妻子外遇，孩子该怎么办

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　　母亲有外遇做为孩子该怎么办

　　视角一：理解与表达

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　　视角二：保护自己

　　cizhi，haizimenbixubaohuziji，baohanqingganhexinlijiankangfangmian。muqindejudongbingbudengyuhaizimenshibuzhengquede，tayinggaijilaozishenhenwugu。haizimenmeibiyaoqumaiyuanziji，yebuyinggaibazheileishibaidejinglishizuozijishenghuodejidingshishi。haizimenxuyaobaochileguandexintai，gengweizhenxizijiderichangshenghuo，bingxunqiuzhuanyexinlizhichilaibangzhuhuanjiexiaojiqingxu。

　　视角三：接纳家庭转变

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