第三者和原配的较量

 yuanpeibaodadisanzhezheiyangdeshiqingzaojiubingbushixinxianshierle。hulianwangshangdaizhuduoyouguandisanzheheyuanpeidejingdiangushi，xianglaidoushidisanzhewanbaoyuanpei，shenshaoyouyuanpeizuihouqianghuizishendezhangfu，zhangfuzuihoufaxiancuowulede。jishishiyuanpeizuihouhuosheng，fuqixiangchudeweieryehuifashengbianhua。

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 jiaruganjuehentongchu，jiufangshouba.jiaruzheiyinanrenaini？youliangzhitajiuburongyiduinizheibandecanku，burongyipanbianni，neiyangdenanshengyebuzhideniyongxiabancishengquduifuhedenghou。

 erduiyuyuanpeibiandisanzhe，zheiyejingchangrangnvshituranzhijianbianchengleshouhairen，naizhizuihuaidejieguohuishinvshizuihoushangtoulexin。zheiyishehuifazhanyoushihouhuijiniyayang，neibianshiqunzhongkandainanshitaiguodubaorong，ertongchangnvshishishenshouqihaide。

 renmenbuguanzenyangbixuxiliangrenmendeyanjing，jishiyizhenzihulihutuyebufangqizishenduizishendeai，ziduizishendeguanaishiyouweizhongyaode，dangheitianshi，haijidejizijiliuzhandeng。ganqingjibushangzishende，yaobashijianxiangmutouzizaizishenshoushang，qianwanbienashijianlaiguoduodebeishang、yuanqi。

 youderenjianghuihuiganjuetashimeibanfadeshier，benlaijiushishuodisanzhedebutaihao，huihuaitarendejiazhonghemu，nanaxiequbaorong。naizhiyouderenjiandisanzhejiugenkandaochouchongxiangtong，henbunenglikejiangtamenchuli。

 yincizaiwangshang、richangshenghuojiuhuicunyougezhonggeyangyuanpeibaodadisanzhedeexingshijian。zuoweinvshieryan，renmenyaomingbaikongzhuqi，ganghaoyouyuwomendoushiyuanpei，caibuzhideyudisanzhezaihu，fouze，disanzheheyuanpeiyigedaqilai，woyebuzhidaonageshidisanzhe，sheisuanshiyuanpei。hekuangmeiduanhunyinshenghuo，nengbeidisanzhechaikaide，yebuzhidequwanliu。

归属感自身为自己的，是他人夺没去的。两者之间花時间去跟丈夫探讨有多爱另一方，还不如，每日问一问自身，今日的自身有木有获得提高，有木有更善待自己多些，内心的藏宝，任凭再好的第三者全是夺不动的。而当原配变第三者这类情况落在自身手上，也可以学好平心静气，自天地万物担心，我自享受人生的人生境界。