妻子有外遇怎么处理是最好办法？有什么建议

　　xuduorenyiqianxiangyaozheiyangyigewenti：zhiyaoduifangpaoqilezishenyinggaizenmeban？erzheiqizhonghenduorenhaipengjianlezheiyangdezhuangkuang：tamenduizijideguanlianchanshengzhiyi，danmeiquezaozhengjunenggouzhichitamendeguandian。zhenduizheiyangdeshike，haoduorengandaoshifenwunai。neiyang，jiarunizhiyizijiqiziyouwaiyu，quewufazhengming，gaizenmeban？qiziyouwaiyuzenmechulishizuihaobanfa，xiabian，congxinli、gerenxingweihejiaoliusangejiaodu，weiguangdajiyuxiangyingdejiejuefangan。

　　一、采用心理状态对策

　　zuixian，ruguonicaiyiqiziyouwaiyushi，womenxuyaoshixingdeshiyizhongpingjingde、lixingdexinlizhuangtai。youyu，bingfeimeiyigexijiedoushiyouguande，yebushimeiyigejiadingdoushizhengquede。guodujinzhang、kongjuhebijiaomingankenenghuizhishicuowudepanduan。zaizheishihou，womenxuyaojieshouzijidecaiyigan，bingbaochilixingdedanao。jilao，nixuyaodeshizhijiezhengju，erfeixiangxiang。

　　cizhi，jinkenengjianshaoqizidewaiyugerenxingweidecaice、haipahedanxin。yuefaxiangzhidaozhenxiang，niyuerongyizaodaocuican。womenxuyaobaochiziwodewendingxinghelizhiguanlinengli。ruguonijuedeguodubenkui，hebucaiquyixiexintaidiaozhengduice，rujianshenyundong、mingxiangxunlianhuozheyujiarenpengyoujiaotandeng，yihuanjienideyali。

　　二、更改个人行为

　　ruguonijuedezijideairenduizijidechuguixingweishi，niyinggaigengliuyidajiazhijiandegoutong。xiamianshiyixietiyi：

　　1.guanchanilaopodetongxunjilu。ruguonijuedenilaopoduinisahuangshi，guanchatatongxunjilushiyizhongyoujiandanyouyouxiaodebanfa。biru，yekeyichangshichaxunnilaoposhoujihuodiannao，huoshichaxuntashejiaozhanghaodeng。

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　　3.qiziyouwaiyuzenmechulishizuihaobanfa，liuyilaopoyuqinyoudejiaowang。youshihou，yekeyiconglaopoheqitaqinpenghaoyouzhijiandeduihuazhongxunzhaoguanyutawaiyudeanjianxiansuo。danshi，ruguonichangshiqucongyigeyaohaodepengyouchuhuodexinxishi，womenxuyaobaochijinshen，bingxiaoxinchulizheigeguanxi，yifangzheishibeichuanweimeitanhuoshijiekaichuquchanshenggengdadeshanghai。