催婚压力大，做梦都梦见去相亲

 xianzaijiehunpingjunnianlingyuelaiyueda，xianzaidenianqingrendoubuyuanyitaizaotaruhunyin，buxiangtaizaobeihunyinqianbanziyoudeshenghuo，xiangduotiyanjiniandanshendeshenghuo。danshinianlingyidao，qinqipengyoujiukaishigezhongcuihun，anpaigezhongxiangqin。youderenzuomengdoumengjianziji xiangqin ，yinweicuihundeyali，jingchanghuimengjianxiangqin，yaozenmemianduicuihunyalini?

 xianzaichulegongzuoyali，deyaliyinggaijiushijialirendecuihunle。henduorenbutingdebeicuihun，haiyaocanjiagezhongxiangqin。yizhiyuzaishuimengzhongdounengmengjianquxiangqin。jingchangxingdemengjianquxiangqinshuomingzheijianshizhendeyijingkaishiyingxiangshenghuole。mengjianzijixiangqinshiyuanyupingshibeipogezhonggeyangdexiangqin。zenyangbaituomengjianxiangqinzheizhongkepadeshini，womenshouxianyaoxuehuichulicuihundeyali。

一、了解父母的心态

 fumuxiwangnishikuailede，buyuanmianqiangnizuobukaixindeshi。danzhouweiderenzongzaishuo“wonverjiadeduohaoduohao，erziyoulenvpengyou，mashangyaojiehun，ninveryounanpengyoumei?”fangfojiehuncaishirenshengdechengjiu，fumushidingbuguoyulundeyalibeizhouweiderenyingxiang，haishizhendexiangnizaodianjiachuqule?

二、照顾父母的情绪

 shenmeyangderenzuikepa，buyaoliande。suoyirendoushiyaolianmiande。fumudabufendeyaliqishidoulaiziqinpenghaoyou，sanguliupomendexunwenrangnidefumujuedemeimianzi，zheishijiuyaozhuanyifumudezhuyili。hefumuqukanchangdianying，guangjie，chifandeng。buyaorangfumuxianjinbuhaodeqingxuli。

三、帮父母抵御焦虑

 fumudecaoxinhuiyanbianchengjiaolv，huiyikaixindewangshikeyiganzouneixindejiaolv。keyiyiweizaimamadehuaili，tingmamajiangneiguoqudeshi。xiaoshihoudenizaimamayanlidingyouhenduoqushikejiang。qingqingdefumozhenidetoufa，neizhongganjuejiuxianghuidaoxiaoshihou，nijiushimamadexiaobaobei。

四、树立父母的信心

 bangzhufumushuliqiangdadezixinxin，yaorangtamenjuedenixianzaimeiyoujiarenbingbuyingxiangtamenheni，jiangjiudehunyinyuqibuyao，zheizhishishijiandewenti，manzhangdengdaidesuiyuehuiguoqude。zhongyouyitiannihuiyinglaineigeduideren。pingshijiuyaojitamenguanshuzheizhongsixiang，buyaolinshibaofojiao。

五、必要时要炫耀

 zhouweiderenzaixuanyaozijideernvjiaderuhehao，quderuhehao。niyewuxuchenmo，keyigaosutamennigangshenglezhi，nianzhongjiangnaleduoshao。gangqushenmedifanglvyou，bajinglishijiandouhuazaishiyeshangle。xianzaiwuzhidoubuyongchou。shenghuoguodehenzirun。bushizhaobudaonanpengyou，shibuxiangquzhaoeryi。

六、给父母安全感

 gongzuobuyongweinicaoxin，wuzhibuchengwenti。shentiyejianjiankangkang。xinggekailangjiaozhexuduohaopengyou，niyiqiedouhao，kuaikuailele，jiushifumudexinwei。bingfeiyidingyaoxuanzedanshen，zhishibuyuancouhe。yaorangfumuxiangxinnibujiarenyekeyiguodehenhao，ruguoduideneigerenchuxianle，yehuinulizhuazhude。