恋爱心理学 社会心理学中谈恋爱赔偿

 qingganxinlizixun，henduorendaoyidingdenianlingdoushihuimengfayaoxiangtanlianaideniantou，keshiyibufenrenyehuishouzhoubianyaosudeweihai，jinerbatanlianaizuoweiyigemeirirenwulaikaizhanjinxing。lianaixinlixue，youyixierenyehuiyouyubierenxiaizishenjineryezaochengyouhaodu。genjushehuixinlixuezhongdetanlianaipeichangxiaoyongjiukeyibiaoshuzheileilianqingzhuangkuang，xihuanyigerenyoukenengbingbingbushiqueshixiai，jinjinrendedanaozaochengdeyizhonghuanjuebale。

 zaishehuixinlixuezhongtanlianaipeichangxiaoyongshishifenyouyiside，guanjianjiushizhidangyouyigerenfajueyouxierenxiaizishendeqingkuangxia，bianhuiqingbuzijindeduixiaizishenderenzaochengyidingdeyouhaodu，erhuxiangzaochenghaoganduhou，liangrenbianchengqinglvdegailvhuijidaditigao。

 liruzaishenghuozhizhongnishifendegudan，yinciquchongwuyongpindianmailaiyizhimaoheyizhigou，tamenbiaoshuhaogandudefangfabianshiqucenglingyifangdeshenti，huoshiwenlingyifangshifangchuqudeteshuqiwei，bingqiehaihuijixutianlingyifangdetoufa。

 jiarupingshishenghuozhizhongtamenchangchanghuilaitiannihuoshigensuini，biaomingtamenshishifenyikaonide，yeshiduinichuanchuzhenchengdeshujuxinhao。

 yiyangrenyurenzhijianzaikaizhanxiangchudequanguochengzhizhong，dajiayehuigengxiangyaotongkuazanzishen、ziwoxinshang、jienazijiderenjiaowang，youyugenzheixierenjiaowangdehua，jiudaibiaozhezishenyouyizhongbeibaoweizhedeguishugan，yucitongshiyefuweilexintai。

 yiyangjiangzheileizhuangkuangyingyongdaoqingganzhizhong，ruguonihuozhiyouxierenduiniyouganjuedehua，niyejiuhuibuyouzizhudehuiguanxintaxianjieduandeshenghuoqingkuang，jiusuannitaoyanzheigerenyehuibeitadexinxisuoweihaizhe，tashiyizhongshifenyiqiezhengchangdexinlixuexiaoying。

 danhenduorenhuibuzijuedewenyixiaziji，zishenzenmehuizhuyitani？shifouzishenyeduitabaoyouyouhaodu？xiaozhaoyouyicishoukedeqingkuangxiatingzishendepenyoujianglinjubanjitidexiaomengxiaizishen。

 xiaozhaoyikaishibingmeibaoyounaxiehaoqixingan，keshixiaomengzhujianbujingyidejitasongli，haihuijixujitadaiyixielingshizheilei，jiushizheiyangzheiyiduanzhuiqiudeguanlianbuduanlesangeyuedeshijian，xiaozhaohuoshimeiyoutongyi，dangxiaomengjuecesheqideqingkuangxiaxiaozhaohuranyuelaiyueshifendekuangzao，gandaotadebanjitizhiyixiaomengweihenibuhuizaizhuiqiuwole，nandaoshuonizaoyitaoyanwolemeiyou？

 qingganxinlizixun，jiusuannimeixihuanxihuannideren，keshiniderendedanaoyehuiguanxintadequanbuxinxineirong，tajinqichanshengdeshierniderendedanaodoushihuiqingbuzijindequkaizhanjieshou，jinershinidexinliyuelaiyuetichuzhiyiqilai。jiaruyaoxiangtanlianai，shuangfangdoubaoyouyouhaodudehua，neimabianhuiyoudaliangdegailvzaiyiqile。

 zaitanlianaipeichangxiaoyongzaochengdeqingkuangxia，rendedanaozishenshifangchuyizhongbuzhengquedeshujuxinhao，shiniwuyiweizishenyeduilingyifangzaochengleyidingdexingquaihao，jinerzaiyihoudezhuiqiuquanguochengzhizhongyoukenengzaochengtongyilingyifangdefeilixing。

 tashizaishenghuozhizhonghenduorenhuipengdaodezhuangkuang，yibufenrenyehuiyouyulingyifangdesheqijinershenxianlehouhuimojidehuanjie，zheishishishangzhuyaoshiyinweirendedanaochuanchubuzhengquedeshujuxinhaojinerzaochengde。

 genjushehuixinlixuezhizhongdetanlianaipeichangxiaoyongkaizhanlixingdepouxi，niduitasuiranzaochengleyidingderenzhiduhuoshizaochengleyibufendehaogandu，keshibingbuyiweizheniqueshixiaita，nijinjinganjuegentazaiyiqichongmanleguishugan，quanburenhenxiangyoubeizhaoliao、beizhuiqiudeneileijuedebale。

 shishishangnenggouzhengshidejiushinizuihouhuoshixiaizishen，suiranhuizaibeibierenguanxindeqingkuangxiashenxiandaoyizhongzishenxiangyoudeqifenli，jianshaoletonglingyifangzhongjiandejianju。danyiyangyehuiweihaibenrenzaibeizhuiqiuzhizhongdepanduannengli，huizaochengzishenzaochengbuzhengquedenenggouyulingyifangtanlianaideshujuxinhao，zaishehuixinlixuezhizhongzheileixiangjindehuanjueshifeichangrongyiweihaipanduannenglide。

 tangruonizaishenghuozhizhongyouyigerengennishuo，woaideshinishuoaiwo，zheigeshihoubingbingbushibiaoshu。tashiaizhenide，zhishishuotaaideshitaziji，jiaruniqueshiaiyigeren，neimaninengmeiyouliyoudeduilingyifangkaizhantouru，zheiyeshiweishenmexuduonvshizaitanlianaidequanguochengzhizhongdonglezhenxinhuiyigunaodeweizhulingyifangzhuandeyuangu，ruguonibingbuxihuanyigerendehua，neimanizongshixiangyoutarangnichanshengdeguishugan，huigengrangzishenbianchengqianghandeyifangzhanyouzhudaoxing。

 jiarunizaibeizhuiqiuyihou，haibuquedingxingzishenjiujingshifouxiailingyifang，neinijiuwenyiwenzishengentazaiyiqidaodishiyaoxianghuodenaxie，huanjuhuashuoninengcongtaneibianganshoudaonaxie，jiarujinjinrendedanaochuanchudeyizhongbuzhengqueshujuxinhaodehua，neimajinkenengbubiyuanyi，buranbudanhuizaochengzishenshenxiantongchulibian，yehuirangzheiyiduanganqinghuashangyigebuxingdemowei。

 zenmepanduanshibushinishenaizhelingyifangderen，zuixiandajiabubibeiyigerensuibiandedadong，bubiyouyulingyifangdesanyanliangyuyoupianjiuaishanglelingyifang，youyuwulunshinayizhongjushizhichengde，jieguodoushihuizaochengnizaiyihouyulingyifangtanlianaideqingkuangxiajiqidehouhuimoji，youqishizainiqingxubodongjiaoweidadeqingkuangxia，qianwanbiesuibiandechengnuo，neiyangjiyoukenengzaocheng。zishenzaiyihoushenxianhouhuimojidechujing。

 xiaomengzailingchen1diandeqingkuangxiajieshoudaolaiyuanyuzhuiqiuzhefaguolaidexinxi，liangrenliaotianliaotianxiaomengjiuyuelaiyuelixingqilai，tadezhoubianpenyoudouzaoyitanlianaile，yincizaijiandaozhuiqiuzhejianchibuxiedemoyang，tazhujianchiyizishenxubuxuyaotongyile。

 dangriyelitawenzhuiqiuzishenderenshuo：“weishenmexihuanzishenzhuiqiuderen。”zhuiqiuzhehuiyingshuo：“wodanchundebianshizhongyini。”

 zheiyijuhuabenlaimeiyoushenmelebuqide，danbianshirangxiaomengdexintaizaochenglehendadeqifu，jinerxianchangjiutongyiyutazaiyiqile。

 di2tianzaochendeqingkuangxiaxiaomengchajuezijiduoleyigenanyoujiqidehouhuimoji，tanaizhigaobudongzishenweihebulizhishideyuanyileyulingyifangzaiyiqi，zheigeshihouyaoxiangtonglingyifangwanbiyeyouyixieyuxinherenle。

 zaitanlianaideqingkuangxia，yidingyaofenbianzishenjiujingshifouzhenzhengdeaizhelingyifang。ruguonijuedezishenxiaishanglingyifangdeqingkuangxia，lingyifangyezaireqingdezhuiqiunibiezhejizhedeyuanyi，zhishiyaoqutongtakaizhanjiaowang。

 yigezhenzhenzhengzhengduiniyouganjuederen，taduinixuguodemeiyicifuwuchengnuoquanshiyongxinde。erzaizheilishijishenghuozhizhong，xuduonanhaizizaitanlianaideqingkuangxiadoufeichangrongyikongkoushuobaihua，tashiyinweitamenyagenbulijiewanmeideaiqingshisha。

 jiaruzhenzhenzhengzhengaiyigerenshibiaolibuyide，jishijianglexuduodehuayanqiaoyutayehuiyaneryouxin，zheicaisuanshiaiyigerendezuihaoshizhuyaobiaoxian。youxierencengshuo：“zhenzhengdeaiqingwuxiedechonggaode”。

 lianaixinlixue，jiarunizaitongbierentanlianaidequanguochengzhizhong，yagenjiujiugaobudongzishenyulingyifangzaiyiqideshijiyiyi，neimahuoshizaisankaolv。shehuixinlixuedetanlianaipeichangjingjixiaoyishiwomenfeichangrongyizaishenghuozhizhongzaochengyouguantanlianaidecuowuxingwei，womenyaozaochengdangxinxinlizhuangtai，yaofangzhizheileihuanjuecainenggoupengdaoduideren。