为什么现在年轻人结个婚越来越难，相亲有哪些征兆是不好的

 wodefumuchushengyu20shiji70niandai，shiyinweixiangqinerjiehundedianfan。zaimeirendejieshaoxia，babaqumamajiajianmian。dangshuangfangjuedeheshishi，tamenhuigaosumeiren，meirenhuizaizhongjianchuandaxinxi，baokuoxiayiciyuehuideshijian。wofumuzaixianliyoujianmianle。kanwandianying，chilejiaozihou，shuangfangjuedingjiehun。xiangqinyounaxiezhengzhaoshibuhaode？

babanazhecailiqunainaijiaqiuhun，xuanhaorizi，jiusuandinghunle。jiehunneitian，babaqizhezixingchebamamadaihuijia。

这种先婚后爱的方式，我觉得没有什么不好的

 danglianggerenzoudaoyiqishi，zuizhongyaodeshimohe。meigerendouyouruanleiguheyingci。ruguonibixunuligongzuo，banideshenghuobianchengyituanjimao，xiangqinzhendebushiheni。xianzai，wodefumuyijingmohele20duonian，chaolezheimeduonian。

 chuhuyiliaodeshi，jiuxiangjiaoshuiyiyang，youqishizailianggerenbaozhesunzizhihou，yiqigongzuo，nibunenglikaiwo，wobunenglikaini。lianggerenninongchangjing，rangwozhendekanbujian，jialiujiwodelizudianyuelaiyueshao。xiangqinyounaxiezhengzhaoshibuhaode？

 yeyenainai，yeyenainai，babamama，shushuayi……tamendoushitongguoxiangqinrenshide，suiranhunhouyouzhengchao，youfenqi，danyexieshouyisheng。

回顾我们这一代人的情景，结婚似乎要困难得多

 daxuelidaxuelihenfengfu，danhunyinbingbufengfu。lianaihehunyinshibutongde。weiaierzouzaiyiqidehunyinkeyidiyufengyu，dankenengbuzhidechaimiyouyanjiangyoucucha。dangaiqingdeniudaiduanle，zhaobudaorenhejibanshi，tamenzhongyugaoxingle，fenkaile。

而相亲则不同

 ruguoyigerenxuanzequxiangqin，tajiuzhunbeihaoshenghuole。nikandaodebuzaishixuhuandeaiqing，ershizheigerenshifouzhendeshihehezijishenghuozaiyiqi。congjiatingbeijing、wenhuajichu、gerenxiuyang、cailiwuli……duofangmiandekaolv，weizijixuanzerenshengdelingyiban。xiangqinzhidao，jiushiweizijizhaoyigezhongshenqianshouderen，zhongzaicaliangyanjing。

 xiangqinyounaxiezhengzhaoshibuhaode？aiqingshicengsha，ruguobunengronghuaweiqinqing，jiuhuiposui。erneizhongjishiniandeganqing，jishimeiyoushuoguoai，yeshiqinqing，yeshiaiqing。