老婆有了外遇如何对付第三者？作为丈夫应该如何应对

　　jiazhongshimeigerendouhaigang，danruguolaopoyoulewaiyu，zheiyihaigangbianhuibeihuihuai，jiatingdehexiejiuhuibeibaituo。zaoshouzheiyangdeshiqing，zuoweizhangfuyinggairuheyingduini？laopoyoulewaiyuruheduifudisanzhe，benwenjiangcongduogejiaodupouxilaopoyouwaiyugaizenmebanruhejiejuedisanzhewenti。

　　老婆有外遇该怎么办如何解决第三者

　　视角一：客观应对

　　zuixian，zuoweizhangfu，yingdangbaochilixinghelixing，bieyinqingxudebodongerzuodechongdongqueding。zaichongfenlejiewaiyudeqingkuangzhihou，kenenghelaopozuoxiahaohaoditanyitan，lejietaweiheyaowaiyu，shibushiyoushenmeqingkuangyaojiejue。tongshihaiyaozhengqiutaduiyunimendeguanxiguandianheniantou，kanyixianantinengfoujishijiejue。

　　视角二：寻找问题的症结

　　jiarulaopoyouwaiyu，neiyanghenkenengshiyinweidajiazhijianyoumouxiewenti，liruqueshaogoutong、xianghuzhijianhushideng。zaijiejuezheigewentideyucitongshi，yexuyaochulilaopodewaiyunanti。keyitongguozengjiaxianghuzhijiandejiaoliu、tishengguanlianrichangweihudengxingshiqujiejuewenti。

　　视角三：解决第三者

　　jiejuedisanzhekeyijiejuelaopowaiyunantidezhongyaozuchengbufen。yaolejiedisanzhedexianxiang，neinimenshifouzhidaonidechuxianhenimenzhijiandeganqingqingkuang。ruguotazhidao，neinikeyigentashuomingnidexintai，rangzailikainigennilaopodeshenghuozhuangtai。ruguotabulejie，neimenikeyixuanzehetagoutong，rangtamingbainimenzhijiandeganqingqingkuang，shitazixingliqu。jiarutabuyuanyilikai，neinikeyigenjufalvzhicaichuliwenti。

　　视角四：重建信任

　　laopoyoulewaiyuruheduifudisanzhe，jiarulaopoyouwaiyu，neiyanghenkenenghuipohuaidajiazhijiandexinren。zaichuliwentideyucitongshi，yexuyaozhongjianxinren。nengtongguozhenchenghechengshilailajinguanxi，lirugaozhilaoponidezhenshixiangfahetihui，rangqilejiezijideneixinshijie。tongshihaiyaobiaoxianchuzijidechengxinyukexinlaixing，ranglaopokanjiannidediaozhengheqinfen。