爱情心理学 为何有些人的情感十分的不稳定

 zaiwodeshenpangyouyixiepenyou，tamenzhenduizishendeqinggandouyongyouzishenderenzhinenglihekanfa，zheiyejiuzaochengyutamenzaitanlianaidequanguochengdangzhongkeyizhuisuizhezishendexin，bingqiekeyirangliangrenzhongjiandeqingganyuelaiyueshifendehemu，suoyishuoyouzheyidingdexinlizhishishikeyirangdajiadeqingganyuelaiyuegengweipingwende。aiqingxinlixue，xinlianshiyoushenme？

为何有些人的情感十分的不稳定

diyidian：qingganbiaozhunbuwending

 youhenduorendaozishendeqinggandangzhongyemeiyouzishendebiaozhun，keshijiarunizaizishendeqinggandangzhongbuyiyangdexunzhaodebiaozhundehua，neimadajiazhongjiandeqingganhenyoukenengjiumeiyouyigeqiadangdefangwei，suoyishuobulunshizaiqinggandangzhonghuoshizairichangshenghuodeyiqiecengmiandouyingdangyongyouzishendebiaozhun，jinyouneiyangdehuacaikeyirangdajiazhongjiandeqingganyuelaiyueyouxiao，bingqiesuiyueran。erqiebiaozhunshikeyibansuizheshijianerbiangengde，keshiyouyixiezhenshiyouxiaodebiaozhunbushikeyibiangengde，suoyishuoyidingyaolejiesuoyourenyebukeyipengchuzishendedaodedixian，yeyidingyaoyouyidingdedaodedixiancaikeyirangtarenzhongshi，suoyishuojinyouzishenzunzhongzijicaikeyirangtarenzunzhongziji，zheishiyigeshifenyiqiezhengchangdeshierqiemeiyigerendouyingdangliuyide。

丨不一样的心态

坚强心态标准

 youhenduorendaoqinggandangzhong，shijishangtamenhuoshihuaizhezishenshifenqiangshidexintaide，jinguanzhenduihenduoreneryanqingganquanshiyigeshifenmianruandewupin，shikeyichuyudaomeiyigerenmianruandexinlide，keshidangtamenzhenzhenzhengzhengzhujianqutanlianaideqingkuangxia，tongchanghuoshijianchibuxiezhezishenshifenjianyingdebiaozhun。keshijiarumeiyigerendoushizaibiaoshuzishendeqinggandeqingkuangxia，meiyoubanfayongyigejiaoweizhenzhengdexintaiqukandailingyifangdehua，neimadajiazhongjiandeqingganhenyoukenengjiumeiyoubanfajianchidaodi，suoyishuoyidingyaolejieyingdangruhequbianhuazishendexintai，jiarunizaiqinggandangzhongyizhishifenjianying，neimashimeiyoubanfarangdajiazhongjiandeqingganyuelaiyueyouxiaode。

柔弱标准

 keshiyouyixierendaoqinggandangzhong，tamenhenyoukenengshifenderouruo，jiarunishifenderouruodehua，neimanizaiyixiexintaidangzhonghenyoukenengmeiyoubanfayongyigejiaoweishidangdexintaiqukandainideqinggan，suoyishuoyidingbunenggourangzishentaiguodurouruo，yingdangyongyouzishendexintai，yongyouzishendegongzuonengli。jinyouzainideqinggandangzhongyongyouzishendegongzuonengli，erqiekeyibakongdaozishenqinggandefazhanqianjing，caikeyirangdajiazaifazhanqushidequanguochengdangzhongqujiangdidajiazailejiebicizhijiandeyizhongchabie，tashishifenyiqiezhengchangdeshier，bingqiemeiyigerendouyingdanglejieliangrenzhongjiandeqingganjinyoubicizhijiangongtongfendouerchuangshejinxingde，buyinggaishiyigerenshifenqiangshi，erlingyigerenshifenderouruo，yinggaishierzheshifendejunhengcaisuanshiyizhonggengqiangdeqingkuang。

第二点：猜疑心态

 jirandajialiangrenzaoyitiaoxuanzaiyiqile，erqietiaoxuanzhihoudouzaiyiqi，neimajiuyingdanglejiezairichangshenghuodangzhongbubiqumengpianlingyifang。jiaruniyizhiqumengpianlingyifangdehua，neimalingyifanghenyoukenengyehuixiangfanmengpianni，jiuerjiuzhidajialiangrenzhongjiandeqingganbianhuiyuelaiyueshifendecaogao，suoyishuojiarunizaiyixiecengmianyongyoubuyiyangdeshier，huoshishiyouyixiehuabuqingchugaizenmehelingyifangjiangdeqingkuangxia，niyejiunenggouhuanyizhongfangshidongxianglingyifangbiaoshuyixianizijideqingyi，keshiqianwanbiequshuohuanghuahuoshishiqumengpianlingyifang，youyujiaruniruguoqumengpianlingyifangdehua，neimadajiazhongjiandeqingganhenyoukenengbianhuiyuelaiyuedi。

disandian：bugoutongjiaoliutiaoxuan

 ciwaiyouyixierentamenzaiqinggandangzhonghenyoukenengburongyiqugoutongjiaoliutamenchangshuodeshierjuedaduoshuquanshirichangshenghuodangzhongdeyixielingsuideshier，keshizhenzhengdeganqingnantitamenhenyoukenengbingbuyuanyaoquchulizheizhongnanti，keshijiarunizaiqinggandangzhongmeiquzhenglianjiejuezishendeqingganwentidehua，neimanideqingganwentihenyoukenengbianhuiyulaiyuduo，suoyishuodangdajialiangrenkeyizaoyuyixieshierkeyihaohaoqugoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangxia，shijishangdajiazhongjiandeqinggancaikeyiyuebianyuehao，erqiekeyiqujiangdidajiazhengzhidepinci。

那麼应当如何推动情感身心健康发展趋势呢

提议一：调节情绪

 aiqingxinlixue，zhenduimeiyigereneryan，tamendouyingdangtiaoxuanqudiaojieqingxu，youyujiarunidongdedequdiaojieqingxudehua，neimadajialiangrenzaijiaowangdequanguochengdangzhongjiuhenyoukenenghuizhengliandiqujiejueyixienanti，jiarudajialiangrenzaizhengzhidequanguochengdangzhonghenyoukenengdoushihuiyongyixieshifenkuangzaodexintaiqukandailingyifangdehua，neimaliangrenjiubutaikenengquzuochulaiquweilegenghaodiyixieshiererquhaohaoqugoutongjiaoliuquzhangwo，suoyishuojiarudajialiangrendexintaidoushifenkuangzaodehua，neimajiuhenyoukenengdajiazhongjianjiumeiyoubanfagoutongjiaoliuxialai。suoyishuoyidingyaoqubiangengyixiazishendexintai，jinyoudajialiangrendoushiyouyigehenhaodexintai，caikeyirangdajiazhongjiandeqingganyuelaiyuegengweideyouxiao，gengweidepingwen。

tiyier：suzaoqingganxinlai

 jirandajialiangrenzaoyitiaoxuanzaiyiqile，neimajiuyingdangqutiaoxuanxinlaibicizhijian，danshinimeimingbaiquxinlaibicizhijiandehua，neimadajiazhongjiandeqingganjiuhenyoukenenghuiyuelaiyueshifendecaogao，suoyishuoyidingyaolejiezenyangcaikeyirangdajiazhongjiandeqingganyuelaiyueyouxiaobingqiepingwen，zhenduimeiyigereneryan，yaoxiangyouzheyiduanshifenyouxiaodeqinggan，neimayidingshiyaotouruxuduodeqinfende。suoyishuodangdajialiangrendoukeyidongxiangbicizhijianbiaoshuzishendeqingyideqingkuangxia，shijishangyeshiyigeshifenyiqiezhengchangbingqieshifenshenxinjiankangdeshier。meiyigerendouyingdanglejieqingganshiliangrendeshier，yeshiliangrenchixuqinfenchixuhuxiangzhichideyigequanguocheng。

提议三：良好的沟通

 jiaruniyaoxiangyigeshifenyouxiaodejiankangdeshenghuofangfahuoshishishuoqinggandejiben，neimadajialiangrenzairichangshenghuodangzhongyidingyaoyoulianghaodegoutong，lirudajialiangrenkandaiyigeshieryongyoubuyiyangdeguandian，dajiajiukeyixianqububiqusisuozishendeniantou，erqukanyikanlingyifangdeniantoushifouyongyoufeichanghaodekeyongdediqu，youyujiaruniyizhiqudianjizhezishendeshenshangdenanti，neimaniyejiuhenyoukenenghuijiangxuduodecengmiandoufangdaozishendeshenshang，ermeiqukaolvdaolingyifangdenanti，neiyangzhangciyiwangdajiazhongjiandeqingganhenyoukenengbianhuiyuelaiyueshifendebutaihao，suoyishuoyidingyaojinjizheileinantizaiqinggandangzhongbukeyichansheng。

汇总

 xinlianshi，dangliangrendoukeyiyongqiadangdexintaiqukandailiangrenzhongjiandeqinggandeqingkuangxia，shijishangxuduonantidoubuhuizaishinantile，erqiedajialiangrendoukeyilizaiyilingyifangdeshijiaoshanglaikaolvdaozheiyiduanqinggan，zhenduidajiameiyigerendexintai，zhenduidajiameiyigerenzairichangshenghuodangzhongdelejiefangfashiyigeshifenshidangbingqieshifenyouxiaodegoutongjiaoliuhexinlinian，caikeyishiwomendeqingganyuelaiyuegengweidechangshun。