为什么媒婆介绍的相亲对象多半质量不佳，男生相亲不成功的原因

 nanshengxiangqinbuchenggongdeyuanyinyounaxie？jinjinianlai，guoneiqiaoranxianqilenianqingrenweihunbuyuderechao。juxiangguanmeitibaodao，zhongguoyou3400duowannianqingren。youyuzhongzhongyuanyin，tamenbunengjiehun，zuizhongzhinengdanshenshenghuo；lingyifangmian，yushengnanxianxiangxingchengxianmingduibideshi，zhongguoyouxuduonianzhangdeshengnv。

 genjuzhiminghunjiegongsishijijiayuanciqiangongbudeshuju，jiezhi2021nian，zhongguo“shengnv”renshuchaoguo3800wan，youqishizaibeishangguangshendiqu，shengnvxianxiangshifenpubian，erqie“shengnv”dabufenshigaoxueligaowenhua。

 shishishang，genjuwomendeguancha，nianqingrenbuxiangjiehunzhishiyizhongfuqiandexianxiang。rujin，shehuishangyouxuduonianzhangdedanshennianqingnannv，jinguantamenbiaomianshangkanqilaihenaoman，shenzhishengchengzijihenaoman“buxiangjiehun”。danshishishang，tamenzhongdexuduorenzhishixiangyangaimuqiandanshennianlingjiaodadegangazhuangtai，tamenrengrankewangyouyigezhilengzhiredeyixing。

 genjushichangyanjiujigoubidazixunfabude《2021nianzhongguohulianwangyuehuishichangyanjiubaogao》，2021nianzhongguohulianwangyuehuishichangguimodadao72.0yiyuan，tongbizengzhang11.6%；yujidao2022nian，zhongguohulianwangyuehuishichangjiangbaochizengzhang，jieshishichangguimojiangdadao80.5yiyuan。

bunanfaxian，jinnianlai，hunyinshichangshangdezhuanyemeirenyuelaiyueduo，yinweihunlianfuwushichangdexuqiubuduanzengjia。

 raner，woxiangxinyouguoduocixiangqinjinglidepengyouyijingzhuyidaoyigexianxiang：shichangshangmeirenanpaidexiangqinzaimeiciyuehuihoudoushiyigehenzhangdegushi。gengbuyongshuolingyifangdeneizaibenzhile，jinjincongwaibiaoshangkanjiuyouhendadebutong。sihuzaidaduoshumeirenkanlai，nianqingrendexiangqinzhishiweilekanduifangdejingjizhuangkuang，yinciduifangdeqitatiaojianbeixuanzexingdihulvele。

 yinci，muqian，xuduodanshennianqingrenkaiwanxiaoshuo，zaidaduoshuqingkuangxia，meirenanpaidexiangqinduixiangdezhiliangyibanbugao，zongshibunengmanzuzhaodaoduixiangdeyaoqiu，youxieshenzhibunengmanzujibendeyingyaoqiu。

weishenmejintianmeirenjieshaodeduixianghenpubian？“zhiliang”buhao？kenengyouyixiasangeyuanyin。

第一个原因：年轻人对对象的要求过于苛刻

 congdanshenquntidejiaodulaikan，daduoshudanshennianqingrenzaijiehunnianlingrengrandanshendeyuanyinkenengshijingjizhuangkuangbushihenhao，lingyigezhuyaoyuanyinshihunyinyaoqiutaigao。

 yiyiweiqinqide30suinverweili。zhangxiangyibandetayaoqiuxiangqinnanshengdebiaozhunshi:175yishang，zuihaoshidushengzinv，chengliyoucheyoufang，fumutuixiuhouyaoyouyanglaojin，jiehuncailiyao20wan，maisanjinbuyaoshaoyu10wan。

 nanshengxiangqinbuchenggongdeyuanyinyounaxie？shuwozhiyan，leisiyuzheizhonghunyintiaojian，qishishibianxiangyaoqiuduifangbixushi“fuerdai”。fouze，yigeputongjiatingdenanrenzhendehennanmanzutadeweikou。yinci，meirenjitazhaolebushaoyu20gexiangqinduixiang，douyibumangaozhong。

rujin，xuduonvxingdejiehunyaoqiuyedaduoshiyoufangyouche，meiyoudaikuan，youcunkuan，putongnanrensihuhennanmanzutamendeyaoqiu。

第二个原因：心比天高，命比纸薄

 kongziyue：“buhuanrenbuzizhi，huanbuzhiren。”wodexiangfashi：renmenyouzizhizhiming。youzizhizhimingshiyigerenchenggongdejibenyaoqiu。conghunyindejiaodulaikan，youzizhizhimingderenwangwanggengrongyizhaodaoheshidehunyinbanlv。

 dankankanxianzaihenduodanshennianqingnvxing，tamenzijideqingkuangzaigegefangmiandoushiyibande，shouruyeshiyibande，zaixiangqinzhongbaichuyifuhuangdidenvertiaoxuannvxudezishi，yaoqiuhezijideshenfenbupipei。zheiyang，tamenziranhuirenweimeirenjieshaodedaduoshuxiangqinduixiangdoushi“waigualiezao”。

danguigenjiedi，haishiyinweitamenduizijimeiyouyigeqingxiderenshi，guodutishengziji，qishizheiyangzuobingmeiyoushenmehaochu。

第三个原因：需要通过相亲解决婚姻问题的人或多或少都有一些“缺点”

 zailaoyibeirenyanli，nianqingrendaoleyidingnianlinghaimeiyoujiehun，yexubushiyinweitamenbuxiangjiehun，ershiyinweimeiyourenyuanyihetazaiyiqi，budebuquxiangqin。

yinci，daduoshuxiangqinderendoubuyuanyipingyong，huozheshuozijiyeyouyixiebushanjiaoji、bushanyanci、bugoulangmandengquedian。

 danshitamenhenduoren，qishihennanzhenzhengyishidaozijidequedian，quedianbeiduifangkandaodeshihouzijihaishibuzhidao，zuizhongdaozhixiangqinshibai。

 nanshengxiangqinbuchenggongdeyuanyinyounaxie？shishishang，bujinjinshixiangqin。womenmeigerendoubushiwanmeidegeti。womendouyouzheiyangdequexian。yinci，womenjianyi，zaixiangqinshi，nikeyishizhekankanbicideyoudian，erbushimangmudixunzhaoquedian，yibianjinkuaizhaodaoheshidebanlv。