohoudajiejiapeile3siqiankuaiqian。neishihoude3wanbingbushi1gexiaoqian。

 rujinwohuixiangdaozheijianshiqing，qingjinghuanshijiyiyouxin。dajiejibaidisanzheerlemeiyou?shide，tajibailedisanzheer。dantadezuofa，queshizuifengxiande。jiaruhuangeqiangshiyidianerdenanren，tadezuofahaowuyiwenhuidebuchangshi。neima，yuanyijibaidisanzheer，zuishidudezuofashishenme?zhei3geliucheng，nibixulejie。

搜集直接证据以柔克刚

 xubuxuyaoxiansoujizhijiezhengju，yiroukegangni?zheihaiyaocongwoguodehunyinfalvjiqishehuidaodelunlidaodequjiangguo。hunyinfayaoqiu，youzhixiqinshuzheyubierentongjushenghuozaochengliyide，wuguocuozerenfangyouquankenqiusunshipeichang。lingyige，lingyifangwaiyule，nideyaoyouzhijiezhengju，meiyouzhijiezhengjuqueshuotawaiyu，tarenruhelaijianxinnilei?

 yeyouyidianerhenguanjiandejiushishuo，woguojiatinghunyin，beiwaiyudelingyifangtongchangshipugongdelingyifang，erpugongjiufeichangrongyibeiqianzhebizizou，yinci，nisoujidaozhijiezhengjuyihou，jiunenggouhuapugongweijiji，buguanniyaoliyihuanshizhengjiuzheiyiduanhunyin，duinieryanquanshiyoudaliangyichude。

先礼后兵决不手抽筋

 shouxiangaohaoyihou，zaiduinishuodelaogongjiqidisanzheer，nizaoyilejietamendeshier，erqieyoujutidezhijiezhengju，jitamenjihui。

 jiarutabulihuini，zaicitadechugui，jiujuebunengshouchoujin，renheyizhaoqiangshidezuofa，caozongtadehuiji，jiqitonggaoqinrenpenyou，qianqushangyizheijianshiqing，juebunengyouyuzaiyitademianziwenti，ergubuzifeng。

自我反省提高认识

 xuduoneishihou，nidenanrenhuiwaiyu，nikeyixiangzhezishenshoushangyoumuyouyuangu。liru，nijitamendeshijiantaiguosuiyi，niduitadeyishizhuxingwanzhangwodebuzu，jiqiweibawotadehuijidongtaixing。huoxu，haiyaofangongzishengyixiaxia，zheishibushiniduitabuzuhao，huanshijiwoduinideaijiqiguanzhubuzu。

 lingwaizhengquerenshixianjieduanzheiyiduanhunyindetaishi，jiqilejietagendisanzheerdeganqinglaidao1genaxiedeshuiping。neiyangnenggouchuantouzhuangkuangkanshizhi，taweihewaiyu，ruhewanquanduanjuetawaiyudelumian。