男人有外遇女人该怎么办？需要采取哪些措施

　　waiyushijiatingguanxizhongfeichangmingandewenti。dangnvrenyongyouwaiyuyihou，tamenwangwanghuijuedejiqidebuanhepanbian。yiner，nvrentongchanghuizaifajuenanrenyouwaiyushigandaohentongkuhexinsuan。nanrenyouwaiyunvrengaizenmeban？yinci，ruguonihuaiyinidenanrenyouwaiyushi，nixuyaocaiqunaxiecuoshini？

　　从心理学角度而言

　　yizhizaixunzhaowaiyuzhengjuyiqian，womenxuyaocongshehuixinlixuedejiaodulaifenxiwomenzijidetihui。zaiwomentingjiannanrenyouwaiyudexiaoxishi，feichangrongyigandaofennu、xinhan、naizhibenkui。zheiyangdeqingxushizhengchang，danshiwomenxuyaomanmankongzhihaozijideqingxu，caikeyijiejuezheiyangdeshiqing。

　　zuixian，womenyaoshencengcizijineixin，sikaozijidetihui。shouxianyaolejiezishenzenmehuigandaobeishang，jiqizheileiyoushangshiruheyingxiangdajiarichangderichangshenghuo。yixienvrenkenengxianrushensi，xiangzhidaozijishifouduiyucishixingweizeren。shishishang，buguannazhongqingkuangxia，doumeiyouliyouhuidaozhiwomendeairenyubierenyouyitui。bubizeguaizishen，yebuyaozize。

　　cizhi，womenyinggairenzhenlejienanrentaiduhegerenxingwei。womenyinggaijinkenengguanchahejiaoliu，duinanrendedongzuoguancha，bingshizhezhangwonanrenshifouzhendeyouwaiyugerenxingwei。youshihou，nvrenwangwanghuichanshengbuzhenshixiangfahejiading，zheizhongguannianhuirangzhengchangdedeganqingshenghuozaochengyidingdeyingxiang。

　　用证据摆脱猜想

　　zaiwomenquedinglenanrenqueshiyouguowaiyuzhuangkuangshi，renmengaizenmeban？cike，womenyinggaigaoxiaodezhengjulaidapocaixiang。zhengjujiangbaokuohunyinchuguiliaotianjilu、duanxiaoxi、tongxunjiluyijiyixiezhijiedikonggao。

　　danshi，womenxuyaozhuyibaohuhaozijiyujiating。ruguoquerennanrenyouhunneichuguigerenxingwei，womenbunengqinglvdijiangzhengjugongbuyuzhong。womenkeyihejiatingzhuyaochengyuan、haopengyounaizhizhuanyerenyuantaolunzheigewenti，laihuoquxindexinxiyujianyi。zaifuzhuxingdongyiqian，dajiabierangzijixianrumafanheweixianjingdi。

　　怎样处理夫妻关系

　　zaiqudezhengjuyihou，womenxuyaokaolvzishendehunyinguanxi。womenyinggaitongguogezhongtujinglaikefuwaiyuxingweiduizishenzaochengdeshanghai。womenkeyijienaxinlifudao、canyuqingxuyizhi，huozhecanyuhunyinjiaoyukechengneirongdengfangshilaitigaofuqiguanxidekekaoxing。

　　nanrenyouwaiyunvrengaizenmeban，ruguowomenyaozhaohuizijidehunyinshenghuo，neiwomenyingjiaqiangyunanrendejiaoliu，jinxingchengxin、gongping、zhenchengdeduitan，bianyuhuiyingnantibingzhaochujiejuefangfa。womenbunengyinweinanrendeguoshierfangqilezheiduanhunyin，womenyaozaijuedinglihunzhiqianweitamentigongshucijiyu。