家暴能改吗？

 suizhewangluochengweirenmenshenghuodeyibufen，shejiaowangluoyechengleweiquandezhongyaozhendi。jinnianlaizaiwangluoshangnaodefeifeiyangyangdegezhonggonggongshijianxiangxindajiadoubumosheng，biru“naobanniang”、“nvdaxueshengbeixingqin”dengdeng。mianduizheixiecengchubuqiongdezhenduinvxingdebaolishijian，bushaorenkenengdouhuigandaoyihuo：“weishenmewoshenbianconglaimeiyoufashengguozheiyangdeshiqingni？”

 lianheguociqiancengzhenduizhongguonvxingzaoshoubaolinvedaideqingkuangjinxingguodiaoyan，jieguoxianshi，39%denvxingchengrenzijicengjingzaoshouguobanlvdebaolixingwei，erchengrenzijicengjingduinvbanshibaodenanxinggengshigaoda52%。

 lingrentixiaojiefeideshi，jinguanjihubaifenzhibaiderendouzantongnannvyinggaipingdeng，danshirengyouchaoguoyibandenanxingrenwei，zaitedingdeshihou，nanrenyinggaiyunyongwulilaiweihuzijidemingyu。neimejiabaolianma？jiabaonenggaima？jiabaopanxingma？erdangbeiwendaoshifouzhidaojinzhijiabaoyijingbeixierulezhongguofalvshi，jinyouyibanderenbeidiaochazhe（bufennannv）biaoshizijimingquezhidaojiabaoweifa。

 jiabaonenggaima？xiangxinxuduotanguolianaidenvhaizidoucengjingmianlinguoleisidechangmian——xianghuanshangmeimeidelianyiqun，queyinweinanyoubutongyichuandezheime“baolu”zhihaozuoba。shubuzhizheiyijingshiyizhongqingweidekongzhixingwei。pingriliyixiexiyiweichangde“aidebiaoxian”，zhuigenjiudiqishishizailianaiguanxizhongliangxingquanlideboyi。liruyou“aidaobixushishikekezhidaoduifangshenchuhedi”，yijingsuanshibijiaoyanzhongdekongzhixingwei。

 nanxingsuocaiqudezuichangjiandebaolishouduanyouqingganbaoli、jingjizhicai、zhitibaolihexingbaoli。chulelengbaolihekongzhixingweizhiwai，haiyounenggouzaochenggengduoshanghaidezhitichongtu。chengrenzijicengjingduibanlvjinxingguozhitibaolidenanxinggengshigaoda44.7%，ergengyou20.5%denanxingchengrenzijiduibanlvjinxingguofeichangyanzhongdezhitibaoli。

 neimejiabaolianma？jiabaonenggaima？jiabaopanxingma？jiujingweihehuichanshengzheiyangxuanshudechayini？jinguankoutoushangrenrendourentongnannvpingdeng，danzaijutideshenghuochangjingzhong，rengranyouxuduoxingbieguanniangenshendigu。“jialidashitingtade，xiaoshitingwode”、“tabuxihuanwochuanchengzheiyang”yiji“nanzhuwainvzhunei，nvhaizijiuhaohaozaijialixiangfujiaozijiuhaole”。zheixiekansiyuedingsuchengdejianyijihuchongchizhemeigenvhaidechengzhangdaolu，erbushaonvxingzijisuiranshizheizhongxingbiepianjiandeshouhaizhe，danqueyemomodichenglejiaguzheixiepianjiandejiahaizhe。

 baolixingweiyebuzhifashengzaiqinmiguanxizhizhong，youwufenzhiyidenanxingchengrenzijicengjingshituqiangjianguozijidebanlvhuozheqitaren，yeyoujiangjinwufenzhiyidenvxingchengrenzijicengjingshouguoxingqinhai，chaoguosanchengdenvdaxueshengcengzaoshouguoxingsaoraohuoxingbaoli。diaochahaixianshi，xingqinhaishibaoduixiangdelaiyuanzhongbilizuigaodeshiqiannanyouhuozhelaogong，jinsuiqihouhaiyoulinju、moshengren、laoshiheqitajiatingchengyuan。erfashengzaimoshengrenzhijiandexingqinhaijinzhansuoyouanlide10.6%，gengduodedoushishurenzuoan。

 zaiwenjixingqinhaifashengdeyuanyinshi，86%dehuidalidoutidaole“yishixingqi”，58%denanxingtidaole“zhaolezihuozhewuliao”，ershengxiadeqitahuidayeyushehuishangchangjiandejiangguocuoquanbuzhixiangshouhaizhedelundiaodaxiangjingting，birunanfang“fennu”he“zuijiu”。

 zaoshouxingbaolinvedaidenvxingyibanhuixuanzechenmo，jinyou35%deshoufangzhehuijiangzijidezaoyugaosujiaren，7%derenhuixuanzebaojing。yiwaideshi，zaizhei35%yongyushuochuzijizaoyudenvxingzhong，zhiyou25%derennenggoudedaojiarendezhichi，gengyou45%derenhuibeijiarenzeguai、wushihuozhebeiyaoqiubaochichenmo。

 yexurengranhuiyourenyihuo，xianshishehuizhongnvxingdeshengcunhuanjingzhenderuciweijisifuma？jiabaolianma？jiabaonenggaima？jiabaopanxingma？daanshikendingde，zijishenbianmeiyoufashengguoleisideshi，budaibiaozhenduinvxingdebaolijiubucunzai，zheigeshijieyuanbi“wodeshenbian”dadeduo。