36岁大龄剩女相亲一年失败，还有男生相亲不成功的原因

 nanshengxiangqinbuchenggongdeyuanyinyounaxie？30suiyishangweijiehundenvxing，nanmianhuiyinqirenmendepipinghechaofeng，budebushuo，shisudeguandianjidalingnvxingdailailejudadeyali。

shishishang，youxuduonianzhangdeshengnvcuoguoleshihunnianling，yizhiyuhoulaixiangqin，zaoyuleyiciyouyicideshibai。

 yinci，tamenbuduandichengshouzhehunyinheaiqingdeyali，jishitiaojianjiangdile，yemeiyounanrenyuanyijiehun，shenxindoushoudaoleshanghai。

houlai，tamenzhujiankandaolexianshi，caifaxianzhaobudaoheshideduixiang，yijinanrenbuxihuandeyuanyin。

raner，tamenbuzainianqing，zuizhongweizijinianqingshideaoman，fuchulejudadedaijia。

 jiuxianglinjudenverxiaohuiyiyang，tajinnian36sui，nianqingdeshihoulianaiguowuliuci。tazongjuedezijinengzhaodaogenghaodebanlv，zuizhongcuoguoleshihunnianling，chengweileyigenianzhangdeshengnv。

zaiguoqudeyinianli，xiaohuixiangqinlejishici，yudaolegezhonggeyangdenanren，danshixiangqindoumeiyouchenggong。

weici，tabuduanshoudaojiarendepiping，jiarenshuotayangaoshoudi，lianqinpenghaoyoudouquantajiangditiaojian，buyaoguoyutiaoti。

shenbianderen，gengshichaofengta，shuotameirenyao，jiabuchuqu。

 xiaohuitinglezheixiehua，xinlihenweiqu，tajuedezijitiaojianyouzhi，zhangdepiaoliang，youshibenkebiye，zenmeyeyaozhaoyigehezijipipeideduixiang。

 tashuo，zijidezeouyaoqiubugao，nanfangyuexin2wanduo，youfangyouchejiuxing。hunhou，tayeyuanyiyiqifuchu，dannanrenyaozunzhongta，aita。

raner，meidangtatichuzijidezeouyaoqiushi，nanrenjiuhuiyaotoulikai，daozhixiangqinshibai。

 houlai，xiaohuiyezhujiankandaolehunyindezhenxiang，juedenanrentaixianshile，tamenjihudouhuiyouxianhenianqingnvhaixiangqin，jishiduifangtiaojianbuhaoyebuzaihu。

 nanshengxiangqinbuchenggongdeyuanyinyounaxie？erqie，nanrenxiangqinshi，shanglaidiyijuhuajiuhuishuo：“niyijing36suile，nengshenghaizima？jiehunqian，keyijinxinghunjianma？”

meiyicitingdaozheijuhua，xiaohuidouhenwuyu，juedenanrenzhendebuzunzhongta，tazheimepiaoliangdenvhai，weishenmeyaojiehunjiancha？

jingguoyicicideweiqu，xiaohuifaxian，xianzaixiangqinshichangshangdenanren，zhendehenxianshi。

tebieshizuijinyinianxiangqinshibaidejingli，rangtachedimingbailenanrenbuquzijidelianggeyuanyin：

第一，男人喜欢年轻的女孩，不会选择年长的剩女

xiaohuishuo，zaixiangqinshichangshang，nanrendaduoxihuannianqingdexiaonvhai，duidalingshengnvyouxiedichu。

jishidalingshengnvbixiaonvhaihao，tamenyehuiyouxianxuanzexiaonvhai，erbukaolvdalingshengnv。

duiyu30suiyishangdenvhailaishuo，zaihunyinshichangshang，zhujianshiqulezeoudeyoushi，hennanchengweinanrenyanzhongqinglaideduixiang。

 youyicitaheyigenanrenxiangqin，duifangmingquebiaoshi，ningyuanquyigeshenmedoumeiyoudexiaonvhai，yebuyuanxuanzexiangtazheiyangtiaojianyouzhidelaoshengnv。

dangshixiaohuizhiwen：“wodenianlingshaoweidayidian，danshiwozhangdepiaoliang，yuexinguowan，nandaobibushangxiaonvhaima？”

 nanzhibaidishuo：“duiyuyigenvrenlaishuo，zuizhongyaodezibenjiushinianling，nirenweizijishigaozhiliangde，danshizainanrenyanliyijingshilieshile。”

 qishixianshizhongdenanrendouhuiyouzheizhongguandian，renweinianlingjiaodadeshengnvmeiyounianlingyoushi，wulunqitafangmianyouduoyouxiu，doubukenengchengweinanrendeshouxuan。

yinci，nianlingduinvxinglaishuoqueshishiyizhongyanzhongdeshanghai，yidan30suiyishangmeiyoujiehun，yihouzeouzhihuiyuelaiyuenan。

 zheijiuxuyaotixingxianshizhongdelaonianshengnv，buyaomangmuditigaozijidezeoubiaozhun，ruguoyudaoxiangduiheshidenanren，zuihaozhuazhujihui。

wulunshiaiqinghaishihunyin，meiyounanrenhuixuanzenianzhangdeshengnv，zheishihunyinshichangdecankuxianshi。

houlaixiaohuiyishidaozheiyidian，budebujiangditiaojian，buzaiyaoqiunanrenyuexin2wan。

suoyi，duiyunianlingjiaodadeshengnvlaishuo，renqingxianshi，huoxuhuijizijidezeouzhiludailaibangzhu。

ruguonimangmudijianchinidezeoubiaozhun，zuizhonghenkeneng“zhulantiaoshuiyichangkong”zheishishengnvxuyaofansidewenti。

第二，在相亲市场，生育条件和婚检是不可避免的痛点

xiaoguoyiniandexiangqin，xiaohuidoushibaile，congzhongshidaoleyidian：

 zaixiangqinshichangshang，nanxingpubianbukanhaoshengnvdeshengyutiaojian，tamenrenwei，30suiyishangdenvxing，shengyufengxianhenda，wanquanburuxiaonvhai。

ciwai，nanxinghaiyaoqiushengnvcanjiahunjian，zheishiliangrenjiaowangdebiyaotiaojian。

 liru，dangyigenanrenxiangqinshi，zhijiewenta：“niyijing36suile，nengfoushengyushigewenti，zaishuoyibian，ninengzuohunjianma？”

dangshixiaohuihenshengqi，juedenanrentaixianshile，genbenbuzunzhongnvren，weishenmeyaotajiehunjiancha？

zheiyangyigegaozhiliangdenvhai，yiqianzhitanguolianai，meizuoguobiedeshiqing，weishenmetichuhunjianzheiyangbuhelideyaoqiu？

jiuzheiyang，xiangqinyiciyouyicishibai，jihusuoyoudenanrendoutaizaiyishengyutiaojianhehunjian，daozhixiangqinshibai。

houlai，xiaohuizhujianrenqinglexianshi，juedexianzaidenanren，zhendetaishuangbiaole。

tamenbuduandiyaoqiunvxing，zaishengyuhehunjianfangmiantebietiaoti，bunengzhengchangxiangqin。

suoyi，taxianzaifangqilexiangqindexiangfa，juedezaixiangqinshichangshangzhendebukenengzhaodaoheshidenanren。

 shishishang，zaijintiandehunyinshichangshang，nanxingduinvxingdeyaoqiuqueshifeichangkeke，ruguoshengyuhehunjianbunengtongguo，tamenjiubuhuitongyigoutong。

zheiyeshidexuduodalingshengnvshiqulehunyinaiqingdezhudaodiwei，jihumeiyouxiangqindeyoushi，buxiangnianqingnvhaineiyangshouhuanying。

 jinguan，nanrendeyaoqiushikeyilijiede，danyeyouyixienanrentaishuangzhongbiaozhun，zijiyouhenduoganqingjingli，queyiweiyaoqiunvrenwanzheng，zheishibuhelide。

dangran，zuizhongyaodeshi，shengnvyaoduanzhengxintai，renqingxianshi，buyaomangmuzixin，fouze，zuizhongdanwuderenjiushiziji。

zongshangsuoshu，xiangqinshi，nanxingbuxuanzedalingshengnv，zhuyaoyoulianggeyuanyin：

nanrenxihuannianqingdenvhai，buhuixuanzenianzhangdeshengnv；zaixiangqinshichangshang，shengyutiaojianhehunjianshishengnvbukebimiandetongdian。

guigenjiedi，nvxinghaishiyaorenqinghunyinaiqingdexianshi，buyaojianchigaobiaozhundezeoutiaojian。

buran，dengdaonianlingzhujianzengzhang，zuizhongshiquxiangqindezhudongquan，chengweinanrenyanzhongfangqidemubiao。

dangran，nvrenkeyiyaoqiunanren，danqiantishiniyouzibenzhidenanrenzhuiqiu。

 nanshengxiangqinbuchenggongdeyuanyinyounaxie？zongzhi，xiwangdalingnvxingbuyaoyexintaida，fangxiabuqieshijidetiaojian，zheiyangkenenghuijizijidailaigengduodezeoujihui，shunlijiehun。