三个感情小窍门 恋爱心理学

 qingganxinlizixun，zhenduiganqing，womenyaohaohaodizhaoliaota、yunyingta，erbukeyiyiweidiyouzhexingyulai，neiyanghuiranglingyifangzaoshousunhai，genghuirangzishenzaoshousunhai。yinci，wulunshiweilegenghaodibaohuziji。huoshiweihutaren，womendouyaoyouyufangkunjingdeguannian。lianaixinlixue，ganqingshirenmenyonghengbubiandezhutifengge，youqishiduiaiqingdezhuiqiuyudenghou，shimeiyigerendouchongjingeryouyiweiqikunaode。jinguanganqingshicuozongfuzaeryoumeiyouguilvxingkexunde。keshizheizaiqizhonghuoshiyouyixiebiaozhunhedadaolide，erdajiayeganghaoshihushilezheizhongcaiwujinleqinggandejinqude。

那麼下列这三个感情小窍门，就需要记牢。

分辨友情与爱情

youqingchongchizhe“chongyugan"，aiqingzechongchizhe“quefagan”。

 dangliangrenshiqinmiwujiandezuihaodepengyoushi，bicizhijiandouyinyouzheyiweizhixineryoudadaodexinqing；dandangliangrenyidanbianchenglianrenshi，jinguanqianqihuichuxianyishidechongyugan，kemeiduojiuyihou，jiuzaochengbumanzugan，zongqidaiyougengmingxiandeaiqingquebao，changchangyouyizhong“momingqimiaodequefa”weibansuizhe，yongyoumouleixinjidejuede。

 yaozhangwohaoyouqingyuaiqingdefencungan，zaiheyixingjiaowangquanguochengzhong，bumengpianziji，bupaixi。yaohaohaodifansizijixinlideganqingqushi，canzhaozhibiaozhi，zixidiguancha、ziwofansi。bingzuozonghefenxi，duiyouqingyuaiqingzuochuqiadangjiaodefenbian，caikeyizaixiangchuzhongwushifencungan，bujiyuqiuchengyebunengcuoguo。

静水长流

 qingganxinlizixun，mandishideaiqingreqingbenfang，danweilegenghaodishiaiqingwanshan，weilegenghaodibicideganqingzoudegengzhangyuan，dajiayingdangjiangtazhuanhuachengyizhongjingshuishenliushideai，zheijiushibicizhijianxiangyaoyulingyifangzaiqierqiebianchengzuiqinmiwujiandepenyou，jiazhongbicizhongjiandezhangwo，xianghuzhijiangengweirenweidetiexinheguanai。daozheishihou，caijiushinijuecewanhunhezhujianyitongrichangshenghuodeyouliangjihui。

qingjilaosuhuomusuhuomulinsijizai《guanyuaidesikao》zhongshuodehuaba：

 zaizhenzhenzhengzhengdeaiqingzhong，lixingyouliyuganqing，nengxiangganqingzhurenshehuidaodenengliang，shixinlizhutihuodongzaishehuidaodecengmianyuelaiyuegengweichonggao，erbushilixingzaoshouganqingbainong，burangrenfabuqujinjinjijiaozantongyudizhidejianyi。

信任

 aiqingchuangjiandejibenshibicidexianghuzhijianxinren。aiqingzuimizuzhenguideyeshihuxiangdexinren，yige“xin”zinanxuna，aiqingzhongdecaijishizuixianpohuailide。

 xinxiongkuanguangyixie，kuanhongdaliang，bubitingxinchuanyan，yongrenziraozhi，youyixieqingyiyagenshimeiyouyuanyinde，youxieshiwuhui，youxieshipaifengbaoying，youdebenlaishixiaotidazuo。

 yaolejie，yigerenchukaihezishendeqinglvxiangchuzhiwai，haixuyaogongzuozhong、xuexipeixun，haixuyaoyouyixiaokuaidandudebibukeshaodeshejiaomeitichengchi。zailingyifangkaizhanzheizhongyiqiezhengchangzhutihuodongshi，zennengwuyuanwugucaiyizhizeni？buran，jiuhuiyou“yongrenziraozhi”zhixianle。

 youhuashuozaidangzhong，bixushiyaolijitianbu。youyixiecaijishishuwuhuierzhi，yidanbahuashuokai，bashiernonggaoqingchu，wuhuidangkehuanranbingshi。buran，youhuabuyongshuo，menzaixinli，jiedihuiyuelaiyueda。

lianaixinlixue，jinyouyongxinrenzuobicizhijianaiqingdeturangheyangfen，caikeyijichujiaoyanyudidehuaban。