积极的女生非常容易负伤 恋爱心理学

 qingganxinlizixun，“yigerenjingchangduimeiwanchengdeshiweichigaoxiedeguanxin。”tashishehuixinlixuedeyigejichulilun，chengwei“caigenikesixiaoyong”，yiyangdenenggoufangjindajiaganqingshenghuozhong。lianaixinlixue，zaiyunanrenjiaowangshi，nvxingnenggoujiji，danyaozhangwozhangwofencun。xiangduixingyujijidexianyinqin，nvxingzuixianyaoxuehaochuyubeidong。zishenmingandeyimianjinkenengbubibeibierenfajue，yidanbeifajue，jiufeichangrongyibeinanrencaozong。

1无法得到的，才算是最好是的

 wufadedaode，shizuihaoshide。yongyoutiaozhan，caigengfeichangrongyibeixiyinzhu；erjinyoubeixiyinzhu，caihuishenshenchimi，bunengziba。qidaihuodenanrendeai，jiuxuyaorangaijubeiquweixing。

 mingbailenvxingdeniantou，mingbailedelaibuyideganqing，caihuiaixi。qingjingdenvxing，nanrenzhuiqiunihuigengyounaixin。nvxingjiaruguodujiji，huikanqilaihenbianyi。zhenzhenzhengzhengshenaizhenideren，quanshihuijijiguanzhuni。

2积极的女生非常容易负伤

 taijijidenvshenglingrenxintong。shijishangnimeiyoucuo，erqienizuodefeichanghao，jinjintaijijizhudongle，shinishiquzishen。nanhaierxiaiqingjingeryouyouxinxiangandenvsheng，jianjucaikeyizaochengmei。herenweichiyidingjianju，tacaihuiganjueduinihao。duinanrenlaijiang，buyiyulidijiyuzheifenaishiyizhongkunao。

 zai《chuliandeneijianxiaoshi》zhong，nvzhujiaohexinduilinkaituoyijianzhongqing，tabenrenweizhuiqiuwanmeinanhaizishiyijianhenrongyideshi，keshibingmeiyou，jishitameiridouzhanzailinkaituodeshenpang，xunwenta：“ebuke，youduolei？”linkaituoduitahenlengmo。neiyangdeqingkuanghaozhangshijianyemeiyouyidianhuifu，hexinjuecesheqi。

 qingganxinlizixun，keshidanghexinzhujianxuehuifangxiazheiyiduanqingganshi，linkaituocaifajueneixinfangfoshaoleshenme。youyuhexinbuhuizaichanzhetale，buhuizaizuotabeihoudeweibale，linkaituojuranjianjiandidejijiaijinhexin。erqiezaihexingongchuhuijiadedangriquhetashenqingbiaobai。

 danghexinbuzhudongzhuiqiuwanmeilinkaituodeqingkuangxia，fandaoranglinkaituoyishidaojiujingshisheizaihaijideneixin。zaishuangfangdouchuyuyigelengjingqideqingkuangxia，gengfeichangrongyifajuelingyifangdeyoushiyulieshi。

 nvshengduoshandaizijiyidian，buguanpengdaole，huoshishiqu，yidingbubirangzishenzaoshousunhai。quanshijie，peizainishenbiandeweiyounizishen，suanleba，shuyunidezuihouhuijiushini。

3.随便获得便不懂珍惜

 xiangzai《zuimeihaodeshiguang》zhong，bujingyideyici，sumanjiandaozishenxiaidenanhaizisongyiheguimilianshuangqingqingwowo，bianzhujianshiyintongku：“woyidingshiqianshiganlenaxiechunshi，weihezaowuzhuyaoneiyangchufawo？”taruhedoumeiyouxiangqi，zishenjinjingongchujiri，huijiayiqiedoubianle。ciwai，tajuededaoyiqianqinfendechengxiaozaimanmandixiaotui。

 yiqiandetaweilegenghaodihesongyigengjinyidian，fangqilehaodegongzuozhong。buguanzishenyouduomang，douxuyaomeiriqukankansongyi，songyishaoweiduitataojinhu，tamashangjiuxinhualufangle。

dajiajingchangxiaidebuzhishizheigeren，zhishixunmidequanguocheng。ninenggengaixigenjuzishendeqinfenhuodedewupin。

 aiyeshizheiban，wodiyiyanjiuaishangleni，yincixinganqingyuanrenzhen。nanshiduinvxingdezhuiqiuwanmei，buzhishiduinanshichengzhiqinggandemolian，yeshilianggerenhuxiangmoheqidequanguocheng。zheiyiquanguochengshibukehuoquede。

 jiarubuyuanrangzishenyihouhuimoji，jiuxuyaoxuehaochuyubeidongyidian。rutong《hongmeigui》zheigelichangde：“wufadedaodeshizhongzaizaodong，beipianaidedoutuierqiuqici。”jinyouwufadedao，cailingrenyizhixiangyaoquzhuiqiuwanmei，xiangyaoquhuode，dandanghuodezhihoujiuhuibuaixi。

4.時刻维持新鲜感

 zailiangrenjiaowanghou，wubiyaoweichiyidingdejianjuhexinxiangan。mingquelianaiguanxihou，xunsuzuodaoleganqingdedianfeng，danzhangciyiwang，lianggerenzhujianshengshu。

 heshidejuli，shibicizhijiandezhongshi，yeshitishengzijideyouliangshineikongjian。youconghuidenvxing，nanrenhuijijitiejinta。zaiyigechongchizheshenmiganhecijixingdequanqiuli，nanrenyaoxiangzhangwoni，buduanjindaozheigeshijie。

 cengqifengshuo：“dangrenherenzhijianweichiheshidejuli，caikeyiyouzheyouliangderenjijiaowang。sheiyebuyuanbianchenghuangdao，sheiyebuyuanbianchengbeitunmeizaihuangdaozhongdeyiyuan。”

 julijiaoyuanyidian，guanxintishengzijidegongzuonengli，danduzixindenvrenshizuimeilide。dajiayouzheduozhongduoyangdequanqiu，dajiayouzheyuzhongbutongdefengcai，dajiabuyongguoduodejiji，nanrenzhongjiujiuhuibamuguangkanxiangleni。

 wulunshiyupenyou，huoshilianren，weichiyidingdejianjuhexinxiangan，guanlianjiuhuiyuelaiyueyuan。youyixieshierbuyuanrangnilejie，nibuyaozitaomeiqu。zuoziji，dangranyouxierenshouhou。

lianaixinlixue，mingbaikuanrong，caihuihuodezhenzhengdeaiqing。zhenzhengdeaiqingchixutigaozijidexingfu，shinijiandaozuihaodeziji。