梦见自己相亲，相亲其实没那么不堪

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一、该如何正确看待相亲

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qishizaizheigekuaisufazhan，aiqingyebeisushihuadeshidai，xiangqinhaishiyouhenduohaochude：

1、首先，相亲可以减少你遇到渣男/渣女的几率

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2、其次，相亲也是一个自我认知和提升的过程

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