男人有第三者怎么办？对付第三者的实用方法

 nanrenyoudisanzhezenmeban ？xianshishenghuozhonghenduoyuanpeiqizizaiyudaozijilaogongyouwaiyushi，doubuzhidaoruhechuli，benwenfenxiangduifudisanzhedeshiyongfangfa。

1、充足掌握另一方。

 zhibizhijibaizhanbudaizheiyifangshi yuanyuguyu，keyeyiyangshiyongduifudisanzhe。yaoshijiushiniduilideren，nenggouyongzheiyifangshi 。disanzheerhuoxujiushinidediduimen，yaojibaitamen，xianzhangwotamen。

 zheiyidadaolimeigerendoudong，keshiyaoruhequzhangwodirenni?jinliangbuyaochuantouzishendeairenquzhangwo，youyuairenbidinghuiqinglidisanzheer。

 yincichuantoudisanzheerzijidepenyouquzhangwo，naizhinenggoufanmiangendisanzheerdazhaomianquzhangwolingyifang。gaoqingchulingyifangdeaihao，nongqingchuxinggetezheng、jingjifazhanbiaozhun、jiazhongzhuangkuangzheixie。

2、把握住另一方重要。

 duifudisanzheganwanbukeyituola，bixuyaodashedaqicun，bawozhulingyifangdezhongyao，nenggouhelizhidi。shenmeshidisanzhedezhongyao?shiyibianqianhuanshiyibianshuobaileqinggan，huanshiyoubiedexianweirenzhideyuangu?zhidaolingyifangyaodeshisha，nenggourangbawozhulingyifangde“qicun”。

 jiarulingyifangdezhongyaoshixuyaoqian，nidefangfancuoshishibawohaojiazhongdecaizhengjushiquan，guoduanbukeyirangqiandiaorulingyifangdedaizi。jiarulingyifangdezhongyaoshishuobaileqinggan，nihaiyaoxiangfangshefaranglingyifanglejiedajiayijiaziyiqikaixinkuailedemoyang，ranglingyifanggaoqingchuzishenzhongjiumeifaganpaoniyemeifatidainidebuwei。bawozhuzhongyao，daqicun，suanshiduifudisanzhedezhongyaofangshi 。

3、溫柔体制，怀柔政策。

 zheiershuodehuairouzhengcejiushizhitizhide，chukaizaiwaibianzhidoudisanzhewai，yeyaozaijialicaiquyouxiao。wulunnidexinrenshichuziyunaxiedeyuangucaihuishenbeiniyudisanzheergouyinshang，zheizaiqizhongbixuyouninenggenggaideyibufen。

 qingganbuhe?qizixinglengdan?xunzhaocijixing?youhuoshishishoubiededeyaosuweihai。neibuyuanyinshijiejuekunnandeguanjiancengmian，yinerzhikaoduifudisanzhebenrenshimeiyouyongde，bunenggenchu。yaozaiyingduiduishoudelingwai，jijichulineibumaodun。jiarunengqudechenggongranglianrenyunilizaixiangtongshili，neidisanzheerdaziranyebugongzibaile。

 zaiduifudisanzhedequanguochengzhong，bixuyaoneiwaijianju，yixinyanlidajidisanzheershimeiyouyongde，haibixucongjiazhongneibudenantixiashou。neiyangnenggouqudechenggongzhengjiuzishendeqinggan。