知道妻子外遇我坚决离婚，处理离婚纠纷的黄金时机有哪些？

 zhidaoqizi waiyu jianjuelihunshizenmeyangdebiaoxian?zhidaoqiziwaiyuwojianjuelihun，weidezhishibawochulilihunjiufendehuangjinshiji。zhongnianliaosaowaiyulihunshizenmeyangdeni?hehuazhenxiaobianyiqilejieyixiaba。

一、知道妻子外遇坚决离婚

zhidaoqiziwaiyuwojianjuelihun，chulilihunjiufendehuangjinshijiyounaxieni?

1、zhengquhaizidefuyangquanxuyaoshijian

 genjufalvguiding，lihunhouzaiburuqidezinvyimufangfuyangweiyuanze;liangzhousuiyixiadezinv，yibansuimufangshenghuo;manshizhousuidezinvyingdangkaolvqiyijian。chucizhiwai，fayuanzaishenlilihunandeshihoudouhuiyiyouliyuzinvchengzhangdeyuanze，panjuehaizifuyangquandeguishu。yinci，duiyuxiangyaohuodehaizifuyangquandeyifanglaishuo，jiuyingdangtizaozuohaoxiangguanzhunbeigongzuo，jianliqizijiduihaizizhangqiwending、jiankangdefuyangguanxi，bingbaocunhaoyouxiaodezhengju，yibianzaisusongshirangfaguankandaobenfangduihaizidezhangqipeiyangheguanai，quexinjianghaizipanjibenfangfuyangyouliyuhaizidechengzhang。

即使子女满十周岁，要加强或改变她/他对父母的选择，同样需要付大量的时间和精力。我曾经接手过的一个抚养权培育的案子，女方发现男方出轨的时候，她就开始咨询律师。全部律师都告诉她，抚养权的归属取决于女儿的意思，但没有告诉她女儿的选择是可以通过培养感情而改变的。于是，她近乎绝望了，因为她知道女儿一定会选择父亲。直至她遇到我，我把后面半句告诉她了。在接下来的半年时间里，我几乎每天都跟她通话，了解她和女儿的生活，给一些相处的意见。最后“奇迹”就这么发生了。 >> chuguiwaiyu!hunyinweiji!ruhekuaisuzhengjiuhunyin?

2、diaochahaohunyincunxuqijiandecaichanzhuangkuangxuyaoshijian

 zaidangjindelihunanjianzhong，wangwangshejidaliangfangchan、yinxingzhanghu、qiyeguquan、youjiazhengquandengdeng，dangshirenyeyoukenengtongguogezhongfangshizhuanyi、yinnicaichan。yinci，zaizhunbeilihundeqianqi，yingdangchenshuangfangguanxishangweichedinaojiangshi，zhankaicaichanzhuangkuangdiaochagongzuo，yinweicishiduifangdejingtixinghaibugao，jinxingdiaochagongzuodenanduxiangduilaishuogengdi，zhiyoudiaochahaohunyincunxuqijiandecaichanzhuangkuangcainengzaijianglaidesusongzhonggenghaodezhuzhangzijidequanyi。nibietianzhendiyiwei，dangnimeiyouzhangwoduifangyinxingzhanghudeshihou，fayuanhuiyigegeyinxingjinidiaocha;niyebietianzhendirenwei，duifangjingyingdeqiyekeyizhenshipinggutadejiazhi，nizuizhongkandaodewangwangshiqiyedewaizhang。

二、中年聊骚外遇离婚

zhongnianliaosaowaiyulihunshizenmeyangdeni?rendaozhongnian，weishenmehaiyaolihun?

1、zaizheiduanhunyinlidebudaozhangfudepeiban。

 doushuopeibanshizuizhangqingdegaobai，danhenshaoyounanrenkeyizaihunhoubasuoyoudejinglipeibanzaizijidelaoposhenbian，gengzhongyaodeshitamenhuibashiyekandebijiatingzhongyaohenduo，nanrendoujuedezijinulirangzijidelaopoguoshanggenghaoderizi，jiushibiaodachuzijideai。

 zaihenduonvrenkanlai，zhangfudepeibancainengrangnvrenganjuezijizaiaiqingzhongmeiyouxuancuoren，zijinaqingchunzuoweiduzhudehunyinshiyoujieguode，danshiruguozaihunyinlizhangshijiandebudaonanrendepeiban，huirangnvrenzaiaiqingzhonggandaoxinhuiyileng。

2、zijidecunzaigantaiboruo。

 duoshaonanrenzaihunqianchengnuozijifuzezhuanqianyangjia，nvrenfuzemaomeiruhua，danshihunhoudeshenghuobingbushiruci，nvrenbianchenglebaomu，bujinyaogongzuo，shanyanggongpo，zhaoguhaizi，shoushijiawu，meitianxiabanzuofandengdengyixiliedeshiqing。

 nanrenqulaopohuijiabujinjinshiweilezhaogujiaren，chuanzongjiedai，gengzhongyaodeshilianggerenkeyiyiqihuxiangpeiban，nvrenruguozaihunyinlicunzaigantaiguoboruo，jiuhuirangzijiduihunyinshiwang。

3、lianggerendeganqingyijingzoudaolejintou。

 rendaozhongnianyihou，yijingkanduoleshitaiyanliang，gengkanduolezhouweirenfuqibuheerxuanzelihun，buranyebuhuiyouneimeduofuqi，zaihaizigaokaodediertianjiuxuanzequminzhengjubanlilihun。

 aiqingdoushiyoubaozhiqide，meiyouaiqingdehunyinhennanweichixiaqu，lianggerenzaiyiqibujinweiquleziji，yeshanghaileduifanghaiburutizaofangshou，lianggerendoukeyijibiciliuyixieqingmian。