相亲时直接一点没什么不好，相亲有哪些征兆是不好的

 youyuhenduorenyiyanjiukedagaipanduanduifangshibushizijide“cai”jineryineiyikeweifenjiedian，qiaoqiaodiaozhengzijixiayibudetaiduheqingxu。xiangqinyounaxiezhengzhaoshibuhaode？

rutongtuokouxiuyanyuanyangzai《zhiyouyitiandeyuehui》jiemuzhongdiyicipengdaobitada19suideyinleren。

weilemanzuduifangdezizunerbuqingyuan，qishizaitamenyiciyouyicichenmodejiaotanfenweizhongshihenmingxiande。

yinci，bazheixieyanchufangdaozhenshidexiangqinqingjingzhong，zugoubianchengdajiapanduanduifangzhenshiganshoudecanzhao。

终止表述自己的观点

dangyigerenganjuemeifarongjinlingyigerendeyuyanbiaoda，erqiebutongyitadehenduojianjieshi，tayibanhuibiaoxianchulimaodechenmo。

 zaixiangqinqingjingzhong，jutitixianzaiyifangweilejianqingmeiyouhuashuodenankan，chixuzhaoxunhuati，changshiyizijishanyudefangfaheneirongzaochengduifangdejiaoliuxingqu。

raner，jingguojicigoutong，duifangbiandeyuelaiyuejiangying，bishangzuichun，zhishibushidiantouhuiyingduifang。

dangyigerenzuochuzheiyangdexingweishi，henmingxiantashizaichangshiyizhizijidebushi，zhishichuyulimao，weihuduifangdekeguanzizun。

当提到自己的私事时，表明回绝

tiaoxuanxiangqinderen，zhiyaoduiduifangyouganjue，bianhuihenkuailejie，zheishilisuodangrande。xiangqinyounaxiezhengzhaoshibuhaode？

 congyikaishi，keguandexinxijiaoliubianhuimanmanjiashen，zaiyixiehuatidezhidaoxia，tamenhuizhenzhengjindaobicidexianshishenghuo，zaiqingganshangyougengduodelejiehejiaoliu。

 raner，buguanyifangzenyanggongkaitaolunzijidegerenshenghuo，danglingyifangduizijideshiqingzhuanglongzuoyashi，xianranyaozaichuanchuhuijuedexinhao。

 yinweiliangrenjianghua，lilunniyingdanglailaihuihui。gengzhongyaodeshixiangqin，2gerenxuyaoduanqineidexiangchulaipanduantamenzhijianshifouyoufazhandekenengxing。

不再主动找寻话题

 zaixiangqinzhong，dangyifangbuzaizhudongxunzhaohuati，ershibeidongdihuiyinglingyifangdexunwenshi，jiuyiweizhetazaoyixuanzefangqizheiciyuehui。

dangyigerenchuzaizheileiqingkuangshi，zhishaoyoulianggewenti。

yifangmian，tabuxiangzailejieduifang，yebuxianghuajingliqusoujiqitahuati，sikaoduifangdexiangfa。

 lingyifangmian，zheidaibiaozhetazaoyishiqulebiaoshuzijidexingqu。zaixianghujiaoliuzhong，tagandaobushufu，meiyouganjuedaojixujiaoliudeyiyi。

 yexushixiangqinzheileichangsuo，rangduoshurenrongyishiqunaixin，dangyigerenzaiqizhongjuedeyixieqingdudebushidu，bianhuibuzijuediyouzheiyangdebiaoxian。

zhenduiganxingdereneryan，zheixiexinhaonenggoujinzaojiedaohebiaoshu，wanbibicidenankan。

 raner，lveweichihuanhuoziwoganjuelianghaoderenkenengyagenbulijiezheixieyanxingdeshenkehanyi。tamenshenzhihuibatajieshiweiqingxujidonghoujinzhangxiusedebiaoxian。

 jiuxiangtazhoubiandeyigepengyouyiyang，tazaijiaoliushiyiyanjiukanzhongleduifang，cuowudibaduifangdehuijuezuoweixiusedeai。zhidaozuihouyiciyaoyue，duifangcaijinbuzhubiaomingxintai，tacaijuedewuliao。

zaixiangqindefangshixia，shuangfangzuihaozaibicifenliyiqian，zhijiebiaoshuzijideganshou。

buyaorangduifangchanshengwujie，duoxiaohaoshijianhejingli。

youyudabufenyuanyitongguoxiangqinkaishiyiduanganqingderendoushijiaolvde。

duiyuyigeqipanzhaodaoshiheganqingdereneryan，renhemolengliangkedeyanxingdoukenengjitayizhongcuojue。

zaixiangqinzhong，jibiangangrenshishifenzhong，zhijiegaozhiduifangzijidezhenshiganshouyemeiyoucuo。

 xiangqinyounaxiezhengzhaoshibuhaode？bijingxiangbixia，liangrenweilekongchushijianzhinengmianqiangxiangchu，lianzuiqimadelimaodoubunengbaochidaozuihou。