放下一个人最好的方法，是坚持六个“字”

 aishangyigeren，nenggoushiyishunjiandeshijian。zaibicizhijianxiangfengdeyishunjian，fangxiayigerenzuihaodefangfashishenme？yigemuguangdeyuanyin，biannengrangbicizhijian，nongchuaiqingdehuohua，cihoubuqibuli，zaiyouzhangdecishengli，yiqimiaohuilanmandetonghuagushi。xinlixuezenmewangdiaoyigeren？

ganqingyouyifanfengshun，yehuilijingtiaozhanfengchuiyuda。

 dangliangrenzouruhunyinshenghuo，bansuizhebicizhijianquexiandebianda，congcimeifabaitouxielao，yaoxiangcongcixuehuifangxia，quebingbushiyijianfeichangrongyideshier；huaxuewuzhicengmiandekunhuo，yibanjinjinzhucide，2geshenaideren，congcitiaoxuangezi，cihouyilurendezhenshishenfenjiaowang，zhenxinshiyibingbushiyijianfeichangrongyideshier。

jiarudangyiqiedoubianweikeguanshishi，liangrenzhongguimeifaxiangshouxialai，zenmecainengbaozhengzhenzhenzhengzhengdexuehuifangxiani？

yuanfenwanbihou，bicideqidaihuisuizhegenggai。

 fangxiayigerenzuihaodefangfashishenme？zaiganqingzhujiandediqu，youyuanzhirenhuimanhuaixingfukuailedexiwang，qinfenqumanzuyanxiadeyuanfen。

 youyufenbiemanhuaizaiyiqidexiwang，yincijiusuanyoutiaozhan，biciyekeyijiangqiyiyibaituo，zuihougenjuganqingdemolian，bianchengdahuoeryanzhongdetianciliangyuanjiajuan。

danshi，dangbicizhijianzaiyebuhuiyifufudezhenshishenfenjiaowang，fenbiedeqidaizhiyehuichanshengbianhua。

xinlixuezhuanjiayiqianduiyuqidaizhiduibenrendeweihai，zuoleyigeshiyan。

 zuihoudedaoneiyangdejieguo，dangyigeren，duimoushichongmanxiwangshi，huibuzijuededuiqijiyuyidingdezhaoliao，qinfenrangshierxiangzheqidaidefangweifazhanqushi。

 danghunyinshenghuogaoyiduanluo，liangrenruoshixiwangzhe，cishengkeyiguodehaoyunyixie，jiuyingdangyou“buguansanqiershiyi”dexinlizhuangtai，gaiduandeduan、gailedele，neiyangcaikeyizaixiamianderixiangziliqingqingsongsongchuzhan，jinerbawoxindehaoyun。

 congshehuixinlixuedeshijiaokanlai，tangruoxiangcongcifangxiayigeren，zuihaoshidefangfa，shijianchibuxieliugezi，“budating”he“bujiuchanbuqing”。

不打听

zhenzhenzhengzhengxiangfangxiayigeren，bingbushinianniantaotao，buduanzeguaizhelingyifang。

 zuihaoshidefangfa，shiyibieyihou，cihougegugederichangshenghuo，qubawoguishuyuzishendexingfukuaile；qianwanbiejiuchanbuqing，gengbubiyouyiqudatinglingyifangdexinxineirong。

jibian，lingyifangzuoleyixie，baoqiannideshier，jiranbicizhijiantiaoxuangaoyiduanluo，yejiubiegezaixinzhongle。

liangrenzhongjian，meiyouaiqingketanle，keyixiaosadefenli，wuwaihuyizhongconghuidetiaoxuan。

 jiarushuo，niyizhijingjingdiguanxinta，yizhibaocuntadelianxidianhua，neimaxinliyefeichangrongyizaochengxindexiwang，suihouzaixindexinhanzhongpanghuang，zuihoushinimeifazhenzhenzhengzhengxuehuifangxianeiren。

不纠缠不清

xinlixuezenmewangdiaoyigeren？ganqingyuanqule，hunyinshenghuojieshule，jiububijiuchanbuqingxialaile。

 jiranzoudaozheiyibu，zugoubiaomingdajiadeyuanfen，zaoyizoudaozhongdian；jiarutakeyihehaoruchu，zaojiujiushizheiyangganle，dajiawangwangyouyanxiadejieguo，shiyouyuneiren，zaoyibuyuanyiaixile。

zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，niyirantiaoxuansipilailian，zongshishitayufabikaini。

 buyiburaodejieguo，zongshishinimeifaxuehuifangxiaxinlideguzhi，jiusuanpengdaolexindeyuanfen，niyemeiyouquzhangwodezixinxinhedanliang。

 tiaoxuanbujiuchanbuqing，budanshiwangjiyigerendefangfa，yeshihaohaodeaiziji，aixibijiaoyouxianshiguangdefangfa；yaolejie，shijiezheimeda，zongyouyigezhenxinshiyidainideren。

xinlixuezenmewangdiaoyigeren？yong“genghuandinglv”，qianyizishendezhuanzhuli。

zaimeiyigerendefazhanzhong，zongshihuipengdaoyixiebukaixindeyijianshi。

 dangpengdaoxintaidequantao，dajiayingdangruhecongmingdekandaini？congshehuixinlixuede“genghuandinglv”zhong，yekeyixunzhaojiejuedefangshi。

 genghuanjibendinglvjiushi，zaiwomenyouyixiangbuyaoxiangdejiyilihuoshishifumianxinxidexiguanxing，womendoushimeifachediququchu，zhiyouyongyizhongxindejiyilihuoxindexiguanxingqugenghuanta。

conggenghuandinglvkanlai，ruoyaojiangyigerenwanquanwangdiao，jiubixupeiyangxindexiguanxing，gengxinxiridejiyili。

fangxiayigerenzuihaodefangfashishenme？zaiwomendexinzhong，buhuizaibeiyiqiandezhuduosuozhanyou，jiuburongyibeizaicikunhuole。