爱情心理学 多沟通交流

 shijishangyiduanqinggandezhujianquanshixingfude，yaoxiangbaitouxielaodiwenkongyiduanqinggan，suoxiaohaodejingliyeshibunengyujide，danzheiqiahaoshiaiqingdebaoguizhichu，youyurenyizhizhenxizishendetourude，zhenduiduoqingderen，jiusuanshitouru，yeshiganzhiruoyi。dangran，dangyiduanqingganreqingtundiao，jiaowangqilaiquebubingsuanfeichangrongyi，bansuizhejiaowangdeyuejiu，tanlianaidedifangdepslvjingsuidiao，lingyifangdequexianyejianjiandifashengzainiyanli，zenyangjunhengrelianyupingdanqideganqingshidiao，aiqingxinlixue，xinlianshiyoushenme？worenweiyaobaozhengyixiajigefangmian：

 ①duogoutongjiaoliu：yaoxuehaoxianglianrenbiaoshunanti，jiejuekunnanyaoliji，yongyoumaiyuanhaiyaolijiqingtu，yazaixindihenjiu，baofaqilaiyuefabunengcaozong；

 ②xuehaorangbu：aiqingshihuxiangmoheqidequanguocheng，jienabicizhijiandeyouquehan，weilingyifanggenggaiyixiebushejidaoyuanzexingwentideshier，shibaochiaiqingdejibenshangbiaozhun；

 ③zhangwonanhaihenvhailuojisiweidechayi，huanweisikaoyixia：nanshenghenvshengzaikaolvdaonantihejiejuekunnanshiluojisiweizaikeguanxingshangkendingshicunyouchabiede，huxianglijie，caisuanshijiuchuzhidao；

 ④jibicizhijianyixieshineikongjian：meiyigerendoubixuyidianzishendeshineikongjian，weichiaiqingdexinxiangan，yeshiwenkongaiqingdeyigefangshi。

ciwai，zenmerangaiqingdanshiqi，jiuxuyaoxinxianganlaiweixile。

 aiqingxinlixue，zenyangzaiaiqingzhongweichixinxiangan，zhunqueeryanshiyigefeichangdadehuatitaolun，yeshijuedaduoshurendaozhongshengkexueyanjiuheshijianhuodongdenanti。keshi，rutongdajiashuode，aiqingshibixuyunyingde，xinxianganyeshibixuwomenqusuzaoheweixide。zenyangweichixinxianganni？shiwoyixiahaoduogetiyi：

 ①baizhengxintai，zhangwoduzhanyudejiexian：aiqingzhongmeiyigerendoushiyouduzhanyu，keshiqianwanbunengyijiangduzhanyubianchengzhangkongyu，bubiranglingyifangganjuenishijushu，neiyangdeaiqinghuilingrenchuanbuguoqi，ganjueshixi。

 ②tanlianaibingbushishenghuodesuoyou：ruguonijiejinquanlizijintourudaoaiqingli，bianhuifangzongziji，ruguonibuhuizaijiushini，zheifenairensuozuiaiderenhuoshinibu？wulunshenmeshihou，renquanshiyingdangyoudandudezishende，douyingdangyouzishendeshenghuo，dangaiqingbianchengshenghuodesuoyou，nizijideshenghuodouzaoyishiquxinxiandeshiqing，genghuanglunaiqing。

 ③jiyulianrenzhengfangxiangyijianfankui：bukeyizaitanlianaiyihoujiubalingyifangdetouruhuoshijiyuzuoweishilisuoyingdang，“ganxie”jinguanwuzuqingzhong，danquenenggoufanyingniduilingyifangdezhongshi，bingbushijianglingyifangzuoweinidefushu，zheileibeizhongshigan，meiyourennenghuijue。zailianrensongnilipinshi，haiyaojiyuzhengfangxiangyijianfankui，bubiranglingyifangganjueganlexiamang。

 ④zuoyigeyougediaoderen，shichangshengchanzhizaoyixieyiwaijingxi：xinxiangandaibiaozhechuhuyiliaodeshier，yinci，gesanchawushengchanzhizaoyixieyiwaijingxiwuwaihuyigeweichixinxiangandehaofangfa。

 ⑤meiyinianfanganjihuilvyou：jiaruyichengbubiandeshenghuorangdajiaduishenghuotibuqilaixingquaihao，hebuchulaizouyizou，zaibuyiyangdeziranhuanjing，zhaozhaobuyiyangdexinlizhuangtai，yezhaozhaobuyiyangdezishenhelingyifang。

 xinlianshi，zongtilaishuo，xinxianganxiaotuibingbudaibiaozheaiqingdexiaoshi，haodeaiqingshinenggourangshuangfangdoujuedeshufude，shinenggourangbicibianweizuihaodezijide，haodeaiqingyebixubiciquqinfen，shiyichangshuangzhongganfu，jijidiqutanxundajiayitongyouxingqudeshier，nenggoujiegoujiaguduibicizhijiandeguishugan，haikeyiweixiaiqingdexinxiangan。shijianhuiyinzhengyiqie，aiqingbixuyunying，renzhenyunying，ranglingyifangduinizaochengxuqiugan，shiweichitanlianaideqiaomen。